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KayW~ I got a BFN this morning. But not upset. I bought a whole bunch of pregnancy tests from the dollar store. Does the type of test really make a difference? I was sick of spending money on them. thoughts?
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Not even 3 hours after I tested, I wiped aliitle old looking blood. Just a little, but that is how my spotting starts. Not looking too good for me this time.
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Magicmarcy - looks like we are in the same boat. I had a BFN too. I use the dollar store test too. They are usually just as accurate especially on the day your period is suppose to come. I don't know much about for early detection. Today is 12 dpo I hope that I am like Chimerasai and test negative on day 12 and positive later. However, I am not goint to test again until Saturday or Sunday if AF doesn't start on time Friday.
Ladies ~ another BFN!!!!!!!! What a bummer. Hopefully I implant late. In know that in my past pregnancies, On Cd28 I still had a very very faint positive on hpt. So I am hoping this is the case.
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Hey girls, sorry about the BFN's..but remember, its not over until af shows her ugly face!! Dollar store test was what confirmed my first pregnancy at 14 dpo. I was so sick of BFN's that I didn't test earlier but I will start testing at 12 dpiui this time (which is Tuesday). I am scheduled for pregnancy test (blood work) at docs office next Friday.. Good luck to you girls testing right now!!!!!
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Magic....I am so sorry for you............I am starting to lose hope I cant be lucky enough that it will work the first time.
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Hey guys! Being I kinda stuck my nose into this thread, sorry about that by the way, I thought I would join in!! :) Here is my story: My hubby and I got married last October and took a late honeymoon in January, when we got back we decided to stop trying to prevent pregnancy. 10 days later, I was preggers! It was great! Unfortunately at 10 1/2 weeks I had a miscarriage. I then bled for 3 months on and off. My dr decided it was due to not ovulating and he put me on clomid. My cycles were more regular, but still no pregnancy. My fourth round of clomid was just last month and I spotted pretty much the whole cycle and then I was 5 days late with BFN tests. My body was really playing sick mind games with me! So now I am on provera to induce my period and then I will start femara on days 3-7. We acutally got my husband checked today to make sure everything was okay with him. So, I have some ? for you ladies...Have you ever had your DH checked? He has to go into a little cup and my DH usually can go a lot with penetration, but it seemed like today there was hardly anything that came out....lots of pressure to go into the cup, keep the cup sterile, all that stuff. Has anyone else had the same issue? Thanks for your help!
Magicmarcy-So sorry about AF showing her ugly face, we will be in it together for November! Hang in there dear! Trying4myfirst-Keep your head up, as hard as it is! One of my co-workers had major fertility issues and ended up pregnant with IVF. She told me to stop thinking about it every second, because pretty much that is what you do! Have a few drinks, she convinced me it was okay even if I was pregnant in the VERY early stages. I am only 24 and I don't want to waste my life away waiting for my BFP! Keep enjoying life, and it will happen someday! KayW-Any news? Rooting for you! Chimerasai-How are you feeling? Hopefully the morning sickeness hasn't found you! The 10th will be here soon enough! For everyone else, hang in there! This website provides so much support! Sorry for such a long post, hopefully everyone has a great day!
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KayW~… sorry about your BFN, but I still have hope for you. For me, on the other hand...it's ok. I only wiped stuff this morning, so for safety reasons I put a mini pad on, but so far nothing else. It still feels like AF is coming. We have had a pretty eventful day in my family with other things, so thankfully my mind has been distracted today and will be tomorrow too. Gurinsa~...you are right! It's not over until AF shows her ugly face....and man is she UGLY! LOL! Hopeful in 2008~...my husband was tested eventually. I think it was more of a pride thing to get him to do it, but he did do it and all was good. But until you know that part it could just be anything. I tell ya, once he was tested and we found out it wasn't him or I, what a relief it was because we both thought something was wrong with us....and we were good. And that happens, so get your hubby tested if he will do it. It is hard for man to think that something is wrong with him, but assure him no matter what you will figure it out together. Trying for my first~…don’t’ lose hope. It will happen one day. It could be today, tomorrow or a month from now, but I am confident it will happen!
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Magicmacy~ don;t give up hope on this month. The spotting could be implantation bleeding and maybe it was too early to test or maybe the test wasn't good. But spotting and feeling like AF is coming has always been a positive sign for me. When is your AF due? ...........hopeful ~ Thanks for your support. I wish you luck in getting a BFP very soon. My DH was checked at our last RE and they said his sperm count was good. Now that we are at out current RE, when we went to have first IUI, sperm count post was was 800,000, that's because there was little sperm to begin with before the wash. DH told me after he gave his sample that "it wasn't a good one because he felt the movies were horrible that they had to facilitate orgasm. On the next IUI I told him to bring his own "aid- movie" when he gives his sample and count was 23 million pre wash and 2.8 million post wash. The post wash count would have been higher but we only had the female sperm inserted. So I think that the pressure of going in the cup does affect results. Maybe I should get my DH to try to produce sample at home next time! .....
gurinsa & tryin ~ best of luck in getting your BFP!!!!!!
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I couldn't wait so I tested 10dpiui and got a BFN but I am not worries I am going to stay positive and hope that I will get that BFP in a few days!!!!!!!! Good luck all!!!!!!!!!!!!
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ok ladies...I tested again and still BFN. But no AF. I am officially 3 days late now. I have still wiped alittle brown her and there, but nothing huge. Chimerasai~...when did your BFP show up on urine? how many days before or after your cycle due date?
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AF showed her ugly face today. I cried, but it's ok. Take 2! So I will keep you posted on everything, IUI #2 should be on or around the 14th of Nov. KayW~...How are you? Trying4myfirst~....How are you? Everyone has been quiet lately. Chimerasai~...How are you feeling? Ultrasound soon right?
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My update....AF did show her face on Friday, a little disappointing but I was ready to face it as I didn't really feel that I was pregnant. I'm going to have to sit this cycle out as DH will be out of the state when ovulation time occurs. So I will try again next month............magicmarcy, hold on BFP is coming........tryin and hopeful.......keep us updated and much baby dust to you
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Magic & KayW sorry about AF showing up :(...................Took a HPT today 13dpiui and it was a BFN the RE told me to wait until Wednesday but of course I couldn't I am quickly losing hope but AF has not shown her ugly face yet...If she does show up I will have to sit this cycle out too RE is doing Lapo on the 13th not looking forward to that....I will keep you all posted.
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Hey ladies, I am so sorry to those who had the dreaded AF visit....hang in there! I am devestated today. My dr called and had my DH sperm analysis....and things were not good. He had a low count and low motility. So our next step is IUI. I just am completely lost, I don't know how I could ever live our life without children! I am still hoping and praying for a miracle, but I know now that our chances are small. I guess my first pregnancy was a complete fluke! Seriously, what are the chances, then to have it end in a m/c? I am sorry to be a downer today, but it is just a very difficult day, and to make things worse I start a new job tonight. I am a nurse and I am by myself and I am scared to death! Let me know if you all have any success stories with a pregnancy even if there is a low count and low motility! Thank you so much!
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hopeful........... So sorry to hear of the bad news. I am a newer nurse and i know how scary it is starting a new job, i don't think the stress from our jobs helps us in ttc at all. I'll keep you in my prayers dear!
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Well AF should her ugly face today and I am devastated looks like Lapo is the next step it just seems like with every passing month my faith and hope diminish more and more. My friends and family all tell me it will happen when the time is right or when its supose to happen and I just smile and agree but what I am really feeling is it is never going to happen its never going to be meant to be for me. I am being punished for things I did in the past that is the only explanation for why this is happening to me. None of the women in my family on my mother or fathers side ever had any trouble conceiving thats why this doesnt make any sense. I am sorry for just going on and on about this but you guys are the only ones that understand me. Oh I just want to scream and hit something.
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