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i'm another one with this problem i think about it day and night drive everyone crazy to the point some people now avoid me because they just don't know what to say to me any more i am for ever thinking i have symptoms and notice everyone that is pregnant at one stage i had my sister step-mum and sister-in-law all pregnant at once and it always felt like they were all trying to rub it into me because they were excited and told everyone every thing that went on in the pregnancy and it always felt like they were doing it to me on perpose although i now relise they weren't but it just hurt expecally because none of them were trying sorry i just need to vent

know what u mean, in march of this year i found out i was 3 mths pregnant and in the same sentence the doctor told me that i had a to have surgery the baby was in my tube still to this day i have night mares of everything after 7 years of trying and this happens it makes me wonder. i am still going thrugh test and due for another hgs tuesday

I have been trying since Jan this year and after temping for a few months, saw an unsustained shift in my temps. In ither words, I am not ovulating. It totallyshocked me since I get a period every month for 3-5 days and have not been diagnosed with anything. After consulting with ym ob/gyn she said to go to a specialist. My appt is in Oct. I just feel like a failure as a woman and don't want ot disappoint my hubby, who is fabulous through out this whole thing. I think I am becoming obsessed with the baby thing since I do nothing but research on the internet about meds, PCOS and anything else that can be my problem. Sigh...What a disappointment.

lifes not fair. why is it that all the people that have been trying for years for a bub and have everything to supposrt their child with are the ones that cant concieve, whereas you always see these young 15 year olds down the street ready to drop anyday. it just makes me so angry. they havent even finished school. they cant provide for their child! At least we can give our children to be a life that they deserve. i wish you all the luck. baby dust to all.

Its really hard isn't it-No-one can undertsand unless they are going through it too. I haven't told anyone about it because I would just cry if anyone asked me but it gets very lonely! readng on this site is helpful as you know that you are not alone and not mad! But me too-I think of nothing else-I am surprised I can even function at work some days!

I have been doing ok the last couple days but I have to say I think what is helping me is that my friend let me babysit last weekend and maybe this weekend. I took the baby last weekend and I could not help but think how much I wish he was mine. I cryed for about an hour when I had to take down the playpen he sleeped in.

You are definately not crazy. I feel the same way. Everyone I know is getting pregnant and I have no idea why I can't. I am obsessed with the thought of having a baby and can't figure out why after trying for a year why I can't.

Girl when i look at ur story i was thinking hmm did i write this cuz i have been ttc for 8 months and 2 weeks ago my SIL tells me she prego i just wanted to cry but of course i tell her i was happy for her then wonder how in the world is she pregnant again she dont even take care of the daughter she has she has her parents raisin it . It just dont seem fair to me What have i done wrong ... man this sucks im sorry just venting too

I am in the same boat as you guys. I have been TTC for almost 4 years and have PCOS which keeps me from having periods so I have been going to an RE and spending close to $900 a month on meds and IUI while everyone I know is getting pregnant while not trying or not wanting to. I can't help but wonder why people who don't even want kids get pregnant and those of us who really do want them have such a hard time. Having a child consumes my thoughts, I find it hard to focus on anything else (although since using these threads I have been a little better). It drives me crazy when people ask when I am going to get around to having kids and those who know I am struggling with it are constantly asking me if I am pregnant yet. One young, single dumb girl I work with (my office is 4 girls and we are really close) asks me once a week if I am pregnant yet and tells me I need to get pregnant. She is always talking about how she is going to plan all her pregnancies when she gets married so that the babies will be born in the months she wants, etc. She doesn't get that not everyone can just get pregnant. Well, thank you for letting me vent. I have been on another thread but everyone there has only been trying for a little bit it seems. A few have gotten pg after 2 months of TTC and while I am happy for them I feel like I can not vent on that thread with out them thinking that I am mad at them.