TTC IN MAY THROUGH FRIENDSHIP AND SUPPORT #3
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mommywannabe - May 8

Tanya, same here. I don't have those feelings for him anymore but I guess like you I never let the "old ones" go. I don't know, all I know is I felt so upset the time and I felt sick for being so upset about it because I was with the man I love DH so why would I be mad at an ex. LOL!!! Who knows???

 

JoTrapp - May 8

My DH is really supportive, but he's never fathered a child he is worried it may be him. But I was telling him that I do not have a cycle so I'm not ovulating. I'm looking forward to our test next week so we can move on to the next step. I have been driving my co-worker crazy with all my baby talk and I even told them about the site I was so excited about all the support. I think I have talked my husband to death about babies but I'm just ready to be a mother.

 

ROBYN - May 8

Hey may favorite girlies... Just got back from the pool it was beautiful. Definitely want a 2nd home here to eventually retire to. Of couse with our hurricane season it could all be gone in a second so thats what really scares me. At least where we live now we are so close to the Everglades you are never evacuated but in the Keys your constantly evacuated. Anyways.... Welcome JO - you have found a great support group my hubby has had to give several "drop off" these girls know we make a joke out of it with my hubby i actually have taken pics of him posing with his little cup. After a while it really becomes no big deal for them. I wish you luck. RHONDA - you are in my thoughts hope the surgery is going well and check in when you can. GIRLS - i was thinking today i just realized that in 3 weeks i could technically be pregnant again!! The IVF nurse told me yesterday that 3 of the frozen embryos are in a blastocyst stage so thats great there actually ahead of being an embie. We have decided if all 3 make to thaw than we are transferring all 3. I hope i am not gonna be making the wrong decision with transferring all 3 but i guess we will see what makes it when the time comes. Anyways love to all of you will try and check in later.

 

JoTrapp - May 8

Thanks for all the welcomes, I will be sure to keep everyone posted on my journey. Hey ladies, what happens when my DH drop off the sample? The doctor never really explained. Will he have an exam or is it simple just making the appointment and dropping it off. And how long do it take for the results. I'm trying to get him to do it before Monday because I have a follow-up on Thursday. I'm hoping to start clomid. Also I was wondering too if I should get an ovulation kit to see if I will ovulate without provera and clomid but I'm not sure how it works because I'm not regular. Can someone help to figure it out. My CD1 was May 23 and it last five days exactly. So what day should I be most fertility.

 

NicoleM - May 8

I hate the stinking 2ww!!! You'd think after over 3 years that I wouldn't get so worked up, but I guess my hopes are up with the clomid... ROBYN, do live in Ft. Lauderdale area?? I lived in Tampa almost all my life (until dh and I moved here). It sounds like you're having a blast - I'm so jealous! I'll actually be in Tampa May 21-26. My much younger sister is graduating hs. JOTRAPP (is your name Jo - can we call you that?) I don't know if every place does it the same way, but we got some paperwork from the clinic office that we just had to bring with us to the hospital when we dropped off the sample. All I did was run in and give them the cup and paperwork and then I left. I think they get the results pretty quickly, but I don't remember exactly how long it was... they have to do the tests right away while the sample is still fresh. TANYA, yep, he's a doctor - he was relieved that the hospital they had us bring the sample to was the one he didn't work at at the time. ;o)

 

JoTrapp - May 8

NicoleM , Jo is fine,

 

mommy2josh - May 8

Lol, Nicole. Robyn, you are absolutely making the right decision. God has a plan for us, or if not god, we are destined by certain energies around us. If that plan is for you to have more then one, would that be so terrible? You know that Jason is awesome, and I think we love him here to because he is so good to you. And you know he will be a hands on daddy. Dont stress, this is good news. I am glad that you are having fun in the Keys. I was there once and I found it fun to visit, but I wasnt crazy enough to make a return trip any time soon. The sheds that they pass for houses there, which are the size of my living room + kitchen run a mil. That is INSANE. Which hotel are you staying in. My appointment is at 4:30 tomorrow. I need to get a list of questions together so I dont forget anything. Jen, I am glad you popped by. How are you. Has anyone heard from Brooke?

 

ROBYN - May 8

Hey girls, NICOLE we live closer to Boca Raton north of Ft Laud but i say Ft Laud because most people dont know the other cities unless they are familiar with the area. TANYA - We are staying at the Banyan Resort we stay here all the time each room is always different and we have a kitchen and since we like to cook it works well for us. I just open my doors and i am litterally 10 feet from the pool. Anyway thanks so much for those words they really mean alot and I agree Jason is a wonderful husband and hes a great stepdad to Anthony Anthony now calls him daddy. As long as he doesnt say it in front of the ex- were ok LOL. JO - just like the girls said its a drop off and some paperwork i think it took a couple of weeks to get results. We have no male factor issues. I am the issue with scar tissue around the ovaries. TANYA - i hear ya about the keys we love the old "conch" homes thats what they are called and you aint shittin they are close to a million down here and you dont get much its just a different life down here its hard to beleive its even part of Florida and we are Floridians and we say that everytime we come here. We bought a beautiful island style chest for our 1st wedding anniv gift to each other i cant even explain it its just absolutely gorgeous and a one of a kind piece so it makes it more special. It matches our bedroom we have done it all in a Key West style type of decorating. Anyway will check in later. RHONDA - hope your doing well. KATT - whats up girlfriend!!

 

Katt - May 8

Good Evening Ladies! My, My have y'all been busy! Nothing new here so I guess I'll shove on... CHRISTIE_ Here's wishing you a BFP tomorrow! (Some girls don't get bfp's until 16dpo so hang in there. I always look to ovusoft.com's chart posts for hope) TANYA_ Yup, we're totally on the same page ;) Hell we're even perfect cycle buddies as I am cd2 as well!!! ROBYN_ I have clicked "poor taste" on her ass numerous times and does not good. It's like AF, it just keeps coming back! JAMIE_ Some choose not to get help. I am betting she's one of em. RHONDA_ I am keeping you in my thoughts. KATHY_ We are thrilled you started the thread. I certainly wouldn't want her to get her hands on another one! NICOLEM_ Thanks for the chin up! I hope it all works out too. No, I do not believe he is checking follies. He is like 35 miles away and gas prices are $3.10/gal so I am not sure I'd even go. When he did the PC I had 8 on one said and a good one on the other so I suspect I am ok. I just hope dh's swimmers make it through the wash!! I'll be asking for many prayers that day. It is looking like May 19th. ERIN_ Thanks for sharing. I feel like a heel for not telling my short version, but it all boils down to timing and I have actually hung out with my friend with dh's permission when I went to Idaho in 05. That was just before his separation. He told me he still loved me. It was quite a "mess." There was a part of me that just wanted to stay and not go back to WV at all. Even after all the emotions and everything I realize that deep down all men are the same just have different interests and he loves his guitar and I hate it. Some things are that simple. I divorced my first hubby in part because of his band lifestyle, etc. Speaking of my X hubby,.. I wound up cheating on him with my "friend" (we weren't married yet and I was 18) on a Graduation Getaway present from my Mom & Dad to visit friends back in Idaho. (I was living in Ohio at the time). I do really miss it out there. WELCOMES TO JOTRAPP!! JO_ It is truely difficult to get the men to perform in a cup. You'd think it would be easy after all the practice they got throughout life, lol! I turned it around and played the needy woman on a mission to guilt trip his ass - that worked wonders! Where are you from? Is your name Jo? NATASHA_ always looking forward to your next post! Congrats again!! ERIN & NICOLEM_ My dh did that too, haha. He is in for it come IUI day as HUntington is too far away to do that so he has to do it at the lab!! Afternoon JLP! ERIN & TANYA_ I guess I am the odd lady out on the "flame" issue, lol. ROBYN_ 3 weeks can come and go fast, too! Exciting! JO_ Be sure to keep the speciman warm and drop itoff to the testing area firs tso they can incubate it! It is 720pm and I need to check Email and the other thread miss thing called an intervention, lol! Goodnight, sleep tight, and for all our sakes don't let Aunt Flo bite! heehee! LUVYAS!

 

wannabeamom - May 8

Hi Girls! Welcome Jo! I really didn't get DH to do SA (semen analysis), my doctor did! I made him go to the appointment with me. My doctor told him before I take any medicine or tests he had to do the SA. He has since BD'd with a sterile cup 5 times. He is not really happy about it but his count is so high that he likes hearing the #'s. My doc called him a champ! I go on Friday for a cd17 progesterone check then May 25 for pg test. Robyn sounds like you are having a great time! Good for you! I hope you are pg in 3 weeks! Katt what cd areyou on? I hope everyone has a great night.

 

Katt - May 8

bumpity, bump bump... thumpity thump thump... hahahahahahahahahahahaha

 

wannabeamom - May 8

Sorry Christie I hope your test gives you great news!

 

Katt - May 8

KATHY_ Wow I was bumping up the thread and you posted on me, lol! I am CD2 today!Oh Kathy I am so wishing high progesterone numbers for you!!

 

Katt - May 8

that's twice! ROLMAO

 

Katt - May 8

LOOK AT THE TIMES, hahaha

 

wannabeamom - May 9

OMG! Katt you are too funny!!

 

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