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hey everyone!! damn ya'll have been busy...lol congratulations leslie on your baby boy.i bet he is a little doll.jamie-i missed ya'll too! how are you doing? robyn and rhonda-i'll be praying for the both of you. kay-this thread is not for you to judge other people or any other kinds of negativity.hello to everyone else.

As i said before i was not pointing fingers at anyone on here,i was just saying what is available.Maybe i not posted but have read on here alot of times.So robyn if it dont take this time are you gonna waste more time and money on ivf?Sometimes it never happens.jd who was i judging?answer me that.mommytojosh so my comment was strange?which comment?thanks to you katt you seemed to welcome me.welp ta ta peeps.

TANYA_ This is the 2nd time I have had that problem with the opk's. I guess I just missed it, either that or I got a bad batch of tests. haha most likely not so much ;) KAY_ How about you tone down your comments ie instead of "So robyn if it dont take this time are you gonna waste more time and money on ivf?" how about saying "robyn,sorry your are struggling I hope everything works out for you." If ya cannot do that then my welcome wasn't worth it ;) GIRLS_ how about we give Kay a chance? It seems she is having some transference issues. It's all good. I am going to bed. Play nice ;)

im sorry i have sounded so harsh to you.i dont mean to sound so mean.im sorry.to the girl i was referring to in the first place i am truly sorry i did not mean it the way it sounded.robyn i hope you have luck with your ivf getting you what you want.katt i did not mean to sound so horrible i am ttc and not having any luck then you have people that cant even afford the kids they have and they just keep getting pregnant.sorry not trying to step over the line but im sure you know what i mean.have a good night.

Girls, just ignore Kay...she's been all over the forum tonight being completely obnoxious about stuff she's posted here. Good luck to you all :)

and i have been apologizing to people left and right and my apology is sincere as it can be.

Sorry to bust in on your post, Kay I am glad you are apologizing but maybe you should think before saying terrible things about other people, you may think about having your other post removed. Robyn I just wanted to say be strong and try not to stress too much about anything, it is good to have a place where you can talk to people and get the support you need. I wish you and the rest of the girls happy healthy pregnancies or BFP's if you are not pregs yet.

Hi girls ... ROBYN, I am thinking of you and sending cyber hugs and good vibes your way ... you have remained so strong during the time that I've known you, please stay that way, you can do this!! HUGS and KISSES!!! LESLIE, congrats on giving birth to Joey, I love that name ... what a huge blessing to have a healthy baby and a smooth delivery. I know what you mean about that hypoglaucemic reaction, I have been getting them this whole pregnancy and the symptoms sound the same, especially having difficulty speaking, which is pretty scary. CMEL, I really hope that you will have some embryos to have transferred ... I will be thinking of you. KATT, remember that I never had a +OPK the cycle that I got pg, so anything is possible. BROOKE' so happy that you saw the baby, it makes it all so real ... I remember after my first u/s at 14 weeks, I remember thinking that OMG, there really is a baby in there! I hope that everything continues to go well. TANYA, I hope you and DH are doing OK ... my family just got some bad news, my MIL has a growth on her liver and will be having surgery in the next couple of days, the doctors are thinking it's cancer, but they won't know until they do a biopsy ... I am so fed up of hearing the word cancer. CHRISTINE, how are you? Well, all I have say about the recent stupidity on our thread is that I think it's sad that some people have such lonely and empty lives that they have to do things like this to fulfill themselves, and I choose to ignore crackpots like that ... that being said ... is it time for PART 2 YET???

Hey girls - ok I dont know who this chick is starting shit on here but I am really pissed off. Kay I have never once posted to you I dont appreciate you asking me if I am going to waste my time on spending more money on IVF. But if you must know I have already paid for 6 IVF cycles I have 5 left. I already have a 8 year old son I am capable of getting pregnant. But if you also must know I had a 3rd kidney removed when I was baby which put a lot of scar tissue around my ovaries. So IVF for me is a way to bypass the scar tissue and cause any damage to my intestines or uterus. So thanks for your deep concern but my friends on here know me pretty well and know my situation and I respect them for that. If you would like to post on here its only positive people that are welcome. I held my comments back last night but when I came on here this morning to ask if I was going to be wasting any more money on IVF that pissed me off.

Could someone please start part 2????

Anybody else on here experiencing de javu? Robyn, dont get yourself upset. Just ignore her and she will go away. Focus on us. We will be your strenghth and support if need arise. No negativity. You dont need that right now girl. Rhonda, since its all too obvious that the discussion was about you, I dont want you to listen to any of this nonesense. Just because one can not afford it, it does not mean that one should not become a mother again, again and again. Its a struggle no matter which way you are looking at it. You have been a dear, caring and supportive friend to me, and if I could, I would help you. Things will get better, this is America after all. :) Kelley, I am sorry to hear about your MIL. I truly hope that thing will turn out well. I have mention before that I lost both of my parents to cancer. My mom died of colon cancer when I was 9 and my father of lymphoma when I was 25 and pregnant with DS. Cancer is a horendous desease that effects the entire family and I pray that you dont have to deal with it. ((((hugs to you and your DH)))) Mel, when will you hear more on the embrios? I am keeping my fingers crossed. Katt, are you doing follow up blood work to see if you O'd? It is strange about OPK. I dont know anything about temps, but what does your software say about it? DId you O according to your chart? Good luck in the 2ww. Jen how are you honey? Where are you in your cycle? Jamie you are such a sweety, I wish you luck with your next IUI. I may be heading in the same direction. I feel so scared about my RE appointment, its only 5 days away. Kathy, Erin, Gayle, Christine, Leslie, Tan, Brooke, Shauna how are you ladies. Hope everyone is having a nice day. Robyn is right, we need a part 2. Who will be the brave woman to start one? Love yas, be back in a little bit.

Hey there. I dont know how we attract all this negative attention. Maybe we are too nice and welcoming??? Is that even possible??? The header should say if you are miserable with your life, dont stay here. If you are miserable with TTC, come join the club. lol. I am so happy for leslie. Cant wait to hear about Sadie's arrival. Robyn. Hopefully this will be the last ivf. ((((lots of sticky babydust)))) I would start the new thread but I am not preggers yet. I think one of you should do it, brought us good luck so far!!! Have a great weekend ladies. Oh and by the way just for all your knowledge...Our old annoyance DOES still post on this website ( might be the same person as new annoyance ) so ignore her/him. OKAY ladies love yah bye bye.

Shauna, I was thinking the same thing, just didnt want to say it.

Hi girls how are you all doing?I know we dont need any negative thoughts or postings on here.Im sorry girls but i have to say something to kay.Kay i have never spoken to you on any thread that i remember and i know you are referring to me with your bullshit post and i dont appreciate it.If you want to cause troble for us on here i will contact the editor and have you thrown off this site,these ladies on here have been through so much and they are the most wonderful people i have ever came across on this forum and it is people like you that mess up these sites.These ladies are my friends and i feel very comfortable talking with them about anything i choose.Thanks for kicking me in the dirt i really appreciate it alot,i guess the world is full of indecent people all you have shown is how immature you are.Im sorry girls for whoever this person is.Robyn dont ever let dumb people upset you,it is not worth it.Your a very wonderful,caring,loving woman and your my friend.And we are all here for you always.Well me and Mark are getting ready to go put in some applications in the next town to us and my fingers are crossed we will have some luck finding him a job.I love each one of you girls that are apart of this thread and you have all given me so much support.I also agree it is time for another thread.I think Robyn should start the thread.HUGS to all my girls.

Geeze. I cacn't believe what people actually think is ok to say. Very harsh. Let's ignor and move on. Robyn don't give up hope. Katt-- that's just weird. Rhonda-- your still in my prayers. Hope you guys have a good christmas. If i had more money right now i would send you some goodies. This month is a little tight since we had to spend so much on DH getting stuff ready for the academy. Did you get the toys and stuff from the pantry? Good luck. brooke-- when you got to see the little bean could you make out arms and legs? When i saw myne it was just a blob. The next apt. i have is on Dec-20. By then it should be very clear. Tanya--how is your family hanging in ? Hello to everyone

First off a big congrats to Leslie on her son. I bet he is a very cute baby. Kelley- sorry to hear that the symptoms didnt lead to labor and that you didnt get to find out how much youve dialated. My next apt is Monday and Im going to ask them to do a exam just so I can see if anything is going to happen naturally before Friday. Its kind of a relief knowing that I will have him in the next week no matter what. All this recent negative comments saddens me. All of the women on this post are wonderful, supportive, and caring and I could never speak ill of any of you. We all have different situations but its being able to stick together and support one another that helps us get through the hard times. I know that some have it harder than others but no one should be denied the right of motherhood just because of a situation that someone else may find wrong to them. Robyn- Please ignore the negative it will only cause stress. I am praying for only the best for you and yours. Kelley- Im so sorry about your MIL I hope that everything will come back ok. Kay- Im sure that your apologies are sincere but I do have to admit that some of the comments you made were mean. You may not have meant for them to sound that way but they did. I welcome you to stay but please try to make sure that you post in a positive way. I understand that you may be on a hard journey and have a lot of bad things that have happened but theres no reason to give up hope and you shouldnt try to destroy others hope either. These women mean a great deal to me and I hope that if you join us you can learn to be more accepting of what others are going through so that we can help you through your troubles. Well Hi to all the ladies that I didnt get to! Im off to bed now. Luv Yas and I will check in later.