The best mommies part 14.....never leaving each other behind
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babyforcole - September 15

awwwww bina, congrats on double trouble. lol.....that's the greatest thing.

 

Jairia - September 15

I just wanted you all to know that I have followed this thread as well as many of your previous threads silently. You all have expenienced many of the same ttc issues that I've gone through. I may have even posted my story once on a previous thread. Long story short, we m/c twins in May '06 after conceiving with Clomid. We have tried Clomid to no avail. Our RE suggested IUI as the next step, but we weren't ready financially as we were going through a rough time. We had decided to stop ttc for a while and went into foster parenting. We have been extremely blessed because since August of this year we had a 10-month (now 9 days shy of being one-year-old) beautiful little boy. He is the light of our lives, and we are in the process of waiting out our time until we can adopt him. Well having PCOS, irregular periods, and no Clomid, we thought that we would wait about a year before going back to the RE. My husband has been ragging on me to take a PT. Well, I just did 30 minutes ago and BFP. I can't believe it. I'm scared to death of m/c, having 2 little ones around 18 months apart, and not having my RE in the process. To make matters worse, I'm a teacher in a new district and know that I've conceived before my insurance coverage began. My husband is ecstatic. I'm sure I will be once I get past that seven week mark. My periods are so irregular that I have no idea when we conceived. According to a pregnancy calendar, it shows I'm in my 6th week which I can't believe. We'll see once I see a doctor. So for those of you still trying, I know that anything is possible especially when you LEAST expect it.

 

bina - September 15

Jairia...Welcome! I hope you feel more comfortable to be more vocal here. We have a great group of ladies. Congrats on your BFP!! Sounds like we are around the same time. Today, I'm 6 wks 3 days! Happy Birthday to your little one to who's turning 1 year! Keep trying to take it easy and rest. I hope this is a sticky bean for you!!

 

diem - September 15

Bina, congrats on the TWO heartbeats!!! That is amazing. Babyforecole, only one more week to go!!!!! K8, I am prone to uti's. I had one right before my BFP. My doc gave me an antibiotic that is safe to take during pregnancy. Thank goodness it worked, I HATE uti's. Glad you are feeling well. I never really had m/s either. A few times I felt icky but that's it. TWhit and Bina, it sounds like you ladies aren't feeling sick or anythings. That's great. I'm still getting cramps and feel tired but my hunger has slowed down. Lucky, I'm definitely getting bigger. I have gained 4 inches on my waist. In work clothes it is obvious. In a t-shirt it's still hard to see my bump. It's so exciting. I wouldn't say that I have popped yet. But I think i will soon. Newmomy, sorry about the bad sample, but it does only take just one!!! When will you find out how it went? Could you tell me what ICSI is? Never heard of it before. Jairia, i don't mean to be rude in the least, and I hope that no one including the other members thinks that I am. We all understand your pain and hardships. However, joining a group when you get your BFP on a "problem's getting pregnant" forum with ladies you've never spoken to may be a touchy thing. Those of us who have bfp's got them after MONTHS of posting here. We've decided to stay to support the rest of our friends who asked us to stay and with whom we've had this long journey with. I almost feel a bit ofended. Don't know why, because I'm pg and here. But I feel a bit odd reading your post. Not everyone here has had miscarriages. Some here don't know what it's like to be pg. I feel like an extremely rude person right now and don't mean to be at all. You are welcome here, I just found it odd and I'm trying to be honest. If I'm the only one who feels this way please let me know. I may be out of line, not sure. Please feel free to yell at me ladies, and if I've made anyone else uncomfortable let me have it.

 

Lucky717 - September 15

Hi Girls!! Just popping in to say a quick hey! Welcome Jaira!! This is by far the best thread!! We are all very supportive of one another as we ocntinue down the road to becoming parents. Congrats on your BFP!!! I can understand your nervousness. Pregnancy is not considered an pre-existing condition. By law they must cover you. Keep us posted on things. K8 - Feel better!!! Glad you don't have any m/s.Rest up! BINA--- CONGRATS!!! 2 Heartbeats!!!! WOOOOHOOOOO!!!!! That is just fantastic! I am so happy for you!! When do you go back to the Dr? Newmommy -- How are you?? I know you are getting excited about your IVF cycle. My prayers are with you. We have another BFP coming on this thread. I just know we do. We are all sending positive energy your way. Have you thought about how many you & DH would transfer back? We are all here for you and Bina will be an awesome resource for you since she has been through the process. ((HUGS)) Diem -- Hope you caught some zzz's last night!! I hear ya about being exhausted. DH said I was snoring last night. Well gotta run go pack and fold laundry. Tah-Tah!!

 

diem - September 15

I guess I'll just go hide my head right now for being the type of person that I'd never want to be. Maybe my hormones are changing me. Jairia I'm sorry and I know that everyone has the right to feel supported. I was just feeling super bad for those here that haven't had a bfp and who might feel sad about yet another one being posted, especially by someone new. I felt an obligation to say something for those women and I should probably just let them speak if they want to. Maybe I need to take a break from the boards for a while since I'm being such a confrontational person. I've probably just added tension to a board that needs only to be positive.

 

SaintRose83 - September 15

Bina... Congrads on the Twins... how blessed you are for all the struggles you have had to endure. 2

 

SaintRose83 - September 15

(my thread got cut off) Bina... 2 babies is such a blessing. It looks like all the pregnant ladies here are doing well. Yes I have been bugging my doctors, all of them, to give me the answers to my HSG. But no luck. Its driving me crazy. I think we are going to try again naturally this cycle, but I feel like what is the use... 4 mc, there is something wrong, and no one can figure out what it is, or tell me a def. answer. I go in for a load of bloodwork soon.. I have to sign a consent form first and then go to the lab. Its like 12 different test. Thats a lot of blood. Anyone else do that??? Geez.. I'm scared... then as soon as that is done, insurance should approve the shots and timed intercouse... but I don't know if that will work :( I guess I'm kinda down. I NEED to know if I have hydro, because that is a totally different course of action... Diem... I understand how you feel... hearing about BFP kinda stings when you are going though what we all are going though... and I'm sure Jaria has gone though her share, but we don't know her story and its hard to to hear about another BFP that is not ours... But welcome Jaria.. and goodluck with this pregnancy. Newmommy how are you doing??? Babyfor cole, have you tested yet? K8 I saw the ultasound pic on your page... very cute.

 

TWhit116 - September 15

what pics on k8's page? Did I miss that post! I WANT TO SEE!!! Where do I find it? How is everyones weekend going?

 

Jairia - September 15

Diem, I will say that I am shocked that you responded in such a way. I've followed this board for over 3 months now. I have prayed quietly in my home for each member on this board. I prayed for you and your family when you m/c on a previous board. I have also been the person who has m/c myself and struggled ttc for more than 3 years now. I know the pain of m/c. This is exactly why I haven't posted to boards like this. Now, I'm thinking I won't in the future. Good luck to you all, but I won't frequent this board as it's very evident that I'm not welcome by some. I will continue to pray for those of you who haven't received that BFP and for those of you who are currently pregnant. Good luck to you all.

 

SaintRose83 - September 15

Jairia... your welcome to stay on this bored... I'm sure Diem didn't mean to offend you by what she said.

 

diem - September 15

Jairia, please read my second post where I apologized to you. How am I to know that you were praying for me and thinking about me when you've never once posted before. I understand your response. But once again I said that I apologize and I knew it was wrong of me. There is no edit button on these boards so my posting my first reaction could not be retracted. Please re-read the post. It was not meant to hurt you although I know it did. I was just looking at it in the perspective of someone who's actually posted on this board for a year now and someone coming in with a first post saying she has a bfp can be quite harsh for someone to read that has been here a long time. I understand your fears of this pregnancy and we are here to support you in any way. Please except my apology. I'd hate for you to feel that you have no where to belong. I am usually a very welcoming person (as you have read in the past) and it is not like me to have such a reaction. I'd like you to stay if it is ok with the others.

 

k8cherry - September 15

TWhit - STRose is on my myspace so she got to see my little bean but here is a link so everyone can see that wants too. The baby was 6w3d in this u/s pic: http://i164.photobucket.com/album
s/u24/k8cherryk8/MyLittleBean.jpg

 

diem - September 15

K8, I tried the link but it didn't work. I'd love to see your pics.

 

k8cherry - September 15

Jairia - Welcome! I have been on this board from almost the beginning and Diem is a great person. Please don't leave. This is an amazing group of women who have been through it all. Diem - I think your hormones are getting the best of you ;-) I know what you mean about being tired. Dh gets upset because I want to go to bed at 9pm. I try to stay up to at least 10pm. I am not has hungry as I was a few weeks ago and I don't really have any cravings. STRose - Thanks! It will be your time soon. Hopefully you can get pregnant on your own and get those shots that Diem got. That may be all you need to keep your baby. Diem have several mc's and she got those shots and now she is 12weeks. Just think about it :-) Lucky - I feel soooo much better. Thank god for safe meds during pregnancy. Well off to finish laundry.

 

k8cherry - September 15

Diem - http://i164.photobucket.com/album
s/u24/k8cherryk8/MyLittleBean.jpg

 

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