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Lucky - I with you right now on being a downer and feeling like giving up. As you all can guess I got a - test this morning. I guess AF is going to mess with me and be late. She is not due until tomorrow but there are no signs of here yet internally which means she holding off. I know its still early. I am on 10dpo but I know its not going to happen this cycle. My temp went down a little bit but is still high. I cried the whole way to work. Dh told me last night not to test until I am late but I didn't listen. I am so sad right now. I don't know what to do anymore. My SIL is blessed with twins and I can't even get one. I am so happy for her but I know if I don't get pregnant it will be a long very sad 9 months. I will have to say THANK YOU LADIES for being here for me. I don't know what I would do if I didn't have you guys as support. I love you guys! Here come the water works again :'-)
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oh poop! everyone is feeling down :( This ttc journey sure is hard. I was just thinking about my first angel (mc) that I had 6 years ago. My DH and I wouldn't be together today if not for the pg/mc. We had just been talking for a few months. The first time we bd'd the condom broke and low and behold I found out I was pg. Can you believe it???? NOW I am having trouble conceiving. Things work in mysterious ways. I'm am SURE that it happend for a reason. Otherwise I might not be happily married to the man of my dreams. It just sucks that these "things that happen for a reason" most often make us upset. To this day I read my journal that I kept during that pg...mc...and all of the heartache I felt. It brings me to tears each time. I love you gals and I pray that we all feel the the pains that all of those currently pg ladies feel. Jersey, have you started feeling any different? I am feeling jealous of you right now. Not in a bad way, just a longing way. Please spread the BPF vibes our way. I think we all need it badly. I really hope that you have a WONDERFUL pg. I know your dreams have come true. Thanks for sticking around :)
Anyone here about the plane that landed on the highway today in Florida? Pretty weird.
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K8, sorry about the BFN! Let us know what happens tomorrow. I'm sure you just tested early. GL!
I'm already feeling hopeless about this month and I haven't even O'd or Bd'd yet LOL!!!
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OK....I broke down and tested and guess what?!!?!?!?! Another BFN. I am not scheduled to start til Tuesday. DO you think I tested too early??? I can't wait to get off this clomid trash that I have been on. I think it's messing with me big time. I am switching to Femara next month. I am signed up to go to the next RESOLVE infertility support group meeting. I will share everything with you girls.
I need support big time. My DH and I are the only ones in our families that live in NC. Everyone else is out of state. Doing this without family around sucks. I don't want to move back to the Northeast though. I hated the winters and we have a beautiful home here. It's soooo expensive to live up there and I don't think we could have what we have down here up there.
Anyway I hope my family member emails me about the adoption stuff. I am interested to learn more.
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Diem - Don't feel down yet. The best is yet to come. Bding!!!! I guess it being on a schedule kind of takes the romance out of it tho. Lucky - You may have tested to early. How many days past o are you? I am 10 dpo today. If I am back to 28 days then I should see af tomorrow but I have a feeling she will be 3 days late because I o'd on cd17. Maybe I got a BFN because I am going to SixFlags tomorrow and someone wants me to get some extreme rides in before I see my BFP. I know when you are pregnant you can't ride rides but if I am this early in the pregnancy do you think it will be harmful? I still have to go to Lake Compounce within the next two weeks and I don't want to miss out on rides. But I would rather be pregnant then go on rides.
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Jersey girl- Congrats... I was just reading through the posts. I am new to this.
I will give you guys an uodate on me. My husband and I have been trying for about 9 months. 2 months ago we tried fertility. This month I did injections. I find out Monday... I am praying so hard for the BFP.
Jersey girl-- did you have light cramps and an achy feeling? That is what I have had for 2 weeks. I took a pregnancy test on Wendnesday and it was a BFN.. I know it was way too early-- but I am antsy.
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Hi girls! Stop being so down - it's the weekend and I'm throwing baby dust. Can't you feel it?? :) And don't think that just because I'm PG doesn't mean I am relieved and thrilled and in a good mood all the time. I am scared now because what if it ends badly? My mom's b-friend was so sweet and had the book, "What to Expect When You're Expecting" sent from the book store to my house. The problem is that I'm actually reading it! It's making me very nervous about late miscarriages (at 16 weeks!), incompetent cervix, all those things. So please don't think it's easy for me either. Yes, I guess I am one step ahead of you girls, but as you all know, I could (g-d forbid) be right back where you are at any moment. OK, enough of that. I still don't feel any different, physically. No nausea (although I bought Saltines today just in case!), no painful boobs, no frequent peeing, no extreme hunger or tiredness... more reasons why I'm nervous! Why don't I feel anything other than that stomach crampy pain thing? WELCOME BARZEE! My DH & I were also trying for 9 months before my BFP this past weekend. I was never on any meds though, never charted or took my temps. I only used OPKs to know when I was ovulating. And yes, the ONLY symptom I've had (and it started about a week before I tested, which was 13 or 14 dpo), I had cramps and an achy feeling in my tummy. I've read that it's the uterus expanding and stuff. Which is weird, considering the "baby" is only the size of a poppy seed now!
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JereseyGirl - When did you finally break down and test? I am feeling those crampy feelings all around. Almost like when you get a cramp when you are running. I got my BFN this morning but it is still early. I just do't want to get my hopes up yet. Relax everything will turn out great for you. Baby Dust~~~~~
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Jerseygirl- Dont think any negative thoughts-----only positive. Ok- I hope this is a good feeling that I am crampy- really bad. I have cravings too-red meat..which is wierd for me, I hardly eat it. Iknow I am looking into things way to much.
Oh-the injections made me gain 10 pounds. nothing fits me and it is so depressing.
It would be one thing having nothing fit me if I was pregnant-
If I dont get pg this month I will have to do invitro, which I am so scared about.
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barzee - Welcome! I know what you mean about gaining weight. I have been walking everyday and I am losing weight around my legs but my tummy looks like I am pregnant. Don't be scareed about invitro. My SIL just found out she is pregnant on her first try. One egg took but it end up splitting on its own and they are expecting Identical Twins now. So if this cycle is not it the invitro might do it. I have the same crampy feelings you are. I don't normally get cramps until af shows then I suffer for 24 hours. This crampy feeling has been coming and going for almost a week now. I try not to look into things but I hope for you and me it means BFP's. Good Luck!!!!
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Good morning. K8: I tested at 13 or 14 dpo (which happened to be just 1 day before AF was due). It was already 3 days later than when I was supposed to start spotting, which is why I even tested in the first place. If I never spotted and just started AF, I wouldn't have tested for another 2 days at least; it was only because of the no-spotting that made me think I might be PG. How many dpo are you now? If it's negative, it could just be too early. My tummy area feels a little better this morning. It's actually sort of a sore feeling/gas bubble feeling... not so much like AF cramps anymore. Today we are going to our nephew's 6th birthday party. DH is home - I can hear the truck from down the street! Have a great day all!
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JerseyFirl - I am 11 dpo today. Today is cd28 which is when I normally would get af but the last two cycles to me otherwise. Since I o'd on cd17 I am think she will come 3 days late. Right now there is no sign of her at all. I am not going to test until Monday morning. That will be 13 dpo. My temps are still up. It is the same as it was yesterday so no drop. Does anyone know about riding rollercoaster and extreme rides trying to get pregnant? I am going to Six Flags today and if I am pregnant I don't know how good that is. Any Thoughts?
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Barzee, welcome. It's always nice to have some new folks join in. Good luck on your bfp. K8, I've always heard that pg women should not ride roller coasters. I don't know about ttc women. I think the pg'ers shouldn't because of all the bouncing around and jaring that can happen. Not sure if it could effect implantation or not. I used to go to Six Flags all the time when I was young. It was a blast. Lucky, Jersey, and Barzee, I really hope you get your BFP this month. I myself am trying to patiently wait to o!
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I meant to say Lucky, K8 and Barzee....lol
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Thanks Diem! I WISH YOU LUCK
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OOPS... I pressed something wierd.. Anyway...poor DH I am the biggest crab apple ever. I was so tempted to go buy maternity pants today since not 1 thing fits me. These hormones have been awful this month
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