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Just checking in with everyone....Im jsut laying low this month...hoping that the BCP will take away these darn cysts so I can get back in the TTC game.....this is all so nerve racking and stressfull....I know how you feel trying4....this is the most stressful difficult thing we will ever endure ....I just found out 2 days ago 2 of my friends are preggers and were not even trying....then they were sitting there talking about how its going to stink be pregnant in the summer and I was like..I dont care what day month year or week I am pregnant..I just want it to happen...then they felt bad cause they know all I am going through....I am truly happy for them...but I just want this to happen already.....anyways... I hope that everyone has a great day....and good luck to all in the 2ww...keep busy and hopefully the time will go by....I just want this month over so I can start again. Take care everyone and BABY DUST all around!!!!!

hi girls! trying4pg - did you return home yet? i hope all is well. heck i hope dh decided to apologize with something fabulous! (did he?) good luck on the yuck test coming up soon - thursday i think. i will be back at the early start specialist on thursday afternoon. i hope she has more words of wisdom. i don't think we "got lucky" this cycle - just call it gut - bbut i am trying to think positive - i may be pregnant as i type. (positive vibes!!) ccb - what cycle day did you O on? if you don't mind sharing? mine was "late" but since it is the 1st one sincce the m/c i am not complaining --- but i am wondering i have been reading about luteal phase defects - anyone know anything about it? --- hoping4angel - good to hear from you - i totally understand the laying low - this month will be over before you know it. and you cacn get back in the game. anyone else just waiting on the sidelines -- jump in - ----- - bye for now.

Hi Ladies - just a quick note as I am rushing off to take a nap - I have hardly slept in about three days...but my last exam is finally over with. (And what an exam it was...I've had internal exams that were more fun. I am madly trying to get caught up here cause I have my surgery tomorrow morning and they tell me I need to take it easy for a couple days. CCB and Julie - I am really happy that you are in your 2WW - I wish you both the best of luck and baby prayers. I will live vicariously through you for this month. But next month, me and Hoping are going hard!!! Talk to ya later! Oh Julie - I live in Edmonton, Alberta...I used to live in California as a girl...Los Angelos and San Jose...and yes I am back home...but still grumpy.

Hey girls.....good luck with your surgery tomorrow trying4....hope all goes well....also good luck to you CCB and Julie in your 2ww.....heres hoping for good news!!! Have a great night!!!!!!!!!!

hi girls - trying4pg - omg - i totally forgot your surgery got moved up! i wish you the very best - get it done and over with and go get those babies!!!!! i am sure you will do well - and we will all be thinking about you tomorrow! i am trying to get DH to take me to vancouver for a weekend or something - it looks amazing there - and i love canada. i grew up in upstate ny - and could drive to niagara falls in less than an hour - and toronto in 2-ish hrs. how funny i was in san jose last week, and you grew up there. anywho --- i wish you all the best - i will include you in my prayers! whenever you are feeling up to it - let us know how you are doing! OK? and don't worry we will all be here when you come back!

hoping4 -- thanks for the well wishes - i wish i felt more positive i'd get a positive - but i just think with all going on - i missed it. ccb - when are you going to test? i think i will try to hold out.... i think.... hope everyone is well.

I completely understand I have reposted my original 4 times and not one person has responded. I don't really have anyone to talk to and I thought this would be the way to get some advice and support but nobody is responding to me. I think everyone has a response on there comments and questions except me. I am here whenever. My name is Kristal from Ventura ca

huh kristal? -- where is everyone? trying4pg - i hope you are feeling well.

Holy Crap - I'm in bed for 2 days and everyone stops posting...good heavens ladies! Hi Kristal - you are absolutely more than welcome to join us. Please tell us your story - we are interested to know - and I am very sorry nobody answered your other threads. Heya Julie/CCB - how goes the 2ww???? As for me, I am doing ok...if I were a man I am sure I would be on the brink of death, but ya know how it is for women...we bounce back pretty quickly (mostly from necessity though). I do have a terribly sore throat though (no no it's not what your thinking - they didn't go in that way - they put a breathing tube down my throat while I was out and now I can hardly swallow and I feel like I've been coughing up hairballs all day. Other than that, I am still sexy as ever. Hey Hoping - I am officially waiting for my period too - even though I am still bleeding right now. After that I guess I am back in the game. Hugs to everyone!

OK... 2wws suck.... I am trying not to worry about what day I am on... and the ovidrell, I think, is just out of my system. I go in for a pt on may 8th. ... it is way too soon to start speculation... trying - are you able to start trying again after this surgery?... Julie... how is your wait.... hope to hear from you all soon.....

Hi girls! Sorry I was out of the loop this week, after my surgery I watched my friends 2 & 4 year olds while her & her DH went on a cruise. Phew, I am spent; toddlers are busy busy! Trying - glad the surgery went well!! The breathing tube soreness should go away, within a day or two (that is what they told me) - any problems with the air bubbles throughout your body from the gas they pumped in you?? I couldn't lie down for two days b/c air bubbles settled in BOTH shoulders...fun! I am still waiting for AF to show, which it has now been 40 days, ugh! I go to the DR Monday so I hope she gives me provera to make AF come so we can get to the NEXT cycle and back on clomid already!!! I totally understand the friend pregnant thing....they make it seem so easy and then some b*tch about being fat in the summer etc. I'll take it anytime! Julie & CCB any news?? ******baby thoughts to all******Hey Kristal, whats happening with you?

hi girls - trying -- GREAT to see you!! so glad you are back (i agree about if you were a man - which is why God doesn't make men have to endure these things! i swear if they had to have half of what we go thru ~ surgeries, morning sickness, labor - wow - we'd have so many less people on earth!) how did everything go - did the doc say he was pleased with your surgery? when do you get to TTC again? is this bleeding going to be considered your AF? so could you try in 2 weeks? or do they want you to wait till a regular AF comes after this bleeding stops? sorry for all the questions - just curious. you chould email me if you don't want to post all the particulars on here -- isellmercedes@yahoo (want to guess what i do??? ha ha) so glad you are back - i was getting so lonely on here i had to look for other threads to lurk on . missed ya! get well soon!

mak - i hope AF shows soon for you (can't believe i said that! but you know what i mean - so you can move on to the next cycle --- hopefully CCB and I can start a trend of positives). CCB - are we on the same cycle day? i am cd 24 7 dpo. i should not test for 1 week! i hope i am strong! **** hey - do you guys remember my friend who "accidentally got pregnant" (see post above from april 8th) -- well, she went to the doc for her 1st visit 10 days ago- they told her it was too early to see anything (she said she was 6 wks) -- i thought that was odd, but didn't say anything - and so they had her come back this past thursday and they did the ultrasound (she said she was 7w) and they told her it was too early again! they said there is just a sac and her dates must be off (this same thing happened to me when i had my m/c in march) so they adjusted her due date 2 weeks, that said since i have now had some exposure to this m/c pregnancy stuff - i looked at my "due date wheel" and since she got a bfp on april 4 so she couldn't go wine tasting on the 5th - she could not have conceived on the 1st of april as they told her could she? i mean could you get a positive hpt after only 3 days? i fear the worst for her - but will be there to help support if it happens. who knows - maybe it will turn around? just wanted to get some feedback on that. *** anyway - the 2WW is tough!! i am having terrible allergies today (and yesterday) but i am afraid to take claritin because i don't want to mess up a potential growing baby! so i am suffering thru it - and i mean suffering - - and ofcourse it's a satruday so i don't have a reference to call on a weekend to see if it would be ok to take. the pkg insert says if preg or nursing consult physician before use. hmmmm, gottta go get more kleenex and sneeze some more.

Julie - I think we are on the same day... 7dpo... I hate waiting... Does your RE have you on prometrium as a suppository? I was wondering, are you allowed to bd when you are taking them? anyway... My DH wants me to wait until the blood test on May 8th to test.... I am going crazy. One min I feel like I could be preg and the next min I think that is a crazy thought. My boobs are still sore, but I took ovidrell, so I had alot of preg symptoms. *sigh* how is everyone else? this thread seems a bit dead?

Hi there kittens! Sorry CCB - you are right - we have been a bit dead. I promise you guys I will look in more - especially while you and Jules are in your 2ww. I think the best plan of action is to try (difficult I know) to do whatever you possibly can to keep your mind off this for the next week. I know this sounds paranoid but your mind is your WORST ENEMY right now. It will play games with you and exhaust you. I of course am hoping that you are (and Julie) BFP this month but I don't see any point to you torturing yourself any more than you have to till we find out. (Save this little speech and give it back to me in a couple of months). Sooooo, the big question is ...what are you gonna do to keep yourself busy for the next week. Do you like cooking, crafts, canning??? There has to be some relatively safe kind of project we can do. Oh...by the way, guess what I was doing last night??? Hunting porcupines (not really hunting cuz I don't kill things, but I was really trying to scare the hell out of them). I know this sounds cruel and unusual, but I either really hate porcupines or curious dogs...or both. I had to pull way too many quills out last summer, so I am trying to make sure they don't migrate through my yard again. (tough stuff yelling at porcupines with a sore throat...lol) But I digress, Julie - I will be able to try after my next period. This bleeding doesn't count cuz I can't bd for 2-3 weeks. Mak - no air bubbles but I'm surprised AF didn't show for you after surgery. Excuse my ignorance but doesn't your lining just come out after surgery...it sure feels like it with me??? As soon as you get AF, can you start TTC Mac???? Julie - it is crazy what you are saying about your friend...I guess we will have to see what happens. I will email you later. I've got to run into town now, but I promise you guys I will check in later today. ....ahhhhchoooo!!! oops Bless You Julie.

Hello girls. Ekoorb, I was just telling my hubby last week that I don't seem to be clicking with some of these threads. it is very true....friendships have been made so it is hard to jump in and be part of the group. Anywho...I'm not from NY but my hubby is....LOL. I have had 2 m/c and am waiting until May-June to ttc again. I want to find a new doctor but don't know if I should do that before I get pregnant or after? I'm in my 30's and feel very behind all my friends who have had children...not that I mind, but they tend to tell me I dont' know what I'm talking about when the conversations turns to kids. Has anyone taken any Flax Seed Oil or evening Primrose oil? I'd like to hear any experiences with that if anyone has had them. Looking forward to hearing from everyone.