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me and my fiancee have been trying for eight months and havent conceved but every time i have a period i break down and cry and get really depressed. it seems every one around me is havinga baby and it is realy getting me down.

Hubby and i have been trying for 8 months, I know this is not long compared to some of you out there but it feels like it. I am trying to stay positive and hubby is very optimistic (which sometimes doesnt help when im in tears) but i get annoyed with myself, i am half a stone over weight and i dont like many foods and i know i dont eat well i do try but i dont like anything. i am taking vitamins and dont drink or smoke. i cant help thinking i am to blame for not getting pregnant. My sitser in law tried for 1 month and eats rubbish and leads a stressful life, i cant help feeling jelouse. I am the only one out of my 3 close freinds and 2 women in my family that isnt pregnant. XXXXXX

I feel your pain, I have been trying for 23 years to concieve and I still get depressed every time I get my period. Don't give up, If it's meant to be it will happen I guess. Good Luck.

I know how you feel, my husband a i have trying over a month .I start to get frustrated everytime i get my period.

DON"T GIVE UP!!! My husband and I have been trying for 8 Months. We both had "work up" done. My came back normal his came back with a sperm count of 1.4 million/ML Average is 20 million/ML. He has a doctors (urology) apt on the 18th. I took a pregancy test this morning and it came back POSITIVE!! When we made love around ovulation, we already knew that his count was low. So I didn't get my hopes up. Just when I wasn't expecting it. We're Pregant. Don't Give up.

I can completely understand- I went off of bc in end of Oct. By Dec we were pregnat, but m/c in end of Jan :( Since then my cycles have been very long...2 cycles have past, nothing. Now I am in my 3rd cycle since m/c and am cd33- haven't even ovulated yet..so now I am worried abou that too! (My other cycles were o-cd30- 40days long, and o-cd22-36 days long. I am thinking of calling my obgyn to ask for advice/help.

DO NOT GIVE UP AND KEEP YOUR SPIRITS HIGH. THAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING RIGHT NOW. GETTING STRESSED WILL NOT HELP YOU. TAKE IT FROM ME. EACH TIME MY HUSBAND TRIED IT WAS CLOSE TO A YEAR OF TRYING. I WAS PUT ON CLOMID I BECAUSE I NEVER HAD A PERIOD TO SEE WHEN I WAS OVULATING. DON'T GIVE UP. THERE IS HELP OUT THERE.

Just remeber there is a perfect time for every perfect moment in your life, and when it comes everything will be timely and perfected. i am going through the same situation, but i have GOD's help. I'll pray for you. It could always be worst, trust me.

Hi,
Please help us. My husband & i is trying to concieve since two months for our baby but nothing till now..Please help me i really want my baby

hey i feel for you.. i get so sad when my period comes. my periods are irrerular anyways so i always get really excited when i am "late" just to find out that i'm not even pregnant. i don't even buy test kits anymore. it just too depressing.

I know how u feel. i have a five yr. old daughter and we've just started trying again to conceive. its been getting really hard because we want another one really bad. i guess its just about patience but don't get ur hopes down. it'll happen!!

I know exactly how you feel. Just the every day happy events that happen are meaningless. I just wnat a baby. Its an emotional rollercoaster when you periods start especially when you know you ahve had sex at the ovulation time. What is wrong?? I guess we jsut have t hang in there.

Please help! I been with my husband for 6 years and been trying for a baby for 1 year and 6 months, im so worried i can have child - he has got a child in past relationship - i feel like i will never have one of my own

Hi Gem!
This will be our second month ttc and it's already getting me down, so I can only guess how you must feel. I've been with my DH for 5 years and we now made a decision to ttc our baby # 1. Gem, hun, have u been to your dr? They normally say that after a year ttc and if it's not happening, u can get some help from ur dr.
Stay strong girl and try to relax, as stress can also prevent u from conceiving, I know it's easier said then done...but try.
U can e-mail me on [email protected] or add me to ur messenger so that we can chat. Love xxx Rita

I know exactly how you feel. DH and I have been TTC for 16 months and nothing. It is so hard seeing so many around me that are pregnant without even trying. I don't know how much more of this I can take. AF just came today, so I've been very upset!

why dont u consult doctor. A s we r ttc 5 mths and also going to gynec as we went for my blood work& ultrasound,pap smear& hubby's sperm count.Now i have to go for my HSG test ,i think consult them ASAp