*Let's VENT together* []xxxx[]::::::::::::::>
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Dreama - June 7

cd 7 here, not close either, but you know something strange happen to my buddy, she got pregnant right after af :o I dont understand. If one can get pregnant after period what else is new? She is now 7 weeks wow. She told me she didnt think about ovulation. weird huh. My other friend of mine said she had two (2) menstrual cycle before knowing she was pregnant. wow

 

stacey - June 7

I wish I could be like that.(not know right away).when I got pregnant before, I knew I was pregnant about 1 week after ovulation..I m/c after 8 weeks though :(

 

Dreama - June 8

Stacey how did you know you were pregnant so early? signs or symptoms.... 1 week after ovulation. What caused your m/c? So sorry hun take care...

 

Kelly G - June 8

Hey ladies, I feel all ya! I get so mad when I see pregnant ladies everywhere. It seems like it is all I notice now, or they're just way more of them. Plus it doesn't help that my best friends if preggers and is due about a month before I would have been (I miscarried in Jan) and also I have a cousin who is preggers...it stinks. Hubby tries to be positive and say stuff like well if it doesn't happen we weren't meant to have kids. But I was born to be a mother!! I don't think he realizes that what he says hurts! Good luck to everyone!

 

christina - June 8

the best is dont stress, or you think about it too much i feel like saying no kidding! how can you not think about it, or people who dont know our situation and say when are you gonna have kids? recently my staomach was soooo bloated from my surgery and i have gotten the are ya pregnant form people who dont even know me! i am loosing my mind over this!

 

stacey - June 8

I found out I was pregnant by the day my period was due- and it didn't come I took a test that night- it was pos. We didn't even really start trying . They didn't testto see why I m/c, they say if it happens next time they will....NEXT TIME???

 

stacey - June 8

so, it must not have been one week exactly, but, it was before 2 (we went back to see when we tttc).

 

Dreama - June 9

Oh okay, jus curious because a friend of mine went through almost the same thing but carried only 6weeks and m/c. I still am sorry that it happened to her and you as well. Kelly G I'm with ya, I get upset too like yesterday at work to soldiers came to get new id cards and getting out of the army because they were pregnant. Smiling and giggling!! All happy and stuff I looked at there age and was like oh my they only 19 and 20. I mean nothing is wrong with being young because I just turn 24 today. But it only seemed they were happy to be getting out of army. I would be Excited, Joyful and appreciated when my time comes. Oh my my opinion. But! It gets me upset when I see women who dont care there carrying a child and smokes or do drugs. Why not pick up a apple instead of a cigarette. Or take a walk or cuddle with you baby father to be??? you with me ladies? :)

 

Dreama - June 9

wow alot of finger farts for me sorry ladies for the (sp?) In a rush because i'm at work. LOL take care

 

MelissaS - June 9

Finger farts .... that's funny. Never heard that one before. :-) I am so with you Dreama. And, for me it seems everywhere I look lately there are pregnant women. Although I keep trying to tell myself that I don't know their situation. Maybe they were trying for months, maybe even years and had to have help also. I doesn't help me feel better though.

 

stacey - June 9

Happy Birthday Dreama :)

 

Lisa - June 9

I NEED TO VENT TOO!! Hi ladies my husband and I have been trying to have a baby now for 5 years and this is so fustrating for me. When we got married that is all I wanted to become a mom and now I think it will never happen I don't like seeing pregnant women I get very jelous I know its not there fault but I just do I have been to one doctor so far and she did some blood tests and said I do ovulate and everything was ok with my hormone levels also did a internal ultra sound and found out I have 2 fybroid tumors in my uterus but they should not be a problem the next step was to get my hubby checked my at the time (2yrs ago) out insurance was not that good and it got very expensive now we have much better insurance and I am going to make a appt. to see a specialist and hope for the best hopefully my dream will come true one day!!! Thanks for listening and BABY DUST TO EVERYONE!!!!!

 

Stacey - June 9

I have to ask- is anyone out there extremally cranky lately? I have been in a non stop pissy/crying mood for the past few days. I feel as if I am PMSing, but not even near it...as a matter of fact, I am only on cd 11. Makes me feel like I am going crazy!!

 

MelissaS - June 9

I was a mega beast most of last month (but, it was my first month on clomid).

 

J. Michelle - June 10

Dreama, I know what you're talking about with pregnant women smoking. I stopped talking to one of my friends because she kept smoking while she's pregnant. It she made me so mad. She'd say she did it because she was stressed. I told her to try going for a walk, or going out somewhere, or to lay down and listen to some music that calms her down, but she never listened. When my doctor told me I wasn't ovulating because of PCOS, I was so upset. She'd come over and try to make me feel better by telling me I could play with her baby whenever I wanted once he came. Then she'd talk about how high her blood pressure was and how bad she was starting to swell. I just wanted to yell at her, "IT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE STILL SMOKING!!" Then she offered to be a surrogate for me! Yeah, like I want a woman who smokes like a chimney to carry my baby. So we don't talk anymore. I really understand your frustration with that.

 

Dreama - June 10

Thank you so much Stacey!!! :) Lisa I am with ya I also was told thati to ovulate and blood work was good to go. Stacey I am right behind you. I am on cd 10. 1 day difference. So sorry J Michelle, I understand completely. It' sad.. I also feel cranky sometimes Stacey. All of us are going through phases of depression, stress and anxiety. Why does it feel like I am getting punished? Or am I? I am with ya ladies. Sometimes I go on Yahoo Infertility Support chatroom. It doesnt help though after all these years. You have so many who claim to be infertile but have like 2-3 kids. Then they sit and brag anout their pregnancies. Perfect example is one chick who finally got pregnant instead of knowing and realizing others still trying she continue to brag. You dont talk about babynames in a Infertility chatroom. Or bragging how ya gonna fix up your nursery. I just dont go in there that much anymore. It is wonderful some of them succeeded. And also sad that we have to sit and listen to the succeeders in a roon. When you ask them questions its like they dont know you anymore. Sorry ladies I know its long. :)

 

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