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Katt I am so sorry you are feeling this I think we all have felt this way at one point. And I know I am talking from a different point right now because i actually got pregnant but i wasnt till i got more agressive. And ya know if i wouldve continued clomid or did an IUI it would have never worked for me. I think you really need to get more aggressive tell your RE no more bs you want to get this show on the road and need to do whatever you need to do. Why dont you skip Clomid next month just go to the IUI. Clomid worked for me for 2 cycles got me 5 follies good ones at that but it was my scar tissue that that was the problem all my RE had to do was bypass it and that was my answer. But maybe you have unexplained infertility. I agree with you plenty of overweight girls get pregnant I am one of those as well. I want you so bad to get that BFP do whatever you have to <<HUGS>>

Katt, I competely understand what you are going through. You are a good person. You are such a caring sweet girl. I am not a wizard with words so I will say I think Robyn said it pretty good. Tell your RE to get down to business. It sounds like they are just following normal protocol. Stop wasting time. I think the clomid might be playing with you a little bit too. Hang in there sweetie. This is a tough journey we are on.

By the way, are we at our 1 year anniversary of this thread yet? Anyone know? It has got to be close.

I finally got upstairs so I thought I would pop in. Thank you ROBYN & KATHY The way things are going is actually by dh & my choice. We have car issues amung other things so it really wasn't feasable to see the RE this cycle. I probably won't see him until late next cycle as I will stop meds after this round of clomid to give my ovaries a break. So the bcp's and all of thatis my idea. I don't want to tempt fate if such a thing is possible. I once had my cards read a long time ago I was in a previous marriage though I am not sure if the reader meant "mine" or "our" (as in X & me) future but she said she see's no children in the future. No matter I am not going to ponder on that as I don't want to believe it - I will let that go away! Well I guess I should listen to what the President hasto say. Thank you again. G'night! ;)

oh and KATHY the anniversary is March 17th - St. Patty's Day ;) Or there around. Cyas!

Katt, Hey girl, I'm sending a ton of love your way. There will be a baby in your future. keep the faith.

Good morning!! Well since 3am this morning i have been feeling really sick at my stomach.When Mark came home from work last night he told me something that really upset me and i think that is why i am so sick,because i hardly slept a wink.I hate bad news.He told me in the meeting they had monday morning that his new plant superviser said some of the workers may be getting laid off,and then he told me is going to try to work harder and work better than what he has.Also he kind of got in trouble because he has had to take off early several times to take me to the dr.Well he cant keep taking off early or he could lose his job,so until we can get the van fixed i have no way to get to my dr appointments.I have one next thursday but i am going to have to cancel it.I have not been able to keep my wic appointment either.People down this way dont want to help you in any way,and it never does me any good to ask somebody to give me a ride,because they always say no for some reason or another.Im trying my best not to think about the bullcrap.We still dont have hot water either and im so tired of this stress.I have to get my act together and figure out something to do about my dr appointments.God i cant beleive they just hired Mark last month and then start talking about laying some off.But what am i suppose to do.Katt honey i know how upsetting it is that you have not gotten pg yet,how long have you been trying?When i first wanted to have a baby it took me 3 yrs to get pg and i was bd'ing left and right and so i was beginning to think i was infertile.Then out of the blue 3yrs of trying it happened.Im glad you are staying optimistic about it.You cant give up.I know it is tireing but keep beleiving it will happen.Dana i am not nesting,i always have been a cleaning machine lol that is what takes up most of my time.I was up at 5:30am sweeping the kitchen floor and i need to vaccum again another daily chore.Im just so sick at my stomach today it is unreal i just feel shaky.This morning i heated up water to make Mark s coffee to take to work and when i pulled the pan off the stove i spilled hot boiling water on my leg and it really hurt,i just felt so shaky and i felt shakey ever since Mark told me about the meeting at work.That is also when he told me he cant take me to my dr appointments anymore i hope he dont get laid off.He was looking for work since april but then he had that foot surgery as well whenever that was.Robyn are you feeling alright?I hope so honey.Hellos to Kathy,Michelle,Erin,Shauna,Nicole,Brooke
,Tanya,JD,Jamie,Leslie,Christine,Cmeliss
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i hope i did not forget anyone.Well thank you for listening to me i appreciate it and i luv yas..

Katt - i understand that this is you and dh's choice and you have other things going on also. Dont always believe what the psychics say mine is accurate but not all the time. She said i was gonna have twins a boy and girl she said my sister would have a boy and shes gonna have a girl. She has said somethings that havent come true or happened. So dont go by what a card reader told you years ago. When youre ready to go the next step you will and your husband will make that decision together. I wish you both nothing but the best. RHONDA - I cant imagine how you have held it together as long as you have me personally i would have had a nervous breakdown a long time ago. Mark is not laid off at this time he still has his job but I can see where you would be freaking out. He needs to obviously be working and this is not the time for him to not be. Nobody in your family has a car? You have to go these doctors appts this cant be healthy for you to miss them. Cant you drive Mark to work then have the car all day then go get him at the end of the day? I am really sorry you are going thru this. Well i went to bed at 1am got up at 630 am to make sure Anthony took his medicine and I need to fall back asleep and I cant. I am bleeding so bad again i think this hematoma might be breaking up thats why its so bad. So once again my dad with pick up Anthony and Jason will go to my dads after work to pick him up so they wont be home till after 6pm tonite so i have the day to try and rest. Anyway I will be back luv you all.

Robyn sorry your bleeding bad again,i hope this thing dissolves soon for you just hang in there.As far as Marks truck i cant drive it.I have tried i am strickly automatic unfortunantly.My van needs to be fixed and no telling when we will be able to get that done.It is going to cost quit a bit.So for now all we have is Marks truck.I have family that lives close but we are not close and i have asked them for rides and they have always refused.The folks around here are not all that friendly.Mark is working i just hope he dont get laid off,also they had hired a new plant manager and with this being such a small world well Marks older brother use to work for this place and this same guy that was hired for the new plant manager where Mark is working the guy use to be manager at this other place and he did not get along with Marks brother and ended up getting Marks brother fired.This guy does as well know Marks dad and they dont like each other so Mark said he has to be careful.I dont know what to do about my dr appointments i really dont.My c-section is in 4 wks and they already know Mark will be taking off on Feb23rd for my c-section but he is going to work that next day.I just hope nothing happens to his job,that would be so devastating im trying not to think about it to much.But i feel what dont kill you only makes you stronger and me and Mark we have been through alot and I beleive we have had our fair share of hardship,and im just praying everything holds together.I just keep telling myself,there are alot of people who have it worse and remembering that helps keep me together and keeps me strong.Well i will be back later luv yas.

Morning ladies. Katt I am sorry that you are feeling so down. Have you been checked for hostile mucus? There should be no reason for you not to get pg. It will happen, may be you do need to get more agressive. As for the weight issue, I am exactly the same weight I was when I got pg with Joshua and my RE said that he doesn't buy it. He sais that weigght could hinder fertility only when a person is extremely obese. If you didnt gain weight extremely fast, then being overweight should really only delay you getting pregnant, not prevent it. ((((hugs Katt))) Robyn, I am sorry that you are bleeding. Do the docs have any idea when it might end? I remember my friend had a hemotoma and she bled out in 3 days and then had just spotting (brown) for the next week or so. Hope you get to feel better soon. Rhonda, we have no control over losing jobs. There is no such a thing as job security out there. All Mark could do is be a diligent worker. Try not to stress. I cant believe your own family wont help you with rides to the doctors office. That is horrible. call your doctor and explain the problem. Is the office far from your house? Dana, I really think that b/w would have shown at least an increase in hormones if you were pregnant. Any chance that you ovulated later then you thought? May be your cycle is changing. I am sorry about the BFN. I stopped analizing my cycles a long time ago, so if I get a BFN, I just try again next month. You could drive your self nuts. I am sure your BFP is just around the corner. Jamie, I think you made a right decision about not telling anyone about your ttc plans. The less people know the better. You never know who is wishing you well and who is wishing you ill. Gayle how are you feeling? Hellos to Brooke, Caron, Kelley, Kathy, Leslie, Jen, Jess, Shauna, Michelle(where are you?)

Where is everyone today? Weird. The whole forum seems quiet.

Hey Ladies - so srry i have been mia lately, ive been so extrmely busy lately with work, life, everything basically!! Mega wow those numbers are fantastic - i'm so thrilled for you and dh - your dh had a really low sperm count too right?? Thats so fantastic!!! Well i started the lupron, i've been spotting pinkish since the hysteroscopy, is that normal?? I should be getting AF the next few days and then i start my injections on the 28th - i got my gonal f free this cycle so that helped a lot!!! Can you all fill me in on anything i missed i just have so much to catch up on!!

Hi everyone - I just got Joey back to sleep a little bit ago. We had a long night...he's been doing great lately, 5 hours to start with at night and then another 2 -3 and then another 2 after that, but last night he went for 3 hours and then every 2 hours and was restless between feedings so I hardly got any sleep. I just got out of the shower and had a minute to say hello to everyone. My Mom is coming over and were going to go shopping and out to lunch. Alex has her last volleyball game this afternoon so I have to be back in time for that. She had her last soccer game for the season on Sunday and they won but didn't move on to the tournament semi-finals because they didn't have enough points accrued. I'm glad soccer is over for a while because basketball is in full swing and she's trying out for her school team next week too. Robyn - I hope youre able to rest some today and that you're bleeding subsides pretty soon. Katt - I was not skinny when I got pg with Joey, so don't beat yourself up over that one. Cmel - Good to hear from you, keep us updated on your appts. Brooke - hope your feeling well today, I can't remember what name you're thinking of for little baby? Rhonda - keep thinking positively, you guys will make it through all of this. I'm sending your package today so hopefully you'll get it soon. Its been hard getting it all done as we just recovered from snow. Kelley - glad things are going okay with Saydie & Isabella now, wouldn't it be cute to get Joey & Saydie together someday! Okay, I've got to run and dry my hair before my Mom gets here. hello to everybody else I may have missed, I'll check back with you all later. xoxo

Good evening ladies,WOW!! where is everybody today?I miss you guys come out from hiding hehe.Tanya i am staying optimistic that Mark will keep right on working,he had better.Leslie thanks for sending out the baby clothes i really appreciate it.Im glad the snow is over i know that had to suck for you.My stomach is still bothering me,i hope i am not coming down with anything.That would really suck.Luv to all of you.

Hey girls! Sorry I been such a bummer these days. I haven't read anything as I am way to tired. I did want to pop on and say Iwas indeed alive, lol! I hope everything is going well for all of you. Rascal decided the crate was no good last night and started whining and carrying on when John came to bed (midnight) I was already in bed (11ish) but just dozing off... so anyway... Rascal kept us up until 130am!!!! Boy was John apologising to me big time after that episode, lol! MICHELLE_ Any advice on keeping Rascal quiet at night? He has been fine up until he figured out where "upstairs" was and why we go there! Can't really put the crate up there as that would defeat the purpose correct? So I guess all we can do is egnore him and get no sleep???? Okay well I am going to find some vittles and possibly go to sleep. I am soo tired! Luv you all! take care & be safe! babydust!!

Hi girls!! cd17 and my progesterone is 59! So that is a relief. Now just to hope I am pg. I have a beta scheduled for 2/1. Katt, as for the psychic. I believe most of them are full of it. A lot of it is luck. I am here for you sweetie! As for Rascal... I let my dog sleep in my room. Before I moved inwith DH my dogs slept in my bed. But they are small. Rhonda, I certainly hope things get better for you soon. It seems like you are always hitting road blocks. Tanya what cd are you on?Robyn sorry you are having a difficult time. But at least you know why you are bleeding. Well DH needs my laptop. Talk to you girls tomorrow night! You girls ROCK!!!