when dh becomes an a** after semen results, what do we do
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Ouch! Ladies, when we're hiding most of our tears because we most likely can't get pg due to dh's semen being really really off, but we dont want to cry in front of him because it hurts him in some wacky manhood way, and he's not dealing well, as in he's a complete as* frequently, how do we reign in our couple infertility pain and anger because he's being jerk and console him with positive results when we'd rather bop him on the head and call it like it is and say he's a mean jacka**! I can't deal with the can't get pg, and I'm dealing with a guy who can't deal with a sperm result and I'm coming unglued!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP
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The day after... we understand that he's more hurt by this than we are and try to show him how much we love him. That's really hard when I'm hurting (emotionally) and angry at him, but it did work.
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My husband had a very low count and he had to retest to make sure and do blood work to check and then we were sent to a urologist and they found a problem that could be causeing the inferlity called varicocele, and he goes and has surgry in 4 days to fix it so we can have kids, i say go see a urologest and see if the find a problem before you give up hope.
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You have to keep in mind how you would want to be treated by your husband if the so-called 'fault' were yours.
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You have to keep in mind how you would want to be treated by your husband if the so-called 'fault' were yours.
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