wife tried to abort baby over csection
20 Replies
Action - March 21

Your being in tune to your wife has saved her and your child... I really think things will get better with all of the wonderful support from you, her mom, and the docs. Denial is what makes these things worse. I think your wife is acting like someone with postpartum psychosis. I had a light case of postpartum depression or severe case of baby blues after my c-section. Before my experience I thought ps or pd was bs but now I know differently. There are so many hormonal changes. I didn't want to be around the baby, felt guilty about that, wished I hadn't had a baby, wanted to die, and had horrible hot flashes. I started experiencing this the day after I came home from the hospital and went to the doc because I was scared. She told me she had gone through the same thing and it would get better soon and if it got any worse to contact her. She even gave me anti depressants (which I didn't end up taking.....I told myself I would if it got worse). Fortunately talking about it with my husband(I was too ashamed to tell anyone else), going outdoors, joining a mommy and me group, and time helped me get back to my normal self. Now I am happy and love my baby more than anything. Your family is still in my prayers.

 

bj - March 21

Praise God everything turned out fine!! I will continue to pray for you all.

 

Sally Ann - March 22

Oh Matt well done, You saved your baby and wife by thinking of posting on this forum in the first place. Congratulations and im sure everything will be fine now. You are a credit and im glad a baby will be born in a house that has as much love as you have. I hope to be that luck one day. After ttc for 2 years. She will be fine when she holds that little bundle, and if she is still not right just post again and we will change her mind. You are all very very lucky people. Love to you all.

 

Janet - March 28

this is just so sad. I mean I have been trying for so long and couldnt imagine spitting in the face of such a blessing. I feel so sad for you and your family.

 

kelly ann - March 28

i just caught up on your post, this is very sad you are in our prayers and thoughts, but my question is how can you trust her with your babies life after the bay is born, what is she does something or is depressed or something deeper going on, it seems so odd just over a c-section to want to take a childs life.....you had every right to loose your temper! just keep in mind there could be something serious and watch out with her and your child!

 

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