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hey hun did you used to be on the depo shot? i was for 6 months im 18 and have been tryin for 13months

Maybe GOD is on your side sweetie...and he sees your not ready for a child...

it has got nothing to do with bloody god you all keep talking about god i was on depo provera for 6 months it has messed up my whole body, i dont believe in god i am an athiest sorry

Its ok...I used to be that way...until I had a surgery that I finally broke down...but trust me Im no saint...I was saying she is so young and really doesnt need to TRY and have a baby...what are you thinking? Im 26 and I was pregnant with my first at 17..not fun at all...I love my daughter very much but it was very hard... Im just now in the middle of college....

i am totally against god i dont believe anybody is there at all if he was he would help people that need helping

well its not like your the only person who needs help...maybe hes busy and hasnt gotten to you....dont lose faith...Im sure everything will work out.

I feel your a true pessimist! You need to snap out of that "feeling sorry for myself" stage and move ahead and stop thinking why why why if there is a God, why hasn't helped. Maybe He feels your not ready? Maybe He feels you need to better your life? Maybe He feels that you really need to be grateful for what you have first? Maybe He feels your too young to bare a child and is actually helping...can't see it now..but you will later. We don't have the answer only He has the answer. You need to start focusing on positive things, your 18 and this is the time for you to start living! I will pray for you and hope you look deep into your heart and find contentment.

one shouldnt think that way of God, he is there he watches over us and one should never pray for things they cant have or dont have....prayers are for people to just talk, get things off their mind, and be thankful for the things they do have in life. you shouldnbt fault people who believe in God. as per nobody should fault those who dont beleive, but have a little more faith and good things come in the end.

Tia, The average couple takes 10-12 months to conceive. Statistically speaking, your time is coming very quickly. Consider yourself lucky that you haven't become pregnant and immediately get yourself some sort of birth control. I was so nervous and embarrased the first time I went to Planned Parenthood, but you know what, they were actually very, very happy to see me and gave me the upmost respect and attention. I felt like a movie star. Promise me you'll get some sort of birth control before this weekend. As cute and adorable as babies are, you don't need one yet. Once you decide to have a baby, your complete attention and focus needs to be on that baby - Not on going to the movies, hanging with your friends, or having a boyfriend. Parenting is a very 24/7 job forget new clothes, CDs, iPod, all of which will become secondary to buying medical insurance, diapers, day care, food, clothing and toys for a baby. Are you worried that you may have a miscarried baby inside of your preventing you from conceiving. Don't worry, thats not the case. An early term miscarriage (ie before you start showing) would simply be reabsorbed by your body. A later term miscarriage would be marked with intense cramping and/or fever, vomitting, bleeding. The fetus would either expel through birth-like contractions or the doctor would surgically remove the baby. These are later term m/c, you would have already known for several months that you were pregnant.

Ok this is about Tia's question, not God Rach. By the way most people ( in America anyways) believe in God. Tia I'm sure your ok, but if your really worried about it go and get checked out and get on some birth control.

tia, i wouldnt play with fire and fate! go get birth control, use protection, there are too many unwanted pregnancies, and so many people out here who desperately want to be pregnant.

i have a mother that is in her 40's, she's pregnant by another man. shes only 3monts and already having really big pains. So bad that she cant get out of bed. Im worried why is she like this.???

i'm your same age and was trying 2 do tha same thing but i realised that maybie i should get my life straight before i decide 2 bring another life into this cold and harsh world. but that was mi choise and i just think u should stop and think if u have everything ready in your life 2 make a baby.

hi i was 16 when i got pregnant i was with my partner for 8 months till it happened i then gave birth 2 a little girl at 27 weeks weighing 2lb 1oz wow was a shocker

ime not religious but i like to think there something out there

HELLO..IM ONLY 16 AND IVE HAD SEX MANY TIME WITHOUT ANY PROTECTION MY BOY HAS CUMMED IN ME ALMOST EVERY TIME BUT IM NOT GETTING PREGNANT..I DONT WANT TOO..BUT I WAS JUST CONSERED. DOES THAT MEAN THERES SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME..CUZ I KNOW THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH HIM SINCE I HAD SEX WITH MY EX WITHOUT ANY PROTECTION IETHER..PLEASE IF YOU HAVE ANY THOUGHTS AND ADVICE ID REALLY APPRICIATE IT..THANK YOU