what the heck is wrong with me
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AT - June 10

Okay, first want to say thanks for reading. I will try to stay focused on my question as I am bit flustered.
I had my first child when I just turned 21 with a man I had been in love with since I was 16. Needless to say, it turned ugly and I am no longer with that man and my daughter is now 5.
I am getting married to a very wonderful man who is adopting my daughter, and just treats her as if she was his own blood daughter. He truely is amazing. I am going to be 27 two days before our wedding, and I was hoping to start trying to have a baby right away, as I kind of want all my kids before 30, and we are ready to give my daughter a sibling. Problem is for the last year and a half, my periods have not been regular. I blame that on the depo shot used for four years, but its been 18 months! I started the pill because my periods started to become unpredictable and I didn't want to be on my period on our wedding. Basically since starting the pill I have not stopped spotting.
Also a little FYI a few years back, when I was still with my daughters biological dad, I found out he had cheated on me because I turned up positive for chlymidia. I was treated for it, and caught it early, but I truley hope that will not affect getting pregnant.

What I am getting at here ladies, has any one else been in a simlar situation or can you offer any advice or suggestions.

It happend so unexpectantly with my daughter, that I didn't think it would be a problem the next time around. Infact, I got pregnant by accident by stopping the pill one month so I could switch to depo. I had been off the pill 2 weeks and got pregnant!!!!



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