What are we doing wrong?
4 Replies
Missy - February 15

I am 23 my husband 24, we are reasonably healthy people. We have been trying for a baby for 12 months now and no success. We make love at all the right time according to books. I am worried that we are doing something wrong. Can anyone give me some useful tips on trying to concieve, please?


to missy x - February 15

go to docs babe i did last month and yest i visited a gyno he has given me 2 lots of things to help one is provera to make me have period as im not regular and then he gave me clomid to help me ovulate not started yet so still worried x good luck 2 u and try the docs x


Faye - February 15

Missy, see a doctor about this, because you could have PCOS, Endometriosis, cysts, blocked tubes, etc! There's so many things that you could be having! Let him check your insides (he will explain the various methods that can be followed, such as ultrasound checking, laparoscopies, using the coloured stuff that they inject into you, etc.) Just get help my dear, you WON'T be sorry! You will, however, be sorry if you find out there's something wrong that could easily have been fixed with one examination, and you've just been too shy to go see the doc.


val - February 15

don't freak out yet. My husband and I have been trying for over 4 months now and still nothing. There could be a lot of little factors that aren't making it possible to conceive.The best advice I have been given is to stop trying so hard. Obviously you have to be ovulating in order to get pregnant so you will think about it, but don't obsess about it.I'm trying to take my own advice too but I know how hard it is. Don't give up.


Marie - February 18

Missy, your could have something wrong..or your not timing everything right.You,can ovulate anytime during your cycle..for example while your own your period..2 days before your period or half-way through your cycle.Healthy fertile couples only have about a 25-35% chance of conceiveing each month! Things that you should do if you really want a child try doing it every other night..not every night that could block your tubes (too much sperm)..doing the missinonary will making love..try to elevate your hips with a pillow under your hips with him on top and once he has cummed inside of you stay laying down for about 20-30 mins to give the sperm enough time to get into your fallopian tubes succesfly..(only you have to stay laying down)! Don't stress yourself..just relax and enjoy your time with your husband!

Please Note..not only you can have a problem your husband could have a low sperm count,backwards sperm..etc!
If, your a week or two late for your period take a pregnancy test (recommended..first response "early" pregnancy test)..it should say positive!
My husband and I tried for 2 1/2 years now I'm 18 weeks pregnant with a baby boy..your time will come hun..don't give up your dreams of becoming a mother!

!!Good Luck!!



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