TTC IN MAY THROUGH FRIENDSHIP AND SUPPORT #3
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Readyfor#3 - May 18

Goodmorning everyone! How is everyone doing this morning? I hope everoneis haveing a great day so far. So today wass my second day testing and it was still a BFP. I'm so happy. I'm just praying that my litle bean is a sticky one. MS is creeping up on me. It seems like this morning it was stronger than any other day so far. I had to make myself drink a nutrition shake and to take my prenatals. From which I feel even more queezy now. Also, last night when I fas finally in bed, I kept getting super sharp thugging pains in my lower uterus. I think I overdid it yesterday with the kids. But otherwise eveything is ok. I will try to to nap when my kids nap because it seems like all I want to do is sleep. Just really tired for some reason. Ok hunnies, I'll talk to all of you soon. Sending babydust your way. Bye bye for now.

 

NicoleM - May 18

I don't know why he doesn't want to - just a male pride thing I guess. He did the SA when we found out we could do it at home and I could run it into the hospital. For IUI, he'd have to give a sample at the clinic, so I think he's just embarrassed or something. I do have a hard time sympathizing a whole lot just because - well you know all the junk we have do as the women... oh well. I think he'll do it when the time comes, but I think he wants to try one more month with TI (timed intercourse). I've already told him the same thing you said - you're only supposed to do the clomid for a few months - 6 at most, so we can't just indefinitely keep doing TI hoping it will work eventually. So, if he won't do IUI this month, maybe he will next month. It's hard not to get my feelings hurt about it. I want him to be willing to something like that just because he shouldn't want me to have to go through this any longer than I have to (the pills, injections, the probing and prodding, etc). Well, he grew up different than I did and always had to "look out for #1", so he's not really in the habit of sacrifice. He's come a way though and I love him. He loves me the best he knows how and it has gotten better over time. TANYA, I hope your opk turns soon!! ROBYN, I'm glad AF is here for you (don't get to say that too often around here - LOL)! I'm excited for you! ERIN, good to hear from you. I miss all the girls who seem to be MIA lately... :(

 

Readyfor#3 - May 18

NicoleM, glad to hear that everything is set for you to begin another cycle again. I hope you and your DH can come to some sort of compromise. But it can be so irritating when they are stubborn like that :) But I'm sure he loves you very much and he knows you want this more than anything. Wishing you lots and lots of success with this cycle. Tanya, when do you usually ovulate in you cycle? Can you remind me again what treatments you're doing? And the pain in your ovary must be just preparation for the follicle to rupture out of the ovary. Also, hope that the weather there improves. Mommywannabe, glad to see you drop by! Robyn, Jason sounds like an awesome husband. You are very lucky!

 

ROBYN - May 18

Nicole - ok now i understand the TI think dont know why it didnt register thats what it was. I am sure your husband loves you deeply and they all have their reasons why they will do it and wont. I hope this is your last month of the Clomid and it works and you get the bfp. I am starting to get a little depressed again i think maybe because i am getting my period so its more hormonal related. But i am so scared of this cycle not working i just have all these bad thoughts going thru my head again about getting pregnant and i dont want to feel like that i am afraid if we do get pregnant that we will lose it or will be forced to make a decision again of termination or what if we do this cycle and it doesnt work then the next cycle is very involved and alot more money because of the medicine. I mean theres nothing i can do about it either way its just getting close and its starting to effect me again. I kept thinking i would be 28 weeks pregnant now and now i am starting all over again. ):

 

mommywannabe - May 18

Robyn, quick question for you. I usually post on another thread with Mega and she hasn't checked in for awhile and all the girls are worried, can you update me on her so I can let them know. You can email me if you want [email protected]. Thanks. I'm reading through and I'll respond this evening. SO much going on with this thread.

 

mommy2josh - May 18

Robyn (((((Hugs))))). When you get pregnant again, and I know you will, everything will turn out great. You will have a great pregnancy and a healthy happy baby. Try not to stress. Love ya girl. Erin. We missed you girlie. Come back and let us know what is going on with you. Well, the workday is almost doneeeeeeeee. Yappppeeeeee. 2 More hours till the weekend. I am sooo pooped. I stuffed myself with a salad from Applebees and can not breath. Where is Katt. Hope you are ok. Lisa did you have your u/s yet? Natasha, I hope your u/s went well and you will have some good news for us. Cant wait for you to post. Christie. I am sorry about AF. Hope your DH will stay safe. We sure do appreciate what the boys in uniform are doing for us. Ok, I'll be back in a few. Need to let the food digest a bit. LOL. Love yas.

 

ROBYN - May 18

Hey girls Erin i will email you. TANYA thanks for the encouragement i think its more hormonal related with the AF and the injections they are not mixing too well. (: Well gotta go to my parents tonite their best friends are flying in from NY and NJ and gotta go see them so i will be back later.

 

mommywannabe - May 18

Thanks Robyn. I emailed you back and I will be posting when I get on at home tonight.

 

wannabeamom - May 18

Hi girls! Sorry I have been MIA. Life gets busy out of nowhere. So I will catch up tomorrow hopefully. Wishing happy thoughts for everyone!

 

Katt - May 18

I couldn't resist, sorry!! Please follow me to: TTC In May Through Friendship and Support...#4!!!

 

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