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DIEM: So sorry that you are feeling so down. It must be a horrible feeling knowing that people knew your situation so early on, and now may be stupid enough to ask questions or something. I hope no one even brings it up around you. Anyway, just wanted to quickly check in. My holiday starts in a few hours so I won't be back on until Tuesday morning... 5 days before AF is due. I guess an official count down to (HOPEFULLY) a test, has begun! I've only ever tested once in my life.... never needed to. I hope this time I'm given a reason to test!

Well, I just got back from the party. My pg friend didn't show because she wasn't feeling well. I was kinda happy but had really prepared myself to be super strong so I was kinda disappointed. She really IS a good friend. But, there was a 6 month pg girl there. It was one of those "accidental" pg's . Make me sick. I handled everything beautifully. There was only one girl "stupid wife of friend" who was like "so when are YOU guys gonna start trying?\"? I said that the doctor gave us the go ahead after our miscarriage last month. She was like "oh I'm sorry I didn't know". (I know she knew she just forgot 'cause she's stupid) But all was cool.
I'm feeling MUCH better today. Just praying for high temps tomorrow or for AF to hurry and show her face so that I can get on to the next cycle.

Diem - I am glad everything went ok with you today. That must have been so hard. I know how hard that must be. I know I will feel that way next time I see my SIL unless I am pregnant by then. You and JerseyGirl are too cute with the exact date you will test. I just got back fom my mini vaca house sitting. It was really nice and on top of that I got a very Positive OPK today and my temps dropped the past two days so I know I will either O today or tomorrow and I think we timed it good. We bd Friday night and this morning and will hopefully get another one in tonigjht and tomorrow. OMG I LOVE Preseed. I hope with that and out timing this will be our month. I am on cd15 today. Desperate Housewives is on TTYL ladies!!!!

Hi Ladies!!
We are back and I feel refreshed and ready to get back into the swing of things. I did a lot of soul searching and quite a bit of healing while we were at the beach. I am on c18 I think. Funny cause I just didn't focus on it for 9 days and it felt oh so good. I am going to take it slow. We Bd'd like every day but we need to keep on going through next week.

I've missed hearing from everyone. I had so much reading to do to catch up on things.

Newmommy- sorry that AF showed her wicked wicked face. Please take care of yourself with your cold. That's such a drag. I am praying for you.

Diem-My fingers & toes are all crossed for you. I completely understand how you feel about going to the BBQ you and your DH had. I am proud of you for going and being brave. My prayers are with you.

K8 -- good luck with your + O result. Make sure you get lots of bding in girl.

Jerseygirl -- How are you? I hope you have a BFP too girl. Good luck. I am thinking of you too.

Sorry AF visited you too Roxy. I wish I had a magic wand for all of us girls. We would all be pg with NO ISSUES!!! =)

Baby dust!!!!!

Hi girls! Lucky, I'm so glad that you had a nice break. Maybe the extra relaxation will make this your month! K8, I love preseed too. We've used it for a few months now and find it fantastic! Jersey...5 days and counting! I really hope you get your BFP. And Diem, you did really well facing everyone. It will keep getting easier I promise. And hopefully next time you see them all you have great news to share! I hope that af stays away for everyone! I need mine to hurry up and go and never come back! I see my acu again on Wed so I hope she gets my spotting under control this month! Hope you're feeling better Newmommy. xxxx

Hi ladies, I've never joined in a forum, I have been following a few threads but I seem to lose track when new ones begin. I'm sure i'll work it out, it can't be as hard as making a baby seems to be- right? Having seen this thread though i'd like to join as you all seem so supportive & besides, where else can you talk to strangers about your sex life & cm, not only without embarrassment but with humour? Incidentally, I'm 31, Dh is 33 we've not used birth control for 15 months, but only charted my menstrual cycle until now. I've started observing cm this cycle & will start charting BBT from next. Currently on cd16 but don't think i've O'd, Bd-ing to be sure though!

Looks like I'm out. I'm expecting that AF will arrive tomorrow since temp took a HUGE dive today. This always happens the day before.
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Hi Harriet! Welcome to the group!!!
We always like getting new buddies. Good luck on your O! Are you using fertilityfriend to chart? That's where I go.

Lucky - Welcome back!!! I am so glad you feel nice and relax. You know thats usually when you see a BFP at the end of the month. Roxy - I told dh that preseed was a god send and we are using it no matter what happens. Diem - I am so sorry you think AF will show up. I am crossing my fingers she wont. Harriett - Welcome!!! These ladies are the best!!!! Good luck on your BFP this month. Well I haven't o'd yet. My temp went down another .1 of a degree. I am hoping that means I will o today. I was so excited yesterday I got DH to bd twice. hehehe. I told him its almost over. I am hoping to squeeze one more in tonight. :-)

Hey Diem, thank you for the welcome. Sorry your AF showed, it breaks my heart when I hear what you, and the others, have all been through. Finding this site has educated me so much already & yet I haven't even started trying to chart properly yet, so I know there's a whole lot more to learn. I'll start with FF next cycle, definately. My cycles vary quite a bit so I'm keen to start temping to take some of the guesswork out of it - hopefully!

Hi K8, just missed you. I'm watching you closely as we seem to be on the same cd, but as i've only just started checking cm I have no idea what is normal for me (timing wise), i've seen that a few people seem to start to O a bit earlier in the cycle so I thought maybe I just didn't O this month or had missed it. I'm amazed at how much your body tells you, i've just got to look for the signs and patterns & hope to give nature a better help.

Harriett - Its amazine how hard it is to get pregnant when you try most of your life not to. I am normally a 28 day cycle. I was like clockwork so I would plan that I o'd around cd 14. Well the last few cycles I have learned that I o later which is why it might have taken me so long. I just started really temping and charting FF last cycle and using OPK's the last 3 cycles. I love both of them. If I hadn't tried the OPK's I wouldn't have realized I o'd on cd 18 the last two cycles. This cycle looks like I will o on cd 16. You should try them next cycle along with temping so if can help with the guess work. Ladies - I took another OPK at lunch time and the test line came up before the control line. I have never seen it that dark before. Today must be my day. Let the bding begin!!!!

K8.....YAY big O!
Gets to bding girlie!!! LOL
Like you I ovulate around cd 20 which is very late. It makes for a short luteal phase. I never would've guessed. Thank goodness for FF. It has helped me understand my cycle. I have pretty much come to terms that AF is going to start tomorrow. I even went out and bought tampons 'cause I was out.
I'm feeling more positive now....woke up this morning with a big chip on my shoulder because of the low temp. All is good now. Lucky....sounds like your vacation was VERY relaxing!!! Roxy, good to hear from you. I guess I will be on your heals with my AF arriving tomorrow. Jerseygirl....I'm rooting for you. We need a BFP on this board. Bring us some BabyDUst luck!!! Newmommy, How are you feeling? Is AF on it's way out yet. I guess I will be right behind you as well. There has been a lot of disappointment on this board. WE NEED TO TURN THINGS AROUND LADIES :)
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