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Hi Ladies! I talked to my RE today and my lap procedure is scheduled for Jan. 18th. I am ready to get the show on the road. Looking forward to finding out what is going on with me. Tired of all the speculation. I'm nervous but know I will do fine. My best friend of course is no where to be found. Why do I even call her my best friend?!?!?! She's never around for the tough times. Since she had her baby she is MIA. I am dealing with things ok. Can't really forgive her for not being there. So I am moving on without her and remembering the good.
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It sounds like you both are on a roll and getting things taken care of. Baby, I'm glad that your appt. went so well. Hopefully you'll get your Christmas miracle. Wouldn't that be fun to have multiple BFP's this time around? :-) Lucky, I'm glad that you guys will be closer to getting your answers that you need in the new year. Sometimes just having a plan is the best feeling! You'll do great, don't worry. Maybe you'll dream of your little-one-to-be while you're under anesthesia. That would be nice. Sorry about your friend. I've learned something about people from my m/c: people just don't know how to act and what to say to those of us that are hurting and wanting a baby so badly. I think it kind of freaks them out, because they don't know what to say to us, and they don't want to say the wrong thing. You two are at very different stages in your lives right now. Remember the good times, and try not to dwell on her not being there right now. Sometime in your futures, you might be able to forget all of this and be closer than ever and relate to each other again. Hang in there. I know it's not quite the same, but we all know to some extent what you are going through, and we'll always be here for you. Remember, we're hanging in there together, right? :-) Take care, ladies!
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Wow! I've missed so much. Glad that all of you are all on the same schedule. I seem to be the oddball in the 2week wait. "Hi, my name is Bina and I'm 29 (the big3-0 in July) and DH is 31 so looks like I'm the second oldest. DH and I will be married 3 years this June and I think I take the record on this one-we will have been together 13 years this April. I'm having a really hard time thinking positive on this month beacause there is so much pressure to share good news on Christmas day. My parents and DH's parents do not know we are TTC. We wanted them to be surprised, especially my parents because it will be their first grandchild. So, it's been hard not talking with my mom about these struggles. If this month doesn't work out, I may have to come out and talk about it with people 'cause I feel I will be really sad. So, I did something silly, I had to take an hpt to see where my trigger shot is at and it came up faint. I have to say, a positive result is beautiful-too bad it's a false one. I was surprised to see how faint it was since it's only 5 days past HCG shot. Last cycle it was definitely gone I think at 11dpo. Lucky, I'm kind of with you, I want to do the lap next month, but they want to do one more IUI. So, looks like it might be Feb. for me. K8-My place is the opposite-we do the ultrasounds (probably b/c of the IUI) but they don't do a follow-up day 21 test. Maybe because I'm not actually seeing a RE yet, I'm still with my ob-gyn. They've been aggressive so far with finding out what's wrong, so that is good. We'll see. Well, another day down. Thanks for listening.
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Thanks Newmommy for being so sweet and everyone else too. It's so tough. I just think my best friend is flaking out. I've always been super loyal to the friends I have and at times go way beyond what is ever expected because when I love someone I love with everything I have in me. A lot of times it comes back to bite me in the ass! This is a perfect example. She's just so strange if she can't figure out the fact that I could use her companionship right now. Just a phone call. That's it. I haven't seen her since I went over to her house that afternoon. Doubt we'll see one another before Christmas. I am so blessed to have you all to talk with.
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By the way I am the oldest I think. I am32 (33 in July) DH is 33 (34 in May). You girls are spring chickens! =)
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Newmommy - I think I will get my prediction tomorrow. My aunt does readings. She did ones me and my brothers when my mom was pregnant with me. Baby - I hope this is it for you this month. We need a BFP for Christmas. At least one. Then all of us can follow for the New Year!!! Lucky - I know what you mean about giving your all to your friends and getting bit in the ass. My best friend is so excite for me for trying. She always ask when are you testing? She is engaged and I am helping her plan her wedding. She wants to get pregnant with me but can't until she is married. I don't care that I am not married. Our baby will still be loved and we will be a family. Good Luck with your Lap. By the way what is a Lap? Bina - Don't get down yet. You'll make the 2ww even worse. Hang in there. Maybe you will have our BFP for Christmas. I am so lucky to have you guys to talk too. No one knows we are trying and I don't want them to know. Its already hard as it is. It wont help to be told I am not ready. The only person who knows I am ready is me and dh. We are MORE then ready now. Especially since this has been so hard. Diem - Where are you? I got some smirnoffs tonight. Cheers to you!!!
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I think we may need to start a new thread. What do you guys think?
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Thank you guys for the encouraging thoughts. It is so easy to get down. I never thought this would be so hard. I only have one friend who kind of understands what I'm going through (she pg with #2) the others aren't even ready yet. I think I might give in and do a Cheri prediction-how long does it take to get one back if you pay? They are really neat, especially to put in a scrapbook for baby. Lucky-I'm sorry to hear about your friend too. Hopefully she will turn around and be more considerate of your feelings. People truly don't understand if they haven't gone through it. We are all here for you! I'm game for a new thread for new beginnings! I've never posted one, so someone else might have to lead the way...By the way, I gave in and bought a new BBT thermometer tonight-can't wait to see what it says tomorrow.
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Bina, I am with you on suprising the parents...my parents and DH's parents do not know we are ttc, and it would be so great to be able to talk with my mom, but I want to be able to suprise her....very torn about what to do....and I agree with K8, a new thread may be a good idea since this one is getting sooo long :):):)
I am 28 and DH will be 27 on the 23rd. We have been together 4 1/2 years and married for just over 2.
Hope everyone is doing well!!!
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New thread? I'm in! I was thinking the same thing! So here we go: "The BEST mommies-to-be Part 5: NEW BEGINNINGS!"
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Great name! See you there... :)
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