Is it just me or is this weird?
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Dana - November 22

My husband and I have been together since last oct. We only used a condom maybe twice. I have never been on the pill and we have sex at least three times a week. We are trying to have a baby and it doesnt seem to be happening for us. Could there be something wrong with me, or him, maybe both?


Molly - November 22

Hi Dana... If it's been over a year, it might be a good idea to go and see your doctor. It could be that you are not ovulating. I have been ttc for 14 months and haven't been ovulating - its worth a try! Good luck!


me - November 27

I don't know your history so I will make a few general recommendations. Try basal temping and charting your cervical mucus to get an idea of when you are ovulating. If your temp rises and stays up until your period, you have probably ovulated. Do this for a few months to get an idea of when to have sex. #x a week is good, but if you only have an egg that lives for 12 hours, you may be missing your mark. After you chart for at least 6 months, while trying of course, and can either see a pattern of not ovulating or no temp rise, I would see an RE to do some testing. If it has been over a year, then yes go to an RE. However, if you have just been having random sex without charting first, I would wait to see the dr until you have tried it this way for at least 3-6 months. Good luck!



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