Is anyone ttc #2? Need buddies!
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Mrs.Steve - June 13

Thanks, bl. My dh had surgery when he was 2 years old. Some kind of testicular surgery. He won't ask his parents what the surgery was for because he's embarrassed about it (so stupid). Anyway, I think it was probably an undescended testicle or something like that. I read that if it's done by two then it's usually ok. But I can't help but worry. He's 43,now. That was a very long time ago. I'm a wreck these days. I think the worst part about all this ttc is that PMS and pregnancy symptoms are almost identical...does anyone else think that's a horribly cruel joke from God, LOL?

 

bl - June 13

Mrs. Steve, is dh the father of your first child? The symptoms drive me crazy too. They are so similiar that I never know. I always read into every little thing. How old is #1?

 

Mrs.Steve - June 13

bl,

#1 is 6 years old and from a prior relationship. Dh says that he thinks his parents would have told him if they thought something was wrong. They knew about the problem and fixed it, he says. I don't know. I'm going to worry no matter what. That's just what I do.

 

bl - June 13

Mrs. Steve, How long have you been ttc? Are you charting, using opk's? I'm wondering if you should have dh's sperm tested to rule out any concerns. I know they have them in the pharmacy and on line. You might want to ask around on this site to see what others have done.

 

Tammy276 - June 14

Hi ladies. I am going to talk w/ my doctor about seeing a specialist if I get AF this month, which I think I am going too. I started getting cramps today, I know, it could be a sign of being pregnant, but I have been let down before, I don't want to keep my hopes up!! Sorry to hear you got AF, that stinks, and yes, it is a cruel joke that we get the same symptoms for Af as we do for being pregnant!! I will be hopeful for July if it doesn't happen this month. I will keep posted to let you girls know if Af arrives. I;m feeling like it might come early! :(

 

bl - June 14

Hi tammy, I think it's a good idea to talk to your dr if a/f comes. It doesn't hurt to see what they think. Oh, I hope it won't come. Keep us posted with any news. Just curious, how old are you? Where are you from? Mrs. Steve how are you doing?

 

Tammy276 - June 14

Hi. I'll be 26 this coming Friday, the 16th! Wouldn't that be a great birthday present to find out I am preggers!! I'll keep wishing. I'm from Sheboygan, Wisconsin. Born and raised. I woke up today with cramps still, felt like AF was going to start any minute, but it would be too early for Af to start, so I don't know whats going on!! On Saturday, I had a weird twingy like pain in my abdominal/pelvic region. It was weird. The I started feeling crampy yesterday, so maybe the pain I felt was implantation!! I can be hopeful right! I don't want to get my hopes too high though cuz I don't want to be too disapointed when AF arrives, if she does. I think I will definately see consider seeing a specialist if I don't get preggers this month. I will have to go to the doc. anyways If I do get Af. My right breast had been bothering me for the past few months, so I went to the doc a few weeks ago, and she found a cyst. So she told me to come back in if I do get Af, and they will do an ultrasound to make sure that it is nothing serious. She said it didn't feel like anything serious, so shes not concerned about it. They just want to do the ultra sound so I can have peace of mind.

 

bl - June 14

Those sound like good signs to me! I will keep my fingers crossed for you.

 

Tammy276 - June 18

Still cramping, bloated and sore bb's, worse than they were a few days ago. So I don't know....I really think AF is going to come this month. I can just feel it!!! But normally I don't have symptoms this many days before AF, so I don't know. Maybe it's just a weird month for me. How is everyone else doing? Had to work today and then stopped by my ma & pa's to wish him a happy fathers day. Ya know, this may be TMI, but I have been REALLY horny these last few days. VERY unusual for me. Maybe that is a good sign!!

 

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