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mother2Bsoon - May 15

Ladies - I thought it was easier to do a general post for all of my friends on this thread. Today I found out that indeed my spotting was due to miscarriage. I am in the process of deciding on a d&c versus allowing things to happen. I believe I am going with the d&c. However, I want all of you to know how much I appreciate you and what a sincere blessing you have been to me. Thank you so much for your encouragement and the peace of mind you have always given me. I am so thankful to God for each of you and I am equally as thankful for the opportunity to experience pregnancy...oh what Joy it has been. I am still standing on His promises for my blessing of having a child. As I pray for the life of the blessing that has gone on to see the Lord. I know I will see them again one day. I realize and recognize that even through all of this my God is still GOOD. I will continue to witness about His goodness and His mercy. I know He is taking care of my angel and will send another one soon. Although the doc said we should wait three months, what I know and realize that the number 3 is God's perfect number and represents the Trinity. I hope you will continue to pray for me...I will speak to you soon. As always, I continue to pray for God's very best for each of you. May His blessings overflow for you:-)


tonyaandjoe - May 15

i am sooo sorry. i will keep you in my prayers.


Readyfor#3 - May 15

Your strenght is amazing. I am very sorry about your loss. God loves you and wants His children to be happy and I am sure that He will send you a little one very soon. Good luck hun.


NicoleM - May 15

I'm so sorry! I will keep you in my prayers. I understand if you won't be posting for awhile, but we'll miss you on the other thread. You have always been so uplifting and encouraging. I pray that you find comfort and peace, trusting in His love for you. ((((((HUGS))))))


linds99 - May 15

I know how you feel, I went through a miscarriage with my first pregnancy last February.It hurts. I'm so sorry for your loss and pain. But know that time does help.


Mindy1 - May 15

m2b, I am soooo sorry to hear :-( Your words are encouraging, and I pray for you each night. God Bless!


mother2Bsoon - May 15

Thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers. Today I am resting and reflecting but I will be posting. I know that God is able to do exceedingly, abundantly above all we can even think or ask. So, to know that gives me the strength to be there for my girls...Thank you for being you...


Blakey - May 16

Dear Mother2Bsoon- I am so very sorry for your loss, my heart truly goes out to you. I too, was pregant, (1st pregancy) after ttc for nearly 5 yrs. I also had a m/c- (no heartbeat at 12 weeks)- we were heartbroken. I had a D & C 3 days later. This all just happened on April 23rd.
I will say, that you sound amazingly strong, and have your faith, which will help you tremendously. I also had an amazing support system, with friends, my sister, and of course these forums. Talking with women who had undergone the same journey..

You are in my thoughts and prayers. All the best in your continued journey, in having your baby. Big Hugs to you.


Meighen N. - May 16

Mother2bsoon....I am so sorry for your loss. When I started to read your post...my heart stopped. Please know that God is Good and your attitude towards all of this is very refreshing. It is so easy to just get mad, be frusterated, blame God. But the reality is, this is fate and it happend to make you stronger. You are in my thoughts and prayers! Please know that if you need to talk we are all here for you...


mother2Bsoon - May 16

Simply amazing... is all I can say about each of you. You are helping me tremendously through all of this. You all have been my rock!


tk07 - May 16

mother2b, i am so sorry :( i m/c my first pregnancy and it was very difficult. it sounds like you are positive and in as good of spirits as you can be. i waited for things to happen naturally and it did. i only had to wait a couple days. i hope things go well for you and you are amazing! you keep saying how wonderful we are but look how great you are too, you have been so supportive it makes it easy for me to want to support you. God will bless you soon. i was told by that same girl who told me He wanted me to pray (remember) that i m/c because He wanted me to know i was fertile but it wasn't time yet. amd i believe that. oh, and the 3 months is usually for emotional reasons. i started ttc again the next month but just make sure you are emotionally ready because i wasn't and i thought i was and i was a wreck the first month ttc again. feel better and if you want to keep us updated on how you are doing :)


mother2Bsoon - May 17

Hi TK - I just posted on the Clomid Support thread. All is well. Thank you so much for your encouragement. I tell you it has truly been a journey, but I have come to realize it is the journey that makes us stronger in our faith and not the blessing at the end. I agree and remember your testimony during your first miscarriage, it is one of the things I hold on too. Thanks again...this has been so helpful. I went to see the doc today and she said physically we can start in two months. So, you never know...maybe I might not need clomid. who knows what He has in store for me. Many blessings!


julie2007 - May 18

M2B - i am so sorry -- i will keep you in my prayers!


mother2Bsoon - May 19

Hey Julie - thank you so much for your prayers. Everydday gets better and better. I know my God has an awesome plan in store for me as He does for you. Our journey of ttc is sometimes rough, but we have learned so much. I have learned that I can have great friends whom I have never seen before however each of my friends on this site have provided me with so much comfort. I am truly fortunate and blessed to have each of you in my life. And, one day soon I will be able to share my BFP again with. You guys are always first to know after my hubby.



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