Everyone around me is pg WHY NOT ME
5 Replies
WishIwasamom - July 23

I don't get it I have been ttc for 6 years now and nothing. Friends lay on their back and poof they are pg. Why can I not be a mom.


Julie - July 23

I feel your pain, sista... My husband and I have been trying for over 10 years and nothing... All of my girlfriends are pregnant - heck, the wind blows and they are pregnant. I try hard not to feel like a reject, and I don't want to sound cliche' but times when I am really depressed about it, I turn to my faith - I believe that when it is my time it will happen and I just have to wait for my time. Have you gone to the doctor yet? It might not be you - he could have a low sperm count. Good luck!


D. - July 23

Unfortunately, your question will never be answered by anyone. So it's up to you to get your own answers. Have you been to the docs to have your bloodwork done, been tested for problems with thryoid or ovulation? Are you significantly over- or underweight? Do you chart or use OPKs? These are all starts. Just rephrase the question and make it into a statement: Everyone around me is pg AND I'M NEXT!!

Good Luck sweetie. I know it's tough. If you have any other questions, you can email me at [email protected]


christina - July 23

i can relate and understand! we have been ttc for 8 years! all my friends get pregnant and throw it in our face, one is pregnant now and yesterday i get an email of a picture of the pregnancy test saying pregnant! i felt like crap after that! i am passed the why me synmdrom now i am just blocking it all out! this past month we started clomid, i hope to not have totake it again, but my heart knows for some reason i am not gonna get pregnant and we have been through every tests out there, anyway baby dust to all and may all our dreams come true!


WishIwasamom - July 30

Thanks everyone... Sorry I did not respond quicker but life around here is not so good. I lost my job in April and now we are without insurence. So now I have the stress of money issues and everthing else in my life. I really don't know what to do anymore. I just want to cry and sleep and sometimes I feel like I want to jump in the car and just keep driving but then I remember I have no gas money. I want to have a good job, money and a healthy body so that I can be a mom and finaly have the dream of my life come true but on days like this I think that will never happen. I wish everyone a happy day and I ask that you pray for me to find my faith again and that I will find a job soon.


D. - July 30

{{{HUGS}}} I'm so sorry you're going through so much. But here's a suggestion at least until things come together again: Meditation. It will help you distress so much!! There are tons of free sites to help you get started. Start easing your mind and your body will follow. I promise! And invitation to email me still stands.



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