Does anyone else feel like this....Giving up?
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Raz - March 5

Ive been trying for months and I haven't came out pregnant. I'm doing everything. Eating right. Staying active. Not smoking. Not drinking. Baby-dancing on the right days, my fertle time. Still not pregnant. I never thought I would have a problem with this. Never in my life. Yet I'm coming across this problem. I went to the doctor and they said I should run more tests to see if I might have trouble conceiving. Infertility issues at the age of 20???? *Deep sigh* I've had it up to here. I'm not trying anymore. If it happens, then it happens. Ladies, do you understand??


JENZEY - March 5

Raz, I've been trying over 2 1/2 yrs. with no luck. I have PCOS & don't ovulate on my own. I just finished my 1st cylce of Clomid & I don't think I o'd with that either. I understand how you feel, it's so frustrating at times. I feel like giving up sometimes, but in the end I want it more than anything in the world. Sometimes you are so obsessed with trying to get pregnant that you are trying to hard. I've heard stories where women just give up & it happens naturally. You are definitely not alone..Good luck & babydust!!!


Dee - March 5

:Your not alone. I was really discouraged last month. I told DH I wanted to take a break but he encouraged me not to, we have a goal and we must push on (ha ha). I think I read some where it takes the average couple 1 year to conceive. I have been ttc 6 mo. I spoke with my Dr. he thinks it's a timing issue. A book I read says the avg couple has 20 -25 % chance of conceiving each month. To me those are not great odds. A little discouraging but it made me feel better knowing it isnt as easy as everyone has lead us to beilive and that there really isnt anything "wrong" with me. Dont give up. Maybe just try not to think about it too much. I tell myself this every month but it never gets easier. Baby Dust to you.



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