Cracking under the pressure??
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jal239 - August 2

My DH and I have just started ttc. We orginally said we would start trying in Dec, but said why not try now. Since we decided to try now, my DH has had a hard time coming (sorry TMI). Before, talking about it turned him on & he had not problem,but now that we are actully trying he feels that he is under a lot of pressure to get me pregnant. I keep telling him to relax, but what can I do to actually help him relax. I have heard that nerves can play a big roll in getting pregnant and I don't want this to interfere w. ttc. Thanks


mommy2josh - August 3

Jal, why dont you tell him that you decided its best if you guys do wait till Dec to try. Meanwhile chart your cycle and figure out when you ovulate and then jump his bones:) It has worked for alot of girls who are on this site. Some men have performance anxiety. Best not to tell him that you are trying and he will get back into the swing of things. Good luck to you on your journey to conceive and I hope its a short one (I have been ttc #2 for over 2 years with no luck)


jal239 - August 3

mommy2josh: Thanks for the advice. I think I am just not going to tell him when I am ovulating. If he asks I am going to tell him that I am not sure since comn gof bcp. I will continue to chart and have sex when I notice that I am Oing. Thanks again and good luck to you. It will happen.



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