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Hey guys just a quick question.......i do not have any interest in sex these days. what do u think about it? what shud i do?

**Good Morning Ladies** Hey Ash, to answer your question sometimes when i don't feel like givin it up i always think back of those days when we first met and think of all the things that he has done nice for me in life! Then i think of somethin romantic to do like putting flower pedals on the bed, lit candles, some body message, and some nice R&B to get in the mood. He has no problem he is a born natural horn dog LOL as for me thats what i do to boost it up a little. But believe me there is some days where i just want to be left alone then i think hard and say what if this time it happens and i concieve??? I hope this helps a little. Have a good day and i will be checkin in every so often.

Okay, my test line was darker than my other line!! Me and dh are meeting for a lunch...date! Ash, I am ttc #1. We have been trying for a year and a half. I had a tube that was pulled away from my ovaries by adhesions and had a lap in Oct to fix it. I wasn't ovulating, and my dr put me on clomid. This cycle is my first time on clomid, and I am oing!! I am so excited! Dh tested just fine for everything. So it is all me. Normally I would say that af is due around the 15th, but with clomid, I have no idea. Hopefully I won't get her at all!! I live in Illinois, but an a Texas girl. My dh is from here, so we moved to be closer to his family.
Jane, when are you due to o, or af?
Ash, I had some serious lack of sexual drive right before we started trying. When we started, it wasn't as bad, but soon got worse than before. When I went to my dr about the occassion pain I was having and how I charted and charted, but no proof of ovulation. He told me that when you have been trying and you are not succeeding, there is a tendency for women to get discouraged and loose some sexual drive. He told me that was probably partly the case with me, but since I was not ovulating, and did not have hardly any estrogen in my system, he thinks it was that. You may have just hit a rut. Keep the faith!! Baby Dust and God Bless!

Thanks! i'll pray that we all don't get our af this time. i think i'll try something new to increase my sex drive. we have decided to wait for 6 more months & go for IUI. do u guys know what's the cost involved in it including all drugs? my all friends have kids so i don't feel like meeting anyone. i am alone whole day & keep on thinking about it. i think this is the reason for my depression. i don't have anyone to talk with me. my all friends are mean too. if they have any work they'll use me & then never call me again. i feel very lonely whole day.

Iam from alabama i have been here my whole life and welcome ashley i am very glad you could wait with us you just have to promise not to leave us if you get pg ok!I The more people like us the better.Good luck kay you better get busy!Kay your guy sounds really sweet mine can be when he wants to be.I really missed you guys idont know why i went to bed so early lastnight i guess i was just really tierd.I have to tell you all what happened to me today.I have never been this mad in my whole life.I called my doctor to make appt.to see if i can get the lap when i get my insurance back i should have it by feb maybe jan and they put me on hold then the collections agenct came back after i was on hold for about 10 min.They said my last visit my insurance did not pay for so i owe them $500.00 well i was upset about that but i told them no problem i will pay them each paycheck $20.00 which is all i can afford.The women got very very rude and said that that was not enough money i had to pay it all now.I was so angry because she was being so hateful just like i could hand her that money right then.Sorry girls to talk to you about this but i got very upset about this.I have never been so angry some people are compete ****** if you know what i mean.I did not use bad lauguage but i bet you can all guess a word to put there.Ok i am over that now thanks girls for listening to me.I honestly do not know what i would do without all you to listen to me go on and on everyday.You are the best!!AnnaR i know it is to hard to just forget about having a baby and just let it happen but i dont know thats what everyone has told me to.Good luck on losing weight i am going to start dec.26 trying to lose weight i will go on a diet that day i swear i keep putting it off but i really believe i can do it.I am one of them people who hated to lose and when i diet i feel like iam always losing my weight could be whats keeping me from getting prego and i know it hurts my self esteem everyday.I am going to do it Anna R we can be diet buddies we will help each other i will start after christmas because i know i will ruin it if i start now.Jane thanks for the support it is whats on the inside that counts.How long did you say you have been ttc?I wish the best of luck to you and ash you both deserve a baby soon.I know i shouldnt let things bother me but i do and sometimes i just wish i has a baby girl or boy to cuddle up with and love and then i think everything would be ok.Jane thankyou for the comment on the nw forum name it just made since to me.Ash look you now have alot of new friends we are hers for you night and day and i will be for as long as you need me.Ash we can do this you are not alone i am here we can talk about anything you want to talk about.We are all her for you if i am not responding soon one of the other girls will or if their not responding when you need them i am here,We are all here for each other.

Thanks Lori for the support. I am really sorry u had such a bad day. Did u ask them about the $500? i mean how r u gonna pay? U shud talk to ur Dr. Let u know what have u decided. Hey can u be pregnant & so very tired yesterday? :)

Ash that is exactly what i was thinking about being so tierd yesterday but i couldnt be that lucky.I just have the syptoms i am not pregnant but i wish i was.Maybe the good lord will bless with a baby who knows.I ended up hanging up on the lady she was so rude to me i am a really nice persone but boy did she push my buttons.I cant talk to the doctor because they will not even let me untill i pay the full amount.Ash you are so sweet for listening to me about this!I will have bad credit because of this bill because i just got a new 4 runner and i have a big car payment now i cannot afford to pay them anymore than what i offered in payments but she said that was not enough.Anyways sorry about going on and on about myself.How are you today?I am sorry you feel lonely you dont have to feel that way anymore i am here to listen to ANY problems you have!

Hey Lori does this fertility clinic covered? if it is it will be good for me. i also have bad credit. i bought a car last month. i was just thinking that fertility experts charge heavy & i really can't afford it. i hope we conceive without any help. when r u due lori?

sorry for the incorrect statement. i meant is the fertility clinic covered under insurance?

I have never been to a fertility clinic before it is a gynecologist.I am trying naturally to.

Hey girls, its always good to try naturally then if you can't do it that way we have to do what we have to do. Keep the faith girls.

i posted a message on here this morning that didn't show up. oh well. welcome ash. congratulations on ovulating Kay. i knew you would. good luck this month. my period is due next week on wednesday through friday. i just hope it doesn't come on wednesday or thursday because then i would only have a 9 or 10 day luteal phase which is too short to concieve. i was late two months ago and not pregnant so hopefully thats what will happen this month too. Ash it is common to have a low sex drive i do sometimes. what helps me is dressing sexy to get my husband interested and then usual once we start i enjoy it. you are probably just stressed from the pressure behind it. how long have u bee trying? i been trying five months. yea i know its not too long yet to worry to much. Lori. thats not right how they are handling the situation. u didn't realize the insurance ran out. they should be willing to work out a payment plan. people need medical treatment. here in alaska they work out a fair payment plan that people can afford even if it is only $10 a month. there are so many without insurance here and not many places to get medical care. i would try to get them to work out a payment plan baseed on what you can afford. can you see another doctor if you wanted once you get your insurance back. i was without insurance until recently so i know how it is.

Ash are u using ovulation predictor kits or charting temperatures. is your luteal phase the time between ovulation and your period over ten days? do you chart temps? i would check on these things first. maybe your timing is off or maybe you can detect a possible problem to get the right testing if you decide to go to a fertility doctor. i just started this month with better testing for ovulation and i may have caught a possible problem. it would be good to catch it early to get treatment early instead of waiting but you may not need to go the iui or fertility doctor rought just yet.

I am ttc for 6 months. I had a miscarriage & had to have D&C in march. Dr said my hormone levels were not doubling. i don't know if my progesterone level is low & that's the reason i m not conceiving. let's c what happens. hey does anyone know what's the cost involved in IUI?

Yeah, I have used OPK's for 3 months. i have stopped using it due to very high cost. it costs $30 per kit which is lil bit expensive. my leutal phase is over ten days. is that good or bad?

over ten days is good. 12-16 is very good. anything under ten cannot maintain a pregnancy.if your luteal phase is long your progesterine levels are probably good but i guess it could drop late in your cycle or maybe be out of balance with other hormones. try the website baby hope. i got 25 strips for $16 and if you test once a day it can get you through two months. or get a basal body thermometer and watch for dips, raises and cm. you may already be doing so. sounds like you can get pregnant but maybe once you are you may need your hormone levels monitored? i don't know. you have been trying about as long as me and i know it is too early to be worried but it is hard every month when it doesn't happen. did you have a late miscariage. did the doctor have an explaination why the levels dropped. maybe it didn't form correctly and it was just your bodys way of letting it go and nothing is wrong with you. the hardest part of this is just not knowing the answers and having to wait.