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I have read your answers in other forums, not to mention your language, and really it is YOU who may end up a single mother soon. I have attacked no one in here... I gave a response to April.... Its not anyone elses fault that both you and she are DENSE and need to grow up yourselves!
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This question has now just become an attack session. Please remember that everybody is here seeking help and support. The bitterness should be checked at the door because all it does is bring everybody down. We need to remember that we are all in God's hands. God bless you all!
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i hope this thread ends with my message.
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the last two post need to mind their business if they dont have anything nice to input!
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As for Melissa, and a few others here there were some nice things being said, not all of it was an attack, maybe you shouldve read the whole thread. It is in God's hand and April' s choice, she asked for advice!
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Yes its true, she did only ask for advice, and really it shouldnt have turned into such a cat fight. But I think some of us "older, wiser" women just get a little upset cause we know there are so many young girls who want to have a baby and do, then find out its not all its cracked up to be. Its kinda frusterating ya know? In any event I dont think anyone meant for it to get this out of hand. Maybe we can all just call a truce?
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I don't believe it is the age that matters but the maturity level. Heck, I know some 30yr olds that SHOULD NOT be mothers and fathers while at the same time know 18 year olds who would be awesome parents. I am only 23 but my Mother had me when she was 17 and my sister when she was 19. She was a great mom because she knew she was ready for it and was able to sacrifice bars, parties, and all the stuff that we go through when we are young. Please don't judge people especially when you have no idea what is going on in their lives. Maybe she has not finished school but a GED will get her much further than not finishing school at all will. At least if she obtains her GED she will have more options regarding work and school later on. You never know what is going on unless you know the person. I have been with my fiancee since i was 13... ten years... My fiancee's parents have been together since they were 14 and they are now 55... Do not attack her please, from other posts obviously she has spoken with family members who don't seem to be talking her out of it. She is supported so obviously they feel that she is fit for the position.
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thanks.. and exactly both sides are supportive.. and my fiances side is wanting a grand baby so badly.. so i have a lot of support and i know i am fit to be a parent im 17 i make half of a house payment and my fiance pays the other i pay half of all the bills i know i am mature enough...
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How old is your fiance? Not that it matters, but just curious.
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Good! I am so happy for you!!! good luck to you and your fiance!! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (and remember, stress doesn't help conception so don't let all these others get to you!)
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Beleive me i heard stress is an issue, i am trying so long, and try to not stress out but it is really hard, i have alot of support from family and my husband is wonderful. i wish you and everyone here the best, never let negativity get to you! age isnt a matter, i have a cousin who started having kids at 16 and is a wondeful mom and has 3 now of her own. you will be great! all my best to everyone! and good luck with the ged! i use to teach that course on weekends, believe it or not now i am a preschool teacher,lol, 11 years! baby dust to all.
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and paying bills is enough to make you grown up, that is great, you have responsibility all ready! good for you.
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it will happen when the time is right! lots of growing up to do before children should come along, age doesnt matter its how you act in a situation.
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