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Are you having problems falling pregnant? And why do you plan opn having your tubes tied at 30? it's a bit drastic! You are only 22...how can you say you want that at 30? I just turned 30 and after thinking I would never try to have kids again here I am 8 years later desperate for another....you never know how you will feel down the line. A doctor will not help you if you do not have fertility problems...I have pcos and my doc still told me yesterday they want me to try for a few months KNOWING I have fertility issues... but they want to see if I can do it on my own 1st.... |
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I just wanted to let you know that taking fertility meds unprescribed is very dangerous to both your heath and the baby(ies). I have twin girls.. so I know what having multiples entails and I find it so disheartening when I hear someone say " i want multiples" because #1 no matter how much you have "thought" about this choice you have no idea what it entails. #2 Wanting multiples is like not wanting the healthiest pregnancy for your child, it is sooo dangerous-- i was perfectly healthy- no issues and my water broke at 32 weeks and my girls spent 3+ weeks in the NICU. #3 Not having a doctor involved if just a dumb decision, you could ovulate several eggs and have higher order multiples. |
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Told ya ;) and also people may get pissed off because you have absolutely no fertility issues and you are coming onto a site for people with PROBLEMS GETTING PREGNANT... sorry....I'm realising this month didnt happen for me so I'm a bit touchy... go have A baby that you are capable of having and thank yourself lucky that you can! |
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aldorakitty~ Just wanted to share my story with you. My OB put me on clomid In Sept of 08. I conceived the second month on clomid. I am an ultrasound tech, so I was checking my follies and there were two the month we conceived. Well, one of the follies split and we ended up pregnant with identical twin girls and a boy. That's right, triplets. It was a very rough pregnancy and all of my babires are now in heaven. We lost them at six months along. It was very difficult and my heart still aches for my babies. My Dh and I are back on clomid, but seeing an RE now. He is carefully monitoring my cycle. I definitely do not want multiples again. I'm terrified actually. I was put on bedrest at 12 weeks, cerclage at 15 weeks, !7 P shots weekly in my bottom, tributiline pump in my thigh 24 hours a day at 17 weeks, and home monitored for contractions twice a day at home for 1 hour each time. They were all worth it, and I would do it again if there was a guarantee to have them here with me. Anyhow, be careful what you wish for. Your babies can be ripped away from you in a instant. I am praying for one healthy baby. I truly don't wish the heartache my DH and I have gone through upon anyone. |
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Melex... that's so sad,... my heart goes out to you :( xoxo |
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I agree. If you are capable of having a baby on your own you should. Your chances of multiples on Clomid don't increase that much anyway. Also Clomid isn't nearly as successful without the HcG trigger shot, so even if you order Clomid from somewhere online you usually can't get the trigger shot. No doctor will give you any type of fertility drug unless you have an observable problem or "unexplained infertility" (trying for a year or more). Even if you lie to a doctor a lot will only tell you to chart for a couple months and run some other tests before giving you medication. |
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I DID get pregnant on clomid 100mg days 5-9 and Hcg injection 5000 on positive opk day..... I have 6 week old boy/girl twins :D |
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