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eb - I am sorry that your news wasn't any better. I have been thinking about you a lot and praying that things go well for you. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better - just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Don't give up - there is still hope. Things are going well here - things are great with dh and I. We go for counseling together next Wed. I am looking forward to it. I am actually waiting for af to show up -so far nothing....Keep me posted and take care!!

Hi Jamie, glad things are going well with you and dh. My dh and I seem so much closer than ever before. He relucantly left for work last night. I think hes afraid something is going to happen while he's gone. I'm hanging in their. It's so stressful and I'm trying not to stress b/c thats not good for the baby. I just want everything to be ok. I know in my heart it will be, its hard for my brain to understand that right now...

Hi Jamie, no good news from me. There was no heartbeat today. So, they scheduled a d and c for thurs. I am heart broken. Not sure which is worse not knowing why your not concieving or going through this. Dh is at work and that makes it harder.

I am so terribly sorry... will your dh be home for the d and c?? I cannot imagine what you are going through. Do you have family close by? Sometimes I wonder why God tests us they way he does. No one deserves to feel that kind pain - but he obviously has his reasons for things happening the way they do. I wish there was something I could do for you. If I was there I would give you a big hug. You will definitely be in my thoughts. Please keep me posted.

Hi Jamie, I'm doing better. Just taking things one day at a time. My dh won't be able to come home, but my mom is with me. Although i wish he were here. I'm a little nervous about the d and c but my gyn in says things will be fine and we'll be able to try again as soon as we are ready. Glad you're doing well. I really appreciate all the support and kind words. I'll let you know how things go tomorrow.

Eb- I so wanted to write you last night to let you know that I was thinking of you but I actually was at my counseling appointment and then we went to dinner and did some shopping. By the time we got home it was 11:00 and I was so tired - we didn't even turn our computer on. I am glad to know that you have your mom with you. I am sure it is hard with dh away. I hope all went well for you. I have been thinking about you a lot and hoping that you were holding up ok. I truly am a believer in things happening for a reason. God obviously had his reaasons for not letting things continue. I was never a big spiritual person until I started going through all this. I truly believe that God has his reasons that we may not fully understand but we just have to believe in Him. I don't know if you are a spiritual person but I have found it has helped me through some of my toughest times. The counseling has also been a really good thing. I am very encouraged by it so far. Please let me know how things are going with you and how things went today.

Hi Jamie, I'm doing a little better. The procedure went well. I am still having some cramping and bleeding. I'll be so glad when dh gets here on Thursday. It's been really hard telling everyone and my step daughter. Hopefully it will happen again soon with a positive happy outcome.

Eb - Happy Thanksgiving!! I hope you had a nice Thanksgiving with your family. How are you feeling? Nothing new here. Things are day to day with dh. I honestly don't know what is going to happen. I just pray that counseling will help us through everything. I am beginning to think that dh and I are just too different. I don't know. I am just taking it one day at a time. I guess that is all I can do.

Happy Thanksgiving to you to Jamie. I had a good day with my family. Dh called this am, he wasn't able to come home. He was offered a promotion and he had to stay longer , he'll be home sat or next thurs. It's been so hard without him and this was our first holiday apart. I'm feeling ok, nothing new to report on that end. Mentally i still feel drained... Hopefully it'll get better soon. I hope things work out for you. You have to do what will make you happy, whatever that may be. You only live once!! Glad to hear from you. Talk to you soon.

Hi Jamie, not alot going on with me. Dh finally got to come home. I was so glad to see him. I went to gyn today b/c i hadn't stopped bleeding since the d and c . He said everything looked good. My period had most likely started, and no intercorse for at least 2 weeks after no bleeding, soo it'll be at least Dec. or Jan before we can start trying again. How are things with you. Did you enjoy your thanksgiving break??

eb - I am so glad to hear that dh made it home safe - that had to have been hard having him gone. Not a whole lot knew with me. My last af was weird - I had brown spotting for over a week and then it went red to brown and back and forth for over 2 weeks!! I have never had it last that long before.... I am not even counting days this month - I couldn't even tell you where I am in my cycle. Dh and I are bd'ing when ever we feel like it - it is kind of nice for a change. Things with us are ok - we didn't get to counseling this week but we are going next week. Thanksgiving break was very nice - extremely short though. We went to my in-laws for dinner and then to my parents for dessert. I brother-in-law and his wife came in from Ohio. They have 2 little ones - who are so cute. Of course their friends who just had a baby a few weeks ago had to stop by with the new baby. Of course all the ladies were asking her questions and discussing baby things - all of which I could not contribute to. It is so hard to sit through discussions like that - it makes me realize how much it hurts. Oh well what do we do... So are you back at school or still off?

Hi Jamie, Glad you had a nice Thanksgiving. It's very good to have dh home, although it will be short. I don't think i'm going back to school this time. I'm thinking of returning to college in Jan. to finish my degree. I just feel like i need a change of pace , and don't know if i could go back into the classroom right now. i'm going to finish my degree in education, and go from there. I still want to teach , i just think a break will do some good right now. I am just ready for my body to get back on track. And That can take a while from everything i'm reading.

Hi Jamie, I'm going to start us a new thread . Hope your doing ok. I'm doing better.