TTC in December Through Friendship and Support
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PoohBear - December 8

First off a big congrats to Leslie on her son. I bet he is a very cute baby. Kelley- sorry to hear that the symptoms didnt lead to labor and that you didnt get to find out how much youve dialated. My next apt is Monday and Im going to ask them to do a exam just so I can see if anything is going to happen naturally before Friday. Its kind of a relief knowing that I will have him in the next week no matter what. All this recent negative comments saddens me. All of the women on this post are wonderful, supportive, and caring and I could never speak ill of any of you. We all have different situations but its being able to stick together and support one another that helps us get through the hard times. I know that some have it harder than others but no one should be denied the right of motherhood just because of a situation that someone else may find wrong to them. Robyn- Please ignore the negative it will only cause stress. I am praying for only the best for you and yours. Kelley- Im so sorry about your MIL I hope that everything will come back ok. Kay- Im sure that your apologies are sincere but I do have to admit that some of the comments you made were mean. You may not have meant for them to sound that way but they did. I welcome you to stay but please try to make sure that you post in a positive way. I understand that you may be on a hard journey and have a lot of bad things that have happened but theres no reason to give up hope and you shouldnt try to destroy others hope either. These women mean a great deal to me and I hope that if you join us you can learn to be more accepting of what others are going through so that we can help you through your troubles. Well Hi to all the ladies that I didnt get to! Im off to bed now. Luv Yas and I will check in later.

 

slowpoke01 - December 8

kay what is wrong with you. you posted on the iui and sperm donor that a husband couldnt love the kid knowing it wasnt his and now you are on here talking trash again. you shouldnt judge people like you are doing because what goes around comes around. how can you be so insensitive and rude. we are all here for support not to have you judge us. i use a sperm donor by the way and my husband was the one who decided to use one because he loves me and that was the only way for us to have a child. i am sorry if you dont understand it and i am sorry that you dont have someone who is that understanding and loving that will put his pride aside to have a baby even if it means by using a sperm donor. you are saying that those husbands who use sperm donors couldnt llove the child like theirs because it isnt theirs well that is a stupid thing to say because that would be like saying that someone who adopts couldnt love that child because it wasnt theirs. and that is crazy because my husbands cousin adopted a child and they love it just like they do their own. maybe you arent getting pregnant because you are too busy being judgemental to others. people are uptight on these sites because people like you make the stupid comments that you make. you werent directing your comment to anyone on here but we all knew exactly who you were talking about so that was directing it to someone on here. we dont need people like you on here being harsh and insensitive. things happen for a reason have you ever thought of that. maybe you are too negative and thats why your not getting pregnant. as for the iui do you think that your husband could love a child from iui since it wasnt done naturally? you are appologizing left and right and you wouldnt have had to if you hadnt opened your mouth like you did. if you are going to be negative and judge everyone maybe you need to go somewhere else because we dont want to hear it. thanks. ROBYN-i am so sorry i hope that everything turns out alright i will be praying for you.RHONDA- i know that you love your kids. dont listen to the crap that kay has said. you are a good mom and it isnt your fault that mark has not been able to find a job. it will happen. take care. BL-i understand why you are worried about having a miscarriage. dont you listen to kay either she doesnt understand any of this of she would not make the comments that she has made. too bad people like her dont get educated before they say things. we know you girls and ya'lls situations and kay doesnt that is why it is so easy for her to badmouth everyone. MELISSA- good luck to you LESLIE-so glad that you had the baby we were worried about you and we are so glad that everything went good. JEN- nice to hear from you. well good luck all and take care have a great day

 

bl - December 8

Okay girls, I'm going to start part 2!

 

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