TTC IN APRIL THROUGH FRIENDSHIP AND SUPPORT PART 3
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ROBYN - April 30

RHONDA - omg i hope you are ok sweetie you are completely 100% in my thoughts for a safe and speedy recovery we love you and if you need anything please dont hestitate. ((HUGS)). Hey girls well i am back and drugged up from the HSG it was pain free i dont know why i dont just not drug up before i go but anyway. i have to have hysterscopy there is a minimal amount of scar tissue left over the from the D&E he compared my uterus photos from last year to now and he said that its a minimal amount of tissue he wants to remove but its definitely from the D&E and if we dont remove it it will increase the m/c chance. So he said its our decision but he is highly recomending it so we will do it. He will knock me out and said it will only delay the cycle for a month. i started crying but realize that this is nothing in the scheme of time. Its 4 weeks. So the nurse will call tomorrow will the schedling of the procedure and he said continue the bcps and not start lupron in 3 days they will tell me whats next. So i am a little upset about but i totally realize that why would i want to increase any chance of a m/c when i can do this outpatient and totally increase the chance of no m/c. So its gonna be a little delay but i think it will be worth it though i am crying at this point. Alright gonna keep reading and will be back. You know the fucked up thing about this is now this costs 4 thousand dollars i mean hell I dont mean to be talking this kinda financial shit but well at this point you all know so much about me we spent 57 thousand dollars last year. We could not beleive this. Now Jasons insurance will cover the hospital portion of the 2 thousand for the procedure but now we have to pay out of pocked another 2 thousand and plus today was 1 thousand dollars. I swear to God these places think i just walk out side and pluck from the money tree. I said to Jason maybe we should just take our chances and not do this he said 100% absolutely not gonna happen i dont care about the money its about us having a baby and if we dont do this have god forbid we have a m/c we will never forgive ourselves. So please tell i know its stupid to ask that i am making the right decision and not just taking a chance a risking it without the procedure.

 

slowpoke01 - April 30

hey girls, i updated my aol homepage a little if you all want to check it out. i am not completely finished with it it still needs some work and some pics. as soon as i get some new pics i will put them on there. anyway the page is http://hometown.aol.com/s
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remember to take out any -'s that appear.

 

NicoleM - April 30

Oh Robyn, I'm sorry you're going through all this! I definitely think you are doing the right thing by having the procedure. It's exactly like Jason said - if you didn't and something bad happened you would be even more upset. I know 4 weeks can feel like forever - heck the stupid 2ww feels like forever - but it's not really that much time. We're here for you as always! BTW, what a wonderful hubby you have. He's a keeper! ;o)

 

slowpoke01 - April 30

ROBYN- so sorry for what you are going through. i would definitely have the procedure if it meant that my m/c rate would go down. you would never forgive yourself if you got pregnant again and m/c you would always think that it was your fault because you didnt have the procedure done. i know what you mean about plucking fromt he money tree. it gets hard sometimes to get the money to go through with this. most of us have good income or hubbies with good income but then when you start paying out bills and medical expense it doesnt go that far. we totally know where you are coming from. i have to pay for all of my testing and everything 100% out of pocket because it is so hard to find insurance when your hubby is self employed like mine and most insurance will not cover any type of fertility testing or meds or anything. take it easy and think it over, but i think that jason is right and that you all are making the right decision. take care ~Jamie~

 

Katt - May 1

Evening Ladies! I did a quick skim - NICOLEB_ I would keep the cat indoors and keep showing her the litter biox, etc. She'll come around. JAMIE_ Email me your page I'll try to look at it at work. READYFOR#3_ You do fit right in!! Most of us girls have been here for nearly a year and we absolutely love hearing from new people. Please bare with us as sometimes we can get a little wrapped up. Hang in there we want to hear from you!! Please don't go anywhere;) I so wish I could fully catch up but no dice, sorry. I wasn't even able to get on my PC until 730. I would have checked while I was at work but the people that were keeping everything organized turned it all over mid last week. I never used quickbooks a day in my life until last wednesday and it took what free time I had to learn how to do payroll, lol. Now this week I need to catch up all the expenses and invoices, etc that have not yet been entered. So far I have 70 entries to do there. Then I have to start an inventory of tools, and office equipment, etc. So in between playing copyfax-girl, filling out transmittals and the phones I am lucky to check in at all. I try to read what y'all are up to in the am when I arrive but I need to catch up - I hate not being organized!! It literally infuriates me. Well I am off I need to get a few things done around the house before The Bachelor comes on. Oh and KATHY_ I look forward to your opening post <wink wink> Luvyas!!!

 

J.D. - May 1

hey girls,damn the shit has hit the fan,huh? wtf?? anyways welcome readyfor#3. i don't know why amygirl was so rude to you but we want you to stay!! rhonda,i hope you feel better.i've heard those things are excruciating.take it easy!! slow, how are you doing? i haven't been on here in a while because we've been at the hospital with amber, my oldest neice.the doctor thought she had appendicitis so they operated and it turned out it wasn't even her appendix,just a really bad uti.do you believe that shit? talk about totally incompetent doctors! ok i'll try to post tomorrow.....oh slow loved the poem!!!!! g'night love y'all

 

wannabeamom - May 1

Rhonda, I hope you are ok. You poor thing. Feel better. Robyn, I am sorry you are going through this. But I would do the procedure to reduce the risk of m/c. Of course you will do what you think is right in the end. I know money is a factor. I been very lucky that my work covers fertility to an extent. So far I have been covered! So anyway, I will start the thread later on tonight. So everyone get all your bad feelings out now! tee-hee. Jamie, I love your poem. Can I use it in my May opener? Katt it sounds like you have a lot to do. I will check back later.

 

J.D. - May 1

oh i forgot to tell yall about my dream i had the other night.we have been thinking about adopting if the iui's dont work.i mean we're definitely trying the iui's first but we were talking about just in case it doesn't work.anyway,in my dream we adopted a little girl about 4 yrs old......and thats about all i remember. lol i cant believe thats all i remember.anyway what do yall think about adopting? hello to everyone

 

treysmommy - May 1

Hey ladies,
Well, this is my week to O and hubby and i bd this morning and I stayed on my back for like an hour with my pelvis elevated. So, when I got up to go to the bathroom ,all of the "stuff" came out!!! What am I supposed to do in that situation? Well, this is my last chance until September. Oh by the way, welcome with open arms Ready!!!!!

 

slowpoke01 - May 1

WANNABE- you sure can use the poem for the may opener. i dont mind at all and actually i am flattered that you think it is good enough to use as the opener. that really means alot to me. JD- cool dream that must have just been awesome to have a dream like that. those docs are incompetant. what the hell is wrong with them doing a surgery that she didnt need.dumbasses i tell ya!!

 

na25 - May 1

Hey again :) How is everyone today? ((Robyn)) I got the hcg 10,000 units. So yes, I should wait 14 days…:) I tested today again with (baby dolar store hpt) and got a little darker bfp when I compared the one from yesterday. LOL. I don’t know what to think now. I should’t get my hopes up, but I did :(….Now not sure what to think anymore…I do feel dizzy, nauses and bbs are much fuller but could be from progesterone supplements too…OMG, not sure what to think. HELP! Haha Let Me Know What All Of You Think???????btw i got hcg trigger on 04/20...

 

wannabeamom - May 1

Na I am not sure. But I am praying it is positive!! Thankyou Jamie. Your words are better than anything I can come up with!

 

wannabeamom - May 1

ok new thread is going to start. I have to go to bed.

 

ROBYN - May 1

Morning girls i had to catch up from last nights. NATASHA - progesterone will absolutely positively simulate pregnancy symptoms with exactly what you just said. I am so hoping its positive for you but its still too early you will get positive OPKs also i did those as well. SO i tried all the tricks of the trade (LOL. Youre best bet is to see what happens on the 14th day if its still showing positive then its a good sign because it should be leaving your system everyday. But in the reality of it its definitely 14 days for 10,000 units of hcg. My fingers are crossed that it will remain positive for you. Just keep us posted.

 

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