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HEY PINK...OH OK, SORRY BOUT THAT. I MISSREAD! I THINK NO TTC SEX IS GREAT, IF YOU ARE FEELING THE PRESSURE BURN AT THAT TIME. WE HAVE A WONDERFUL RELATIONSHIP, IT'S JUST THAT FOR THOSE FEW DAYS A MONTH, IT'S VERY "CLINICAL" SEX. I JUST TRY NOT TO LET HIM ON ABOUT THAT, BUT HE KNOWS IAM SURE. AFTER YEARS OF TTC YOU GET THAT WAY, BUT ASIDE FROM THAT "PRESSURE" THE ELEMENTS OF OUR SEX LIFE ASIDE FROM THIS, HAVE ALWAYS BEEN WELL. SOMETIMES NOTHING MAKES IT EASY TO GET HIM IN THE MODD, THOUGH WE ARE FOREVER TRYING. YES PINK WE USED CLOMID WITH IUI. HUGS
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SHERRY; i guess your chance is better than me mysexlife have been bad we are married for 7 years and we used to have it like few times a year problem goes back the time he was little , his mother used to hit him or put him in dark place .... so he was never able to show his feeling we saw so many doctor and spend $$$ and now he is better and have more sex but and able to show his feeling still not everything is ok ! but i cant see my life without him ,and now is time to have little one!!so how long did you take clomid before you did iui, sorry to ask you all this question but i want have some idea before i see my doctor. :) ;)
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hey pink, sorry for what you are going thru. my ex and i rarely had sex. it made me feel crappy about myself until i realized it wasn't me, it was him, and his past, just like what you said about your hubby. mine came from an abusive backround as well. (sorry for what you have to deal with, but you are a great gal to him!) finally i stopped taking it so personally, and there was more to life then that, but i have been there as well. take it from me though kiddo...once you have your baby, they'll be little time for sex anyway, so what you will have, will probobly be better then before. i know ours is, cause it's more limited, which makes ttc hard i know. iui and clomid i believe is a great option for you guys truthfully.
we will go that route aain in a few more months if nothin happens. i got prenant in my first round of clomid 100m and iui. i never took clomid alone w/o iui. we just wanted to do what would make our chances best, and we let the dr. know it. we did not want to pussy foot around wasting money. if the iui failed i was already looking into ivf, but you won't have to go there. good luck to you, and if you wanna chat w/b hugs, sherry
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SHERRY; hi you are great women thank you for your kind words, is nice when some one undrestand what im going tru, and sorry that you had same pain , honestly sex is not important to me anymore was a time that i would go so mad and crazy cus he didnt want me but now i know what a problem is and try to fix it some how, i guess iui is best chance i wait till my af is finish this month then i go see a doctor , im happy with him and sex is not everything , i really do hope that you get +++ this few months and if not there is alway a way , thanks again you gave me lots of hope and that what i needed ! would be nice if we could chat more here is my email would be easier to talk there if you want , good luck and i keep you in my prayers.... my email is [email protected]
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sherry where are you girl?
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