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slowpoke01 I posted the same time you did I just read your post. Men can be such a-holes. They just dont realize how much this effects us. You have plenty of time to have a baby I am 37 and my RE is not concerned at all. Sometimes these things take time and when its our time it will happen. I didnt know you guys were using a donor I must have missed that in previous threads. But I am sorry about your DH sometimes the mouth thinks before the brain and you cant take back stuff you dont mean. I am sure hes just frustrated also. It wasnt the right thing to say. We still love you!!!

TANYA_ My OB says some of his ENdo patients don't report pain, it all depends on the individual. PCOS can cause some major pains too when the cysts rupture, do you have that? Have you had your Thyroid checked? Sorry to hear of yours and ds illness, GET BETTER! JAMIEsp_ I really didn't expect anyone to comment, I was just being facisious (sp) that day as I was SOO happy. I truely am sorry for your bfn and the way dh is behaving - he'll come around, they always do ;) Hang in there! Hey we're both skipping July, so I'llbe with you with bells on the whole way! BROOKE_ the saline test is same as dye test "HSG" I do believe which can be expensive and insurance doesn't cover it. If you are having irregular bleeding or pelvic pain these diagnoses can be used for the Lap so insurance will cover and if you do the HSG at the same time the doc can only bill for the Lap so in essence you're getting the saline test FREE! lol She probably offing the lap cause it is invasive, but so is the HSG. Seems to me if she mentioned the Lap there may be a possibility in the future to do it so why not do it all at once and get ALL the answers? That's just me - but ask your doc about it (don't mention free though, lol) I am sure OB will put me on clomid after the Lap, mybe August or Sept as my RE sent letter to OB stating if dh SA ok do clomid + natural for 3 months then if not pg do clomid w/IUI up to 3 tries. Well I am off to house cleaning - UGH! Did yard work yesterday. Cyas later. Oh and KATHY_ not sure about your dream, might want to search your soul and see what's bothering you or stressing you as our minds have a funny way of processing things ;)

SORRY THIS IS VERY LONG.... Hey everyone I just dropped my son off at the airport. He started crying because the weather isnt too great here today we are getting some tropical wave in the south and he was scared to fly. So of course I start crying because I dont want him to leave. My DH is trying to comfort the both of us. I dont like flying and have a fear of it. My son has flown 6 times already with my mom and dad he loves it and ex-husband and now my x's mother today. So its hard to be upbeat when i am having a breakdown inside. So now I am home crying. I have been a major A-hole all day to my DH. I refused to go to his parents house with him to give his dad his fathers day gift since they were a on a cruise over fathers day. I am still having some anger towards his mother since the wedding. I just dont want to be around them. His father his wonderful but I dont like watching every word I say around his mom so I dont upset her. (Because she is so sensitive) . So I take the other route and dont see them so I cant upset anyone. I can be such a bitch but I cant help it. So even after I have been such a nasty bitch today my DH said do you need anything while I am out I could go the store and get you whatever you need so we can make dinner together? I am like do whatever you want just leave me alone right now. He tells me that my son will be absolutely fine and to stop worrying. I am a mom I will never stop worrying. Thats my baby. Ok... i had to vent to you guys. I hate feeling this way but it feels better when you type it out. It feels like a journal everyday. Will check in later. xoxoxox

Hi! Thought I would take 5 and pop in to see if anything is going on...ROBYN_ I don't have any children yet so I can't even imagine how you feel as far as your son going away for 10 days. (?) I can however relate to the inlaws situation as my dh is the same way, he feels awkward around my mom cause she is so sensitive too and so if he goes to visit he kinda isolates himself and just says nothing! I am sorry you are having such a bad day ((((((HUGS)))))) Sounds like making dinner w/DH is just what the doctor ordered...hang out and enjoy eachother and then tomorrow after a good nights rest maybe everything will looka bit brighter! Love yas! Take care you!

O.k. Seriously you ladies need to grow up, especially you Rhonda. I "stole" your headline. Didn't know you had copyrights to it. You had it started for June. I started my own for July, big deal. This just goes to show the reason I did not wish to join your thread. Not because I thought I was to good, because it is "your" thread, and all you girls are seem to be in tune with each other. I didn't want to be the oddball in. So I am so sorry if you feel I "stole your headline", but come on Rhonda....Grow up. It really isn't that big of a deal, and you didn't need to hop onto my thread that I started and be a bi*ch about it, there is no need for that.

wow, looks like someone needs to get laid, lol!

yeah, you're right. I do. It's been a few weeks. :) Right now, I'm like PMS x 5. and it doens't help that it's hotter than hell outside and I just got done working and dealing with a bunch of drunks!

No we didnt copyright our thread but it did make it easier when we didnt have to search thru 2 of the same name threads to find each other. You are still welome to join us we are all close to one another because we have been talking to one another for several months.

yes, TAMMY you are more than welcome to join our thread. Eh I think it's good we changed our name as it may just help our karma along...EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON..ok well time to bring in the steaks and chow down,lol! I'll try to check in b4 bed. Got an early start in am - should leave home by 4, dunno how that is gonna happen - I hate Mondays at the beginning of the month - I'll probably have like 40 draws to do! yikes! love yas - Take care and be safe all of you!

I'm not even going to argue the point or try to defend myself. It's a stinking forum, I am sorry I "stole" your heading and I'm sorry it was an inconvenience to all of you. Good luck to you all in your baby making.

Wow, I go to the beach and have dinner and a book is written! ROBYN, I am so sorry you are sad. I think we all can understand how you are feeling. I couldn't imagine sending my only child across country. Hang in there. (((HUG))). Welcome Maynika! Tammy I am sure no one meant to offend you. You know how women can be when we are hopped up on hormones!!! LMAO!! It would be good to have you here. I am sure we will pop in on the thread you started also. Slowpoke sorry DH is being a large male reproductive organ! Maybe he is dealing with this by lashing out at the one who is closest. Hang in there sweetie! BL if you go to that fertilitylifelines.com there is a part where they will help you find out what your insurance will cover. It is Free!! Take advantage of it. I am! Mommy2josh, I hope your regular doc will be more helpful. Well goodnight ladies. I hope our other girls will find us or post soon!

I know, I'm sure no one meant anything, I have just been so crabby this last week, and I am taking things so personally, and I don't know why. Seriously, if I wouldn't have gotten Af, I would think that I am pregnant. I'm crabby, crampy, and peeing all the time. My hubby even asked me why I'm so testy. I don't know. It would be nice if some of you popped in on the other thread once in a while. I pop in here every now and then, I just wanted to start a new thread so that if there were other woman who were also new, we could all chat together. I didn't want to step on anyones toes. I have delt w/ my mother in law staying with us all weekend, and I am just really crabby today. Then reading what Rhonda wrote on the other post really t'd me off.

Hi all. I havent read yet, just wanted to say I found you all and I will catch up in the morning....oh Katt I did look over the old thread and I am so happy for your dh. My dh's count was 11million in March and he can retest in August to see if the surgery helped. Love you all and 'see' you in the morning.

Ladies, thanks for the warm welcome. Here's my story, I'm 32 with irregular periods. I married my dh in 2004, got pregnant after a year but I miscarried at 8 wks and found out it was a blighted ovum last October. Since then we've been ttc with no luck. I went to see a RE and gone through all the fertility tests including the hsg which showed that both tubes are patent. My RE started me on Clomid 50 mg on cd 5-9 last April with IUI, I did ovulate but I guess the timing was off bec. I must have made a mistake in checking the lines on the opk so I failed to conceive. They kept me on 50 mg on the second cycle had u/s done and I had 3 follies seen on cd15 but they were not as big as the first cycle, did another IUI. My progesterone level was 15.8 after a week and I was so excited. I really thought we did it on the second cycle. My dh was excited too, he kept on asking me if I was having any symptoms and all I could say was that my breasts were sore and they usually are before AF comes. And every month af arrives, I can't help but cry. I had my third cycle of Clomid 50 mg last month and I'm still waiting for a LH surge and I'm already on cd21. Now I'm not even sure if I would ovulate this cycle. It's really frustrating!

Good morning girls! Shauna glad you found us. What surgery did your DH have? Manyika, you are definately in the right place. I was very frustrated and had no one who really understood what I was going through until I found these ladies in February. It is hard to believe it has been 6 months! Oh, Na how is the new job going? I will check back tonight.

Hi all, just popping in again - still having to use dh's laptop... :( I am cd6 and can't find my stinking thermometer! Glad I found the new thread - hee hee. I'm sure Tammy didn't realize that we always kept the same title and changed the month. Anyway, as you have said, maybe the new title will bring us new luck! :) Love you ladies! Hope to be back for good soon.