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Hi- first, Christina, I am sorry to hear that you were feeling a bit down ofver the past couple of days, but I'd like to share some news with you too. On My successful cycle, I had 2 embies tranferred, 1 was grade C (average) 8 cell, and the other was grade B- 7 cell- and 1 of them implanted, so you can't give up hun. you have to remain positiv,e becaue the mindset, does have alot to do with it, I really beleive that, and they say that your baby picks up on that, even when they are that small...so think positive, and treat yourself as you ARE pregnant! It does only take one, and you have 2 of those little ones in there, so here's praying 1, or even the 2 stick, and get nice and cozy!! I have also heard of women who have had just 1 transferred, nd it's been a success, so it's a matter of the embryo implanting iteslf..so you can't give up. Your embies sound just fine....and they will continue to strive...so you have to keep belieivng! It sounds like you have an awesome RE who is very supportive, and encouraging, that is so important!!! Hang in there sweety, and know that dreams do and will come true! Try not to think about "the next cycle" or what if, again, you just had your transfer, you need to take care of you know for the next 2 weeks, and take it easy...no heavy lifting, etc...not even a case of soda, have DH carry that, even a gallon of water....you'll cross that bridge if you need to later on, but for now...think, and remain hopful, and positive...I am! Thank you for sharing your story regarding your friend etc...I am soory for her 2nd loss. So they told her the likelyhood of downs was there for every pregnancy? Hmmm, that surprises me because of her age, being so young. The risk is normally for women wh are 35 and older. I m happy for her she has her beautiful 2 yr. old...as I am sure she is. All the best~~ Thinking of you, and take care!
Hi Trying- hope your doing, and feeling well too!! Hope you've been taking it easy yourself..and thinking positive!!!! I have a good feeling for both of you! Thanks for you kind words also. Still no sign of AF. If it shows it will be this weekend, so I am so hoping it shows...I don't want to have to go through another surgery, and exactly what you said...all these dlays, I just hate it! I have waited so long already, and now if their is an obstruction, it adds a couple of more months now...I hope that's not the case. yes, I agree with what you said, if the OB didn't go in with a curette, to scrap, it was all done by suction, how would that cause scar tissue??? I don't get it??? It's just got to be delayed due to my hormones from the past..but now that they are on track, and my HCG is at 0, it's just got to come right??? Oh guys,....I sure hope so! I agree with what you said too, I don't know what I would do regarding a baby with downs...it so hard, and I too never want to be in that positiomn to have to decide. I do feel that god is watching over me, nd he knows what my strengths are vs. my weaknesses, and I just don't know if I would be strong enough....I pray that everything will work out for us, if we are blessed to get pregnant again. The next cycle will most likely be our last one (4th IVF)- for we have paid out of pocket the whole time. We most likley will have to take out a loan for this cycle too. I hope it will work out. If we are fortunate enough to get a BFP again, we will definitely have the amnio the next time around.
Thanks for letting me talk about it. Thank you both for you kind words.
thinking of you both...Christina, and Trying!!! hang in there U-2...and don't give up...think positive for right now your both PUPO!!!!! (PREGNANT UNTIL PROVEN OTHERWISE)
HUGS TO YOU BOTH...AND BIG BABY WISHES!!! xo :O)
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