orgasm problems
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beverly - August 24

ever since i married my husband i never had a full blown orgasm and often times i don't get one and it's just so depressing!i think this is also one good reason why i can't fall pregnant.what is wrong with me?has anyone here has this experience?

 

thea - August 26

there's nothing wrong with you. orgasm in woman doesn't always come but it doesn't mean you can't fall pregnant because it's not related to an egg being available for fertilization.

 

Grandpa Viv - September 2

Beverly, it sounds like orgasm was not such a problem before marriage. I agree with Thea that orgasm and pregnancy are not related. Is your mind messing with your body, i.e did the risk-taking of extra-marital sex add to your pleasure? Alternatively does your husband lack the right technique? Or could the stress of making a marriage work be affecting the issue? You can't very well tell him his technique is lacking. How about spicing things up by asking what tricks would add to his pleasure, then turn things around by asking him to do something new with you. Negotiate a good-sex night when stress is low. Take it slow and easy. Try toys and tongues. Remember that your libido is highest at ovulation, two weeks before your expected period. Best of luck!

 

besh - September 3

a woman does not need to achieve orgasm in order to conceive. but it does feel great and i think you should really get that when you have sex.

 

jhinx - September 10

not necessary. but if possible, try to reach climax during sex, this helps in lubrication and helps sperm travel smoothly into the cervix and reach the egg in no time.

 

cristy - September 11

i don't think orgasm has something to do in connection with getting pregnant. however i think, orgasm is definitely good. enjoy sex!

 

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