new post for day 21 test
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cw - March 6

hey girl! i am glad that you had a great weekend. mine was good. i did test and of course still a BFN so i guess it was just my mind playing tricks again. although i did get excited cause about an hour later i looked at it again and i could see where the line would be and it was very visable. so i got my hopes up and i think it was just the evap line b/c i took another one today and the same thing happened. so on with next month :) i am gld that i have the preeseed though hopefully that will work. how about you did AF show?

 

Mega - March 6

I'm so sorry about the BFN, I really thought you were PG too. I still firmly believe your BFP is around the corner though. Maybe we'll both get BFPs for your b-day then, which I believe was your original goal anyway. PreSeed has a good track record of success stories, here's hoping you'll be the next one! Are you going to take the cough syrup too? My friend conceived her now 4 mos. old daughter Elena on PreSeed & cough syrup (she had a cold at the time of conception). She thinks they both contributed to Elena. Nope, no AF yet, but I suspect it will come shortly after I finish the prometrium. I spotted again this weekend, brown (old blood--gross & TMI I know) again, just like last weekend. So I don't think it's exactly b/c of the prometrium. But I'm still hoping it's a good sign. I guess I'll ask my dr at my CD3 baseline u/s appt. Well, you & I will be on a similar cycle this month finally. You'll just be a few days ahead of me, if that. When do you expect AF?

 

cw - March 6

its ok i kinda expected it but was still a little hopeful. maybe next month. i am thinking AF should be here no later then friday. 30 days would be tomorrow but we will see. if i am not pg at least i hope she shows on time!!!!!!!!

 

Mega - March 6

When you had all those signs it's hard not to get excited. I've been there lots of times myself. Well, if AF shows up around Friday for you then I'd think you & will definitely be on almost the same schedule next cycle then. Cycle buddies again. But you still tend to O sooner than me, but that might not be the case now post drilling.

 

cw - March 6

well i counted it up and 30 days is actually today so hopefully she is on her way. i will put out the mat for her. its wierd cause i just dont feel like she is coming and that is makingme alittle nervous that shewont show. its so wierd how you change your feelings towards her during the month!! lol

 

Mega - March 6

Isn't that the truth?!!!! Yeah, she's been treating you weird all cycle, teasing you & now she doesn't even want to show on time. Do men realize how good they have it compared to us?! LOL! Well, hopefully AF will see the welcome mat & come on by soon for you.

 

cw - March 6

i hope so, however if she is a couple of days late that is ok this month b/c scott just found out that he has to be out if town the 21-23 so thats when i would O. maybe she is actually doing me a favor this time..lol i think if it doesnt work this time o am going to ask for more test at my yearly pap. i have been ttc for a year now but as scott pointed out i have only been Oing for 3 months so that is all that i can really count. i at least want to have a hsg to make sure that there are no blockages and i want a u/s to make sure that i dont have a lot of cysts. that is pretty reasonable dont you think?

 

Mega - March 6

That's a very resonable request, I'd say. :) I really think anyone who's been trying as long as you should get a HSG at the very least, it really improves things greatly. That could be all it takes. Have you & Scott discussed switching to a RE instead of sticking with OB? They'll do the u/s & HSG as standard, first pass tests. That would be nice if AF is waiting just a few days to accomodate Scott's travel plans. How nice of her. :) Guess she's not always the witch we think she is. LOL! Scott made a good point, but I think you should still count the time spent getting your thyroid in order so you could O, you needed to that 1st to bring yourself to the point that you CAN conceive. I count the 7 mos. I wasted not Oing thanks to the PCOS & my whacked out hormones.

 

cw - March 6

very good point.i think that depending on what my OB says in april if i havent gottenn a BFP i will think about switching. i think that i am going to go ahead and lok into it and see what is covered by my insurance. i have united healthcare so hopefully it will have decent coverage. lol i really need to get my nails cut i am hitting all the wrongs keys :)

 

cw - March 6

ok well i guess i have answered my own questions and it looks liek i will stay with my ob as long as possible b/c i have NO coverage with united healthcare. that sucks

 

Mega - March 6

Yeah, that does suck. Do you have any diagnostic coverage though? I don't get my meds or IUI treatments covered by my ins., but they do pay for office visits ($15 copay) & unlimited u/s, etc. which actually is a pretty big help believe it or not. Did you check the united healthcare physician look up & see if any REs were in there? One other idea though, call around to area REs & see if any of them accept your ins. I looked in my provider directory (I have Anthem, DH has United) & my RE wasn't in my list but I also looked up REs on google, called my RE's office & one of the ladies in that office (Gina) called my ins. & found out exactly what they would cover. So all hope may not be lost. But I really hope more insurance companies start offering better infertility coverage. When the stats say 1 in 6 couples will have problems conceiving there's a problem somewhere! You know?!

 

Mega - March 6

Well, AF could be just around the corner for me. My spotting is getting heavier, though it's still not full AF flow yet & it's getting redder, & my back feels like it's about to start hurting. Classic AF signs for me. I thought it was supposed to stop only after you were finished with Prometrium, not during. Not that I'm complaining. And this time when I'm done with AF I'll send her to you, if she's still holding off for you that is. :) I guess I'll have to take the wait & see approach though.

 

Mega - March 6

This week just begun & I can already tell it's going to be one of "those" kinds of weeks. They're rumors going around that they're totally realigning my dept., which as long as that means more commission I'm totally okay with that. There's supposed to be this big meeting on Thursday, so hopefully by Friday I'll know something more. It'll be interesting to see what happens. That's big company politics for ya. 1 of those kinds of days. Still no full AF flow, but I'm still spotting quite a bit.

 

cw - March 7

goodmorning! well i hope that means more money for you. still no AF for me and i wish she would just come on already. i am tired of waiting for her...lol well i hope that you have agreat day and iwill check in later today we have an all day meeting at the hilton so we arfe closing the offices!!
tallk to you soon!!






 

Mega - March 7

I have no idea what will happen. It'll be interesting to see. No one's told me anything yet. I imagine it'll be more $ though, we'll see I guess. Although there's one position I'd like but I may have to go down to partime which is fine by Derr, as long as I still have my ins. it's all good. So we'll see. Have a great (& productive) meeting today. I hope AF comes for you soon. I don't know what's going on with mine. I'm back to strictly old brown spotting, none of the bright red stuff I had for a little bit yesterday. Really weird & not typical AF for me. I might've jumped the gun a little by making my u/s appt. for tomorrow. I think I'll call my dr later this PM & see what he says. Have a great day. Later!

 

cw - March 7

well meeting is over and i am at home!! it was ok nothiong as fun as they usually are though. so far ho AF which is fine but i would like her to show up anytime now :) i dont really want my schedule to get that screwed up. i have worked so hard to keep it right..lol cutting down to parttime sounds like it could be nice. that is what i am technically ( i work 32 hours a week) but fortunally my company considers anything over 30 hours full time so i am eligable for the benefits. did you call your Re yet? are you still going for the u/s tomorrow?

 

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