need some help from you girls
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kaylas mom - September 17

Hi girls! I need some help if any of you can help me.
I am really trying to figure out when I am ovulating. Here are my cycles.... may10, june6, july12, august10, september7!!!
I really have no idea when and I really want to get it right this month. Me and dh have been "trying" REALLY hard. From July to September we never missed a day and nothing!! I really do not understand what more I need to do. Please someone help. Any advice would be great!!! THANKS!!!!!

 

Val - September 17

Does "never missed a day" mean that you are bding every day? For some couples it's better to do it every other day around your fertile time so that you have more sperm. And are you charting your temperatures and using opks (ovulation predictor kits)? Good luck...

 

thayward7 - September 17

Also, remember that it can take up to 12 months for a "normal, fertile couple" to conceive... So hang-in there! Smiles and Babydust...T

 

kaylas mom - September 17

thanks girls. Yes we bd every day! it has been almost a year!

 

thayward7 - September 17

Kaylas Mom, hang-in there girl! I think Val is right... I have read bding every other day around O is best. I hope it all works out for you!!!! Smiles and Babydust... T

 

Mercedes32208 - September 17

hello i have the same question as kaylas mom af started on the 3rd or 4th so i am guessing i might o later this week sorry for just jumping in on this thread im kinda new and any advice would be of great help. thanks in advance

 

kaylas mom - September 18

girl jump right on in. i need all of the help that i can get. let me know if there is anything that i can do for you.

 

Tammy276 - September 18

o.k. DO NOT BD EVERYDAY!!!!! You are totally lowering his sperm count and that is not helping you at all!! It is best to BD every other day around your fertile time and of course the day of and day after ovulation......But if you are having sex everyday every month, that is probably why you are not getting pregnant. it takes like 24 hours for males to reproduce their sperm...I mean there is still some in there, but you want a lot at one time!!! Why don't you try using OPK's so you know when you are ovulating, that would help you out a little bit....usually woman ovulate about 14 days before they expect to see their period show, so it is best to start having sex about 20 day before you expect AF, every other day.....and just because you have sex at the right time doesn't guarentee a pregnancy, there are so many other factors that are involved with getting pregnant. It takes the average healthy couple w/ no fertility problems at least 6 months to conceive, sometimes up to a year....don't get discouraged, it is all about timing and being healthy.. Are you taking prenatal vitamins yet? It would be a good idea and would help you out alot.

 

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