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MANS PENIS LENGTH.....DOES IT AFFECT???
26 posts on this thread and the last post was on October 12th, 2011 6:53 AM by olami
CARRA - October 31st, 2005 1:42 AM

MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO GET PREGNANT FOR 2 MONTHS NOW, OCTOBER BEING THE SECOND MONTH. HE IS NOT VERY WELL ENDOWED IN LENGTH (this is embarrassing, about 5 1/2). ANYWAY, I WAS JUST WONDERING IF THAT HAD ANYTHING TO DO WITH GETTING PREGNANT? BECAUSE AFTER WE HAVE INTERCOURSE I STAY IN THE "DOGGIE STYLE" POSITION FOR ABOUT 15 OR MORE MINUTES. BUT WHEN I GET UP HIS SEMEN ALWAYS COMES OUT. I WAS JUST WONDERING IF MAYBE I WASN'T IN THE CORRECT POSITION OR IF MAYBE HIS PENIS LENGTH HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH IT, MAYBE IT'S NOT GETTING CLOSE ENOUGH TO MY CERVIX TO GET PREGNANT. WE ARE NEW AT THIS PREGNANCY THING AND IT'S FRUSTRATING. SO IF ANYBODY CAN HELP US OR GIVE US SOME TIPS THAT WOULD BE GREAT.


uu - October 31st, 2005 4:13 AM

You should do it at Missionary position..Anyway after intercourse u should lie on your back, with pillow under ur bum and rest like that for 30mins..


K - October 31st, 2005 7:45 AM

Make sure he stays in there for a minute or so before he withdraws. I found that helps a lot.


to capra - October 31st, 2005 10:13 AM

my doc says you only need a penis erect to be 4" long so your fine. Go missionary as uu says with the pillow. Anything that leaks out is excess fluid an normal. Make sure you are having sex at the right time by using opk stills, start watching your mucous, making sure cervix is high and open and it is normal to take upwards of 2 years. If over 35 and trying 6 months or under 35 and more than a year, or you feel there is a problem for whatever reason (ie: charting temps and see a problem) then go to a doctor for some testings. The body needs to be relaxed to get pg. that is the toughest part of this all. good luck. Two months is nothing for trying to conceive. Each month you only have a 20-25% change if absolutely everything is ideal. Sit back, enjoy and dont fret.


Shawna - October 31st, 2005 10:37 AM

How do you know if your cervix is high and open?


.. - October 31st, 2005 12:35 PM

you can feel your cervix by inserting 1 or 2 fingers. your cervix will be low firm and closed when you are infertile. when you start to become fertile you will notice that it moves up and you can feel that it is open. it will be very wet and slippery when you are most fertile. once you have ovulated it will feel low and firm again.


CARRA - October 31st, 2005 2:06 PM

I HEARD THAT YOUR CERVICAL FLUID HAS TO BE GOOD TO HELP CONCEPTION. I WAS TOLD THAT TAKING PLAIN ROBITUSSIN WOULD HELP YOUR CERVICAL MUCOUS. THIS MONTH I TOOK SOME OVULATION TESTS, BUT I DIDN'T KNOW WHEN TO START TAKING THEM, SO I TOOK THEM RIGHT AFTER MY PERIOD ENDED. I USED TO HAVE ALOT OF IRREGULAR CYLCLE LENGTHS, BUT FOR THE PAST COUPLE OF MONTHS THEY HAVE BEEN PRETTY MUCH THE SAME LENGH. IT COULD BE STRESS THAT IS CAUSING MY BODY TO NOT CONCIEVE. I JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW SOME WOMEN CAN GET PREGNANT AND NOT BE TRYING. LIKE MY FRIEND, SHE WAS ON BIRTH CONTROL AND SHE GOT PREGNANT, SHE NEVER LAYED THERE WITH HIS SEMEN INSIDE HER. I'M YOUNG AND NOT CONSIDERED "ADVANCED MATERNAL AGE", I'M HEALTHY (THE LAST TIME I GOT SICK WITH THE FLU WAS BACK IN 5-7 GRADE), AND I TAKE MY PRENATAL VITAMINS. I THINK THAT MY HUSBAND THINKS THAT IT IS HIS FAULT BECAUSE HE DOESN'T HAVE A LONG PENIS. I DON'T KNOW IF WE HAVE SEX TOO MUCH EITHER. WE HAVE SEX LIKE 5 OR MORE TIMES A WEEK. I DON'T KNOW IF THAT CAN HAVE AN AFFECT ON HIS SPERM COUNT. HOW DO YOU CHECK YOUR CERVIX, I'VE TRIED AND IT'S LIKE I CAN'T FEEL IT. I DON'T KNOW IF I'M SITTING IN THE WRONG POSITION TO CHECK IT OR WHAT. I'VE TALKED TO SOME WOMEN THAT HAVE ACTUALLY WENT TO THE EXTENT OF HAVING THEIR HUSBANDS HOLD THEM UPSIDE DOWN AFTER SEX TO GET PREGNANT...HAVE ANY OF YOU HEARD OF THAT???


.. - October 31st, 2005 2:59 PM

to feel your cervix...you can either squat or sit on the toilet. It will feel like a round smooth nub (for lack of better words) with a dimple in the middle of it. If you are not fertile then you will be able to feel it pretty easily without reaching up too far. if you are fertile it can be difficult to reach. (whole finger). As for the man holding you upside down...that wouldn't been too helpful. all you need is to have your hips elevated a little bit. If you are upside down then the spem will puddle up behind the cervix. You just need to help the swimmers fight gravity. (you don't NEED to, but it boosts your chances a little) Hope that helps


Shawna - October 31st, 2005 3:08 PM

Thanks for your help! I have to go now and try it out!!!


CARRA - October 31st, 2005 3:21 PM

I LOOKED UP PICTURES OF A CERVIX AND IT IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT THAN WHAT I EXPECTED IT TO BE. IT'S LIKE A LITTLE NUB, I THOUGHT IT WAS FLAT AND DIDN'T STICK OUT LIKE IT DOES. MAYBE THAT IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN DOING WRONG, I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO GET AS ELEVATED IN THE AIR AS I COULD. MAYBE IT WAS PUDDLING UP BEHIND IT AND THAT'S WHY IT KEEPS COMING OUT, BECAUSE IT'S NOT GETTING TO IT, IT'S SITTING BEHIND IT. I'LL HAVE TO GO TO THE LIBRARY AND GET A BOOK ABOUT THE CERVIX. GO TO THIS SITE www.tryingtoconceive.com/store/cp.htm AND IT WILL SHOW YOU WHAT A CERVIX LOOKS LIKE OPENED AND CLOSED. IT WILL GIVE YOU ALL A BETTER IDEA.


MONICALIA - October 31st, 2005 4:32 PM

I have things the other way around - My DH has a HUGE penis... LOL - that sounded wrong! *TMI* I'm sory but I'm so curious! Like I said - it's huge = 81/2 long & very thick... I've often thought about this as a possibility for our years of "unexplained infertility".... Seriously, his penis is so big that after we started dating years ago -the skin from the back of my vagina to my anus slowly Scared the hell out of me!! I'm only 5'1 -he's 6'2 -sometimes sex can be painful b/c I feel him deep in the "back" of me... I mean missionary can be very painful if I let him have his way & go deep. He always has to be careful. I've explained this theory of mine to him & we've tried to "back it up" a bit when he is about to :::::: -No reall difference - still no luck in out TTC mission! Hmm, I wonder.... Does anyone else have this problem?! Please - I cant be alone in wondering this. Thank you & BABY DUST TO ALL! Cheers, Monica


OOPS TYPO _ SHOULD SAY THIS: - October 31st, 2005 4:34 PM

Seriously, his penis is so big that after we started dating years ago -the skin from the back of my vagina to my anus slowly "tore" with each deed, ended up about 3/4 - 1 inch longer towards the back... Scared the hell out of me!!


shania - October 31st, 2005 9:57 PM

You are lucky, a its better to have a big penis than a little one, the little one has no use. baby dust to you, use preseed for lubrication and good luck.


to shania - November 1st, 2005 2:39 AM

a little penis does just as good as a big one. you only need 4 inches of erect penis to get pregnant. why would you want such a big penis anyway, after you go big you can never go back, lol. anyway a short penis is just as good as a long one.


CARRA - November 1st, 2005 2:42 AM

IF YOU DON'T HAVE SOMETHING POSITIVE TO SAY THEN DON'T EVEN BOTHER TALKING ON HERE. SAYING THAT A SMALL PENIS IS NO GOOD, IS LIKE TELLING ME THAT I SHOULD JUST GIVE UP ON TRYING TO GET PREGNANT BECAUSE MY HUSBANDS DICK JUST AIN'T GONNA DO IT. SO WATCH WHAT YOU SAY, THAT COULD HAVE GAVE UP SOME HOPE FOR ALOT OF PEOPLE. THANK YOU.


dg - November 1st, 2005 4:21 AM

Little dick is also good..If they can shoot sperm out..then anything is possible..Long dick too long..no good....need to chop off half length to make more pleasure..


gigi - November 1st, 2005 12:40 PM

hi just came from doctor ttc 8 mths, my doc told me to use pillows not under my hips area but under my back in the center ,she said to me dont go to toilet or shower after 2/3 hrs and be down while doing sex .I am on clomid too ...She was saying me do u feel ur dh penis when u do sex near ur cervical area... how will i get to know , so frusturated.. i think today i will check my dh penis.... .
For Carra .. i think u start doing missionary position .
i know fend even my semen comes out ..... i have no idea


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