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Liz...can u plse email me and let me know how you are doing...I'm worrying about you...Sam
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hey sam i sent you an email but im not sure if you recieved it. im not doing well. my poor husband is trying to hold it together for both of us, but im not the strong one this time. my d/c is monday at 1pm, and then im going home for a few days off. im so angry, and then i cry for hours, then im angry again. i feel like the whole world is looking at my fat barren body. my baby is dead inside of me sam what do i do?
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Liz, I'm so sorry you are both going thru this now, you deserve to be happy and have lots of children around you. Please try to be strong, since you are still young you will have the time to sort this out and it gives the doc time to figure out the resolution for your body...I am more confident than ever this will work for you and you will have a healthy baby in the near future...be strong but cry if you need to because even though you did not meet the child it was still your child. Just remember to pray and know that God does know best and will only provide when he knows the child will be strong and healthy. It will happen...I know it will. I'm not so sure about me due to age I do not have the luxury of time but you do and the docs will figure it out. Try to go to the library or online and find other people with the same problem. The fact that you are able to get pregnant means neither of you are sterile which is really good news even though it doesn't feel like it at the moment...keep your chin up and insist the docs work this out for you. It may be a very small problem that can be fixed with a snap of the fingers, believe that!!!...if you need to talk you know where I am...love ya Sam
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Hello Liz, Sam and everyone, I havnt been on here in a while...been so very depressed.....ran into a friend of mine who's 40 is 8 1/2 mths preg......then my third cousin who I havent seen in years...gets my email from a family member and sends me pics of her newborn she just had...(she never wanted a child..and says that in her email to me?)...It's like I'm being punished...everywhere I go..the doctor, walmart..postoffice....everyone has children...babies are everywhere...and I'm running out of time....All I feel like doing in staying in bed....I'm so depressed...I guess it doesnt matter if im on here much since this is a site for those ttc...I'm giving up....my doctor wants to take me off the clomid..I just turned 41...I'm done...obviously Im not "mother" material, pls my husbd says he's not "doing that" to get the sperm...he tells me to "get over it" and that It's not a big deal, I should get a puppy or something..needless to say...we have not been getting along..I told him he's not very supportive, he tells me that he's not worried, if it happens, it happens..
Liz, I'm so very sorry.....I know that you WILL eventually have a healthy baby....you have two good things going for you..I only ovulated only ONE time in my life!!! Seems like you can ovulate more than once, you have a very good chance of conceiving again, and you are young, you have much more time than I do, and, I know that everything will happen for you soon...I know the pain of having a d/c....it feels like you have some how failed...almost too good to be true and then, your dream is taken from you.....believe me, I know.....!!! But, like I said earlier, keep your chin up, at least you can ovulate...keep that little bit in the back of your mind...and I wish you good luck...and God bless. Lynn Ps. I'll keep you in my prayers, both of you!!
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