Day 21 test--Part 3
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cw - September 18

mega--- i am sorry but keep in mind that it could wrong. teh blood test are WAY more sensitive then the hpts. it is NOT over for you just yet. ALSO this is only your 1st cycle and like you said you have more eggs left over so it is not like starting completely over. half of your work is done :) BUT that being said dont give up all hope just yet. God has a plan for you and i really believe that it involves little babies! maybe not this month but keep the big picture in focus (thats what i have to do) i have been thinking and praying for you all weekend. i am off today so i will be checking in all day!! GOOD LUCK and lot of PRAYERS with you today!!

 

Mega - September 18

Thank you so much for the thoughts & prayers. You're right, blood betas are more sensetitive than last night's HPT, but the nurse also ran a very sensetive lab quality urine test this AM before the beta & it to was BFN so I truly think I'm out this cycle. I have to believe you're right abou God's plan for me involving babies but at times like this it's tough. But I'm tough too & stubborn. I'll try immediately with a Frozen Embryo Transfer (with the embies I have on ice). You're right, that is 1/2 the battle. I'll post back the final verdict when I can. Hope you've been enjoying your day off. Did Scott do his SA today? Good luck with that! I've got my fingers' crossed just as hard that the Clomid worked well for him.

 

Mega - September 18

CW, well guess what?! I'm STILL in limbo land. NO CALL about my beta. It was labeled STAT too, which means I should've had the call tonight between 4 & 6, it's now past 7 and still nada. Beyond annoying right now. I expected there'd be a message on my VM when I came home from work. And there was, 2 of them, one was a from a friend the other a hang up. Not my clinic though. Now it's past office hours, so there's no one I can call to b**tch at now, though I'd very much like to. But the b/w was done at an outside clinic so maybe there's nothing they could've done anyway. So here I am, no beta results, so I'll have to take the PIO one more night though most likely I'm not pg and I can't even drink & have sex with my DH right now on our anniversary. ( No sex in a IVF cycle til after the 1st u/s or the neg. beta)Grrr. Believe me someone's getting an earful tomorrow. Thanks for letting me vent...Have a good night.

 

cw - September 19

goodmorning girl!! i am sorry that you had such a annoying day yesterday and it was on your anniversary!! maybe today will be much better and you will receive that call that you are looking for :) then it will all be worth it! did you guys get to do anything else last night? did you go to dinner or anything? how did he like his presents? what did you get? gosh seems like i am FULL of questions today! lol scott has decided that he wants to do another month of clomid and then do the sa????? WHATEVER! i really dont mind though. it gives him alittle more time to build up his boys!! hopefully thats what he is doing :) well have agreat day and keep your chin up!! this will happen for you! i will check back in later! dont forget to call and give them an earful today :)

 

Mega - September 19

I didn't even have to call to give them an earful. Judy, head IVF nurse, called me 8 AM this morning to share the disapointing but expected news, BFN. It's official now. I'll stop the PIO shots today and AF should come in a few days. I call her when AF comes, I'll start BCPs then and she'll mail me a new calender for the FET (frozen embie transfer) cycle. So I've got a back up plan at least. Otherwise, my anniversary was nice. Thank you. We're celebrating Fri. night at a nice restaurant, but we did exchange gifts last night. I got a beautiful diamond tennis bracelet & DH got a couple games he'd been wanting, Lou Holtz's autobiography & a dress shirt. Not as nice as his gift to me, but he was happy. I think an additional month of Clomid for Scott could only help, not hurt. So hopefully those boys are busy building back up!!! I've got my fingers' crossed. Are you working today? Or are you off today as well?

 

Mega - September 21

Howdy! Hope things are going good on your end. AF came pretty quickly, I started spotting before my body even knew I'd stopped the Progesterone, which is weird, prog. usually stops AF from coming. Guess I'm just unique. :) Ha. But anyway, I started BCPs last night, so my FET cycle is officially underway now. That's good. Anyway, have a great weekend. I'm guessing you're working. Don't work too hard. I'll be in TN this weekend at Derr's Aunt's cabin by Norris Lake, we'll be there til Tuesday. So I'm offline til then. Hope Hunter's football game goes well this weekend & they WIN. Take care!

 

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