Cd 29 bfn...is there still a chance?
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CarolinaCowgirl - June 25

On cd 29 and tested bfn.........first round of clomid 100 mg 6-10.....bd' on cd 12, 15 in am, 17........i hate this, i used to know my body and now on clomid i have all kinds of pains, nausea, and now no AF........i have NEVER missed a period and only two months ago did i go 31 day cycle...the next month 19 which is very strange.........normally is 25-28 day cycles. Is there still a chance I might be pregnant? Or should I just await AF........thanks

 

lisnel - June 25

There is still a chance. Some women don't get a +HPT until 2 weeks after missed period. But just know that Clomid can also make your cycles longer. I take it days 5-9 and it has made my cycles 30 to 31 days instead of 26 to 28 like I was before clomid. Just wait it out and don't give up if it doesn't work this month. Good Luck.

 

zigzag1 - June 25

CarolinaCowgirl, dont be discouraged. Clomid can make your cycles longer. I was on it, and Im a 28-29 day cycle. The month I was on it, I went 34 days. Ive never been that long before. Maybe try another test in a few days if AF doesnt show. Good luck.

 

CarolinaCowgirl - June 25

i dont know how people do this....its driving me crazy@!

 

CarolinaCowgirl - June 25

I thought I would be ok mentally with a bfn.....but I am emotional today, cried several times, nipples are very sore and boobs looked huge.........hormonal is normal for me, but the nipples arent........maybe it means I'll have AF in a day or two.......if im not, ok then I want AF so I can start this over....I'm very competitive and I think I'm frustrated b/c I haven't won.....like its a video game or something....*sigh*

 

Teddyfinch - June 26

clomid can change the length of your cycle so don't freak yourself out just yet. and it's all about patience and optimism. took my hubby and i 3 years so patience is a must or you'll drive yourself crazy. your breasts won't get big this early so try not to convince yourself you're having symptoms because it only makes it harder. honestly, it's still early yet so i'd wait a week and retest. are you being monitored by a doctor? have you been tested to make sure you're ovulating? you really shouldn't see it as a competition. it's not a video game. it's a real life situation and you can't just save and quit when you get tired of taking care of a baby. you're trying to bring a baby into the world and should be thinking of that baby. not yourself. good luck and let me know!

 

CarolinaCowgirl - June 26

thanks for bringing me back to earth.......and no im not being monitored.......just got the rx from my ob/gyn......i think id feel better if i was.....im going to try to calm down and relax and test on Monday again if no AF..i have no choice but wait and see......just not used to it yet

 

CarolinaCowgirl - June 27

update: cd 30.....no sign of AF........am waiting until monday morning, cd 34 to test again......im doubting it outwardly, but inside i still have hope.......if not, im ok......just ready to start trying again!

 

Teddyfinch - June 27

ttc is hard. i can absolutely vouch for that. you feel cheated when you pray so hard and don't get what you pray for. i totally understand that. but you do just have to remember you're in this for a healthy baby and you'd rather it take longer for a healthy one then an unhealthy one right away. and you never know. something may come up where you aren't ready just yet. it happened to me lol. i think you need to find another doctor. they need to be at least testing your blood to make sure the clomid is making you ovulate before upping the dosage and a good doc would be doing ultrasounds on your ovaries to check for follicles and to make sure you're not overstimulating your ovaries. my first doc was the same way and i found a new one that did all that good stuff and 2 months later i was pregnant. good luck, though!

 

CarolinaCowgirl - June 27

i think im going to try 2 cycles of clomid.......and then a RE.....its just going to be hard to go to a RE, costs, and distance......but I'll do whats necessary

 

CarolinaCowgirl - June 27

Hi everyone. Just wanted to let everyone know Im going to take a break from posting. I feel like I've been whining and complaining and just not positive. I may log on and keep reading, I'm just not going to post for a while. I have learned so much from everyone! Thank you! Baby dust to all!

 

ChantalSA - August 5

I am currently on cycle 4 using Clomid. I am on cd 29 and tested last night with a early response pregnancy test. On the test it explains that you can test 4 days before af is due as it detects 12.5mlu hcg. Got a BFN. Feeling so low today. I really thought this would be the month. Sitting at work and trying to keep the tears back. I didn't close a eye last night. Dreading the idea of dealing with af showing up in 4 days even though I have already taken a test. Baby dust to us all and may we find peace in the process.

 

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