Am i one with problem or partner?
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PLEASE CAN SOME-ONE HELP OR GIVE ME ADVISE I'M GOING MAD! I'VE BEEN TO MY DOCTOR TWICE AND ASKED FOR HELP BUT HE SAYS I MUST WAIT. I WAS TOLD I HAVE A RETREVERTED UTERUS AND WON'T BE ABLE TO HAVE CHILDREN. A YEAR LATER I FELL PREGNANT!!! I HAVE BEEN WITH MY PARTNER FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS NOW AND WE ARE TRYING TO FALL PREGNANT BUT WITH NO LUCK. MY DOCTOR SAYS IT'S DUE TO MY ANXIETY AND STRESS? YET SINCE MY PARTNER AND I STARTED DISCUSSING HAVING A BABY, HE TOLD ME HE'S AFRAID HE CAN'T HAVE KIDS BECAUSE WHEN HE EJACULATES, IT IS NOT LIKE NORMAL HOW CAN I PUT IT INSTEAD OF SHOOTING OUT IT SORT OF DRIPS OR LOOKS LIKE IT IS BEING SQUEEZED OUT OR SOMETHING. HE IS VERY UPSET ABOUT THIS BUT THE WAY MY DOCTOR SPEAKS IT SOUNDS MORE LIKE I'M THE PROBLEM.. MY PARTNER AND I HAVE FOLLOWED EVERY INSTRUCTION GIVEN TO US BUT STILL NOTHING HAS HAPPENED! IF ANY ONE CAN HELP WE WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT.
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Cascada, first of all, women with retreverted uterus get pregnant everyday, my co-worker had 2 kids with no problem. It may just take a little longer. Second, your partner may have some sort of blockage or scaring. My next door neighbor's husband had the blockage, had a surgical procedure to remove it and they now have 2 kids. Dont give up hope, but definately have your partner tested. Good luck to you :)
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Cascada-are you seeing an ob/gyn or an infertility specialist? if youa re seeing an ob/gyn, i would first suggest that you get an appointment with a specialist in your area. i have to drink about an hour and a half one way to see my specialist, but they are so much more aggressive than an ob/gyn is and they do testing and everything. also have you tried iui's. this is where they wash the sperm and put it into your uterus so that it doesnt have far to swim. this may be a good choice for you and your partner since you say that when he ejaculates it just drips. that may be where the problem is. with iui it wouldnt matter as long as his sperm were good they could just wash it and put it where it needs to be. have you had testing to make sure that your tubes werent blocked. this test is called the hsg dye test and can be uncomfortable but it is well worth it . i had it done and would do it again if necessary. this way you know your tubes are open. if they are blocked then more than likely you wont get pregnant and if you do then more htan likely it would be tubal. are you ovulating? you can buy those ovulation tests and use them to see if you are ovulating on your own, if not the doc could put you on something like clomid or femara to induce ovulation. thats all that i can think of right now, but i hopw that it helps you some. good luck and take care. also stress and anxiety can cause you to not get pregnant so try not to stress too much. good luck.
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