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hi ... cspears , well if you af is supposed to come on thursday you don´t necesarily have to have a + by now ... I don´t know if this count but when I got pg I could only tell by the blood test cause I never got a + , not ever ( but maybe it could be cause I ended in m/c) I don´t know if it was related : ( ... Have you tried those ones that said 5 days earlier than your af expecting date ( the thing is they´re kind of expensive ) .... tammy , I don´t think I´m even going to tell my mom and dad right away cause last time I did I told them at christmas and m/c next day , It was awfull , they came with me to the er and everything , I was even ashamed (like it was my fault or something ) so I don´t wanna get them all happy till untill I have an u/s or something , at least till my dr tells me that everything is ok ok super ok .... hope to even get there !!!!

thanks Andy I guess I am just really hoping for a positive which all of us are, so I NEED TO KNOW NOW!!!:-) yeah I am most likely not going to be able to wait and test until friday I will probably test every day until I get my period or a positive!!! I think I have 5 tests left, ebay is another good place to get tests!! I know I am insane! let me know if any of you don't wait until friday!!

I wanted to test tomorrow Cd25 (home testing) but my dh wont let me , he said that he wouldn´t be able to stand the look on my face if I got a - , which is probably what I´ll get since I think its too early , and since I have only one stick : ( I really can´t test , he is really on my every move ,so we have agreed to test on friday morning , if neg wait till monday CD30 to test my blood ... If positive go that moment to confirm with the blood test ... we´ll see ... only 3 days to go but feeling a little little crampy ( like sharp pain once in a while and I have like 4 break outs in my face ( don´t know what to think since I always got them once a month ... I´ll tell you It seems so unreal that maybe I´m loosing hope : ( ....

cspears, really, you are too funny! You sound so much like me! I did that like 2 months ago, tested like everyday for 5 days until I got AF....Then I was pissed that I spent all that money on tests!! I told my parents on Christmas too, and mc/ like the second week in January. I know, it is hard. But at the same time I want my mom there for me if something would happen. She is very supportive and I tell her everything......I don't think I could keep it from her and anyway, she can read me like a book so she would probably know. She already knows I am expecting AF soon, so in about 5 days she will be asking me, so did you get your period yet. And I can't lie and say yes if I didn't cuz I'm a crappy lier!! I am going to keep testing w/ the OPK's in the morning to see what happens with them. If they start to get darker/lighter everyday, then I think I will pretty much know if I am preggers...If there is no change in them, then I pretty much know I'm not. Well, I went from the twingy cramps to more period like cramps today, so I really don't know what to think.. It could be a good thing. My bb's are starting to get tender, but normally happens before Af, so who knows, I guess only time will tell!! I'm wishing for FRIDAY to come! It seems so far away even though it is only 3 days!!

only 2 days till friday , but not so enthus , I´m having every before af symptom , and I don´t want to get super sad if I get a neg so I´m putting my mind in next month treatment ... who know , expecting it to work at the first try sure was a long shot ... What I´m really happy about is that as we have 30 % of posibilities of getting pg , and here we are 3 , according to the odds at least one should get pg this month , so if it is not me , you guys have extra chances !!! ... Good Luck !!! : (

Well of course I tested again this morning :-( BFN yeah at least one of us has to be pregnant!!!!! keep us posted my period is actually due tomorrow??? so we'll see

Tammy276 :-) I know it sounds crazy but I feel better when I test every day, otherwise in consumes me all day!!! :-) I don't know if that is good or not, but I get like 15 of them for 30-, so I don't feel as bad as I did the first few months buying 2 for 20-?? so expensive anyway I wish every so much luck this month, I haven't had much cramping today, but I just feel negative as the week ends???

Hi ladies. Cspears that is why I have been testing w/ the opks, it makes me feel better that I am peeing on a stick! However, my mind is breaking and I am going to test tomorrow a.m. instead of Friday, I know Friday is only one extra day, but I can't wait that long! Tomorrow will be 12 dpo, so I think a pos. would show by then, maybe???? We will see! I just bought the dollar tree brand, so if it is neg., I won't get upset! yeah, 20 bucks for 2 and all you're really paying for is the name!! I like those odds 1/3???? One of us has to get a bfp this month!

Okay so I just had a little discharge very light brown?? I just want to cry, and of course took another test it was BGN, I hope you see a positive, it has to happen to one of us??? I think I am done I feel I will get my period tomorrow!!! I am then going to do my HSG test on thurs, then I am taking a month or two off and start again then? I am so sad, I was pretty positive this month, oh well good luck please let me know tomorrow!!! :-) I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!!!

Well ladies, I broke down and tested tonight already, and guess what? BFP!! Holy crap! It showed me a a really faint line, so I went out and bought a digital cuz I couldn't wait until tomorrow and within a minute, it showed me PREGNANT!! I am so scared though...what if I have another m/c? I am going to go in for a blood test tomorrow and have them tell me what my hcg levels are at, then I am going to ask if they can do it again on Monday to see if they are double the way they should be, that will ease my mind a little bit!! I really hope someone else gets a bfp with me! I don't want to be the only one here!! Of course right after I saw it, I started getting cramps, like Af is coming. But I had them the first month or two when I was preggers with my son, so I'm not going to get worried about it yet!! As long as AF stays away and keeps me pregnant, I will be happy! I am going to PRAY everyday that I have a full-term healthy pregnancy! Well, other than that nothing new has happened since earlier today, I just couldn't wait until tomorrow to tell you girls!! BABYDUST to the rest of you!

hi Tammy ... you have no idea how happy I´m for u !!!!! God bless your belly and you baby!!!! Thank God odds really work and you are pregnant !!!! please confirm us with your btest !!!!! cspears , I´m so sorry to hear about your brown discharge , unfortunatelly since yesterday afternoon I´ve had it too ... and I KNOW AF IS COMMING !!!! I just don´t undertand what could I have done so wrong in my life to deserve this ... why can´t I get pregnant !!! ???? I spend all my nights praying for 1 baby just one , I dont care if I never have another one , but why can´t God give it to me , I would like to know what my sins are to understand my punishment , I know deep down in my heart that I will never have a baby and that I´m just hoping for nothing ... I wish I could get it out of my head by I can´t ... You guys have no idea how much my dh wants to be a daddy and I canñt give him that ... why ??? oh my god , and I have to go thru the treatment all over again , I´m unemployed , and we thuogh this will work !!!!! now I don´t know if it will ever work , ever NEVER!!!! I´m so sorry to ruin your day with this .

god andy I feel exactly the same way, I keep asking myself what I did to derserve this, why other people who just shouldn't be pregnant get pregnant and I don't, a guy I work with, his wifes son's girlfriend just had a second baby that the guy I work with raises and the second baby was born positive for crystal meth, and now he is raising both kids, its like why would she get pregnant a mess on drugs and us who are trying to hard just doesn't happen, sorry too to bring everyone down I am just so sad today, good luck to everyone. cheryl

ladies, thank-you all for your support...I almost feel guilty telling you all that I am preggers...but please don't get discouraged! It still can happen for all of you!! It does suck that we see woman out there getting pregnant, who shouldn't be getting pregnant and end up giving their children up for adoption. But I also look at it as God has mysterious ways of working his magic. There are woman out there who simply can never have baby's so maybe this is God's way of letting these woman have babies, by adopting someone elses.....I don't know, that is how I see it. Well, I am going to get going for now, I am going to go lay out in the sun for a while. ttyl

Tammy don't ever feel guilty its amazing it happened for you!! and you are right that is a good way of looking at things, please keep us updated!!!

oh tammy ... I´m sorry please forgive me If I hurt you in some way with my words , but you know how we get when we are sad ... well ... brown discharge for me , although I still think its too early for af we´ll see ... Maybe this night that bitch will kill my hopes and baby feelings again .... please tell us everything ... got the blood test???

No, no, no, you didn't hurt me! I'm just saying.....I am happy, but I still feel for the rest of you because I know how bad you all want a baby!!! I just really hope that you will all see your bfp soon!! I am having some cramps today, go figure, but I'm not going to worry about it. I ahd cramping with my son, so I'm not going to let it stress me out!! I have my first doctors apt. on July 31st, so I hope everything looks good. It is kinda early for an apt., I will only be like 4 or 5 weeks, but I just kept my apt. that I had made a few weeks ago. I didn't see the point in canceling this apt. just to make a new one for the next week. So wish me luck and LOTS OF GOOD LUCK BABY DUST TO ALL OF YOU!!