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thanks for the luck, i'll need it. i think i have endo, but what do i do?? i hope your prego. that would be awsome and a big relief. i hope this works. with my insurance coverage it should only cost us about $175. a month. that's like a car payment. i'll just cut down on my shopping habits. i don't know how to talk to my doctr about the endo though. i don't know why i didn't bring it up. i think i was just so nervous that i forget a lot of stuff. i hate that. she gave me an exam and i forget about the sex we had the night before. i think that'll mess up the papsmear. am i right?

oh yeah, she said i was going to start my a/f that day and all i've done is spot when i push then spots on the tp. but never gets on the pad. i don't get it. my periods are so weird. and my bbs are still very sore. she said i'm going to start and i'm having cramps so i'm just waiting for it. HI Tonia, how are you? thanks for joining us.

Hey Crystal! I am good. I am on cd 11, waiting for O! Just started to see a little bit of EWCM today....so i'm getting close!

hey good luck to ya. one more hour and i'm off. i'm counting minutes right now. so are you on fertility meds?? how long have you been doing IUI's?

Crystal why do you think you have endo? What are your symptoms? Do you have pain? I can share with you the tell tell signs endo caused for me. But I had to beg the doc to do a lap on me to diagnose it. But if you have had the dye test and it came back clear that's what interferes so much other that that you should be o.k. But I am glad to here you are going for IUI's I would still want clomid b/c even for people that O on there own clomid is just a boost and it helps to produce more than one which it what your body normally produces. To have a successful IUI you need like 3 follies mature follies. Your doc should have suggested that. It is really going to be hit and miss without. Oh yeah and bd doesn't affect your pap. They are scrapping your actual tissue. Tonia thanks for joing us. Let us know when your IUI is. Fingers xxxx for all of us!

oh good, i'm glad that bd won't interfer then. I don't know, there's just got to be some reason i've never gotten pregnant. I have pains in between periods. sharp/pinching pains in my hips and ovaries, usually after O. I have very painful bowel movements and constipation all the time. I just can feel that something is really wrong. my mom had problems all throughout her pregnancy with me. but if you think since the dye test came back clear, and i geuss since my dr. isn't worried, then i should be okay. I just feel if i was okay then i would have had tons of kids by now. i mean i started having sex when i was 14 and never really used protection and never got pregnant. EVER. i just don't get it anymore. i just want to lie down and die

OH Crystal........Please don't feel that way. I totally understand where you are coming from.... I want to have a baby with dh really bad and I feel bad that we haven't conceived yet, BUT i know we can and will get through this! Everything passes, everything! You will find out what is keeping you from conceiving, you will fix it and you will conceive. Please know that. I feel that will happen for you, I really do.

thanks tonia, my hsb tells me the same thing..i'm sorry i'm so negative but i just can't help it. I don't think i will ever have a child of my own. i think there's no hope for me.

Crystal, I think you will have your own baby very soon! You are on the right track now. Lots of women with endo have babies..........and you don't know if you have it. I would ask the dr to put you on clomid now rather than waiting three more months! Greeneyed is right, the success rates of IUI are 5 times higher with 3 or more eggs.

i hope so. the dr hasn't even called me yet to schedule the IUI's. i'll just do what she wants and see if that works.

Crystal trust me I feel the same way sometimes. Actually like right now. I am cramping like af is coming and it's not due for another week. I don't know what the hell is going on. As for you endo is possible especially with bowel problems and pain before af. The sign for me was pain all the time that got worse during af. But it never went away. I also have irritable bowel because of the endo attatching to my colon. It did some damage on my insides that's for sure. As for the never getting pg I also started at 14 and was NEVER careful and trust me I should have like 100 kids by now but never did it happen. And my tubes are clear I never had endo in my tubes. So who the hell knows all they said was that I don't produce eggs and I have a hostile environment in my uterus. I have a war going on in there. Did they do the whole blood work-up on you. Just really push the doc for answers. And if you don;t feel like they are taking you seriously look for another one. Definitely push for clomid with the trigger. Just tell her you would rather get pg sooner rather than later. Tell her you just have heard of a very much higher success rate. The clomid really isn't expensive if the ins. doesn't cover it and it helps a lot.Think positive we are all in this together. Trust It took 4 years before I actually decided to start trying because I knew if would cause a lot of heart ache. You have to be strong and think positive BFP positive and it WILL happen!!!

Tonia I wrote you on the other thread to. I gues I will start talking to you here.

i really do appreciate your girls support. it's just what i need before i go insane sometimes. no, i mean, talking with you girls prevents me from going insane sometimes. other times it's to late, i've already gone over the edge and there aint no helping me. hehe. i dug in our cabinets here and found some pills. so i feel better. it's amazing what two little cheap ibuprofens will do for your cramps. i still want to be at home in some cozy sweat pants all curled up on the couch watching my fav. movie, Brokedown palace, while eating chocolate. i got some russle stovers sugar free chocolate's for my cravings. i can eat about one or two a day and that's it. since i'm trying to lose some weight and exercise everyday. i might skip the exercising today though, due to the winch a/f. hope you guys are having a good day. and Green eye's, sounds good for you. could it be implantation cramps. let's hope so :):):):):) * * * *babydust* * *

Crystal I totally know how you feel. I hope we get pg SOON! I hope I am now. I told you me best friend is pg and now so is my cousin all do about the same time as I would be. It pisses me OFF!!!! Well take a couple deep breaths and we will all get through this eventually.

Where are you Crystal? Are you doing o.k. I tested this morning and I swear there was a very faint line but I might have imagined it there. I will wait a week longer and test about 7 times before then before I take it to heart. I just really have my fingers xxxxxxx!!! For the both of us!! Have I wonderful weekend if you drink have one for me LOL! I will be around this weekend so keep in touch!

hey green eye's, sorry, i was out driving all day picking up cars and titles for the company. It's kinda neat to drive brand new cars now and then. i got to drive this big ford truck. not my choice of truck but it was nice. Hey, good news for you, sounds like your pregnant. a faint line is better than none. how exciting. i'm so jealous. when should you start a/f? I will pray for you that a/f stays away for nine months :):):). how many IUI's will this be? I really want to get started on mine. I should O around the 11-13th. I'm going to call my dr. next week if she doesn't call me. she better not be flaking me off. I really don't like them. I wish i had different insurance. have a good night