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angelkitty, you are so right about male egos...so right. I find myself having to stroke his ego at times, just to keep things happy. Your husband sounds sweet though. I hope lovemy3 1st gets BFP, then me then you angelkitty, and JB, this thread will be a lucky one then!! And why shouldn't it be with all the positive energy and thoughts. Celestia, I believe you when you say you still love him, and why shouldn't you? You are the one that never cheated on him, your conscious is free and your heart of love for him would not allow you to cheat on him. The fact that he is a repeat offender really does put a big question mark on what this guy thinks is really love. But you know that already, which is why you moved out, to prove your point, and to be true to yourself and the way love is supposed to be, which is honest and truthful. I think you sound like such a level-headed, beautiful woman, and can picture his ass crying at night wondering "why the hell did I do that to her." Let him wallow in his own pity for a while, and then, when time heals some of the pain, you can make a decision, with him, whether your marriage is repairable. But he really needs to be sincere about fixing his flaws and own up to them. I know this is weird, but I always believe that everyone deserves forgiveness when they are truly sorry and can prove it. He's gonna need a lot of proving to do...
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Hello Girls, Hope all is well. So the countdown for us continues. CD27 for me today, if af will arive my bet is on cd31 like usual. Gosh, wouldn't it be great if we could skip right to that day after ovulation-lol. Just think of how patient we are learning to be. When we get it perfected we will get our BFP's-lol. Feeliong crampy, no pregnancy signs, just af signs. Keep praying ladies, ttyl XOXO
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You girls are quiet today, hope all is well
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CD28, no af, but showed a bfn. Not sure if I tested too early only being 10-12 dpo. Reading the other thnreads on here about EWCM and no ovulation have made me think, I never o'd this month. Its hard to stay positive.
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Where is everybody today?
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Hi there ladies, how has your weekend been? Mine has been good. DMIL left today and then DH and I went to the parade of homes later this afternoon. Lovemy3, I think you just tested too early. Didn't you say your cycles were usually like 31 or 32 days...you are almost there..I am praying for you! I have 4 more days before I will know. But I have decided that if AF does not come by Thursday I still will not test until Monday...I just will not do it. :o) Linds, JB...how are you? Celestia, how are you?
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Angelkitty, I know isn't it hard. Yes, my cycle is 31 days, I'm just a sucker for punishment! I will wait till thursday.. I just caught up on my bible study homework and watched the anne greaham lotz video, it was so good. If I don't get pregnant I know its because God has something even better in store for me, He will use me and one day it will all make sense. Its all about surrendering it all, not just little pieces where we see fit, but handing it all over and watching the incredible journey He takes us on. Its His promise. Thanks for your encouragement!
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Yes it is hard lovemy3...I had another episode last night of crying. I just got emotional. DH had to calm me down. He prayed for me and I immediately felt peaceful. I find the waiting is the worst. :o)
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Good morning Angelkitty, How are you feeling this a.m? I feel like I have af cramps, cd29, right on schedule it looks like, BUT no af as of yet. Mine appears usually only in the a.m. I wake up with it, so this a.m I creeped into the bathroom and was afraid to turn on the lights and look. Crazy huh. I hope so much you get your BFP this month. Forgive me for forgetting, but is this your first you are trying for. I'm thinking it is , but wanted to be sure. Is this your sisters first as well? What cd are you on now? Hugs,
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Hi there Lovemy3...I know what you mean about creeping into the bathroom and not wanting to look...I knwo that story too well. :o) Do not get discouraged - it ain't over til it is over!!! Yes, this is my first I am trying for. :o) Cannot wait to get my little one here. I just never knew it could be this hard to get pregnant. I thought once you decided to try it just happened the first time. This will be my DS 2nd child. She did not want to tell me because she was afraid I would be upset...but she should have know that her son and I are a tight pair and there is not a whole lot he doesn't tell me...or anyone for that matter...he is six years old! :o) LOL I felt sorry for her for not feeling free enough to shout out her wonderful news to the whole world. I, as usual, will go crazy with buying gifts and clothes for the new baby. I have also devised a plan to make sure my nephew does not feel left out in any form or fashion. I will stay with him when DS and DBIL go to have the baby. He has been the only baby in our family for so long and I always want him to know he is special to me. I think DH struggled with them getting pregnant before us...he never said it but i knew what he was feeling. Why is it that some people just get preg the 1st time they try and some do not? I just know God's seeming delays have a purpose and a plan and it is all for the best.
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Hi Angelkitty, I know its very strange how things happen. With my first 3, I looked at the calendar and went , ok, lets try now. First month, first try with all 3 of them, how amazing was that. Now, I am at 6 months. The number one differnece being my age. 37, last timne I got pregnant I was 33 and according to age stats thats a big deal. I feel thats the trouble, and I can't change that-lol. How old are you? Is you your sister older or younger. That is so wonderful you are happy for her, kind heart. Its so tough though, what cd are you on?
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I am 33, DH is 36. DS is 35 and DBIL is 41. I am on cd24. Oh I am definitely happy for my sis...yeah, it is hard because I want to be preg too but this is her time. Like you said maybe I will be preg this month and we can share the journey together. We would be a month apart and that way I can still stay with my nephew when they have their baby. My nephew and I are best buddies. it seems he has grown up so fast. I cannot believe he is6!!! We have always been pretty close. he is a good kid.
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Lovemy3, did you have implantation bleeding with your three? If so what was it like?
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Not that I know of, tonight i feel like af is going to start any minute. I have all the signs like when i get it, it should be there in the a.m, if not i'll be shocked. Still feeling hopeful and praying for a miracle, but the signs are there for sure. **sigh** I'll post in the a.m. XOXO Are yuo having spotting?
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No, it was not really spotting. It was the amount that would equate to the tip of a toothpick. That was last night. I usually have spotting before af comes but this was just different. I have never had a child so all of this is so strange to me. Even though I have read about a million different symptoms I am still not sure of what to expect. How are you feeling now? Any sign of that ugly witch?? LOL Keep me posted. I am still confessing and believing you will get your bfp!!!!!
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