2WW driving you crazy---PART 2
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angelkitty - October 18

I know what you mean about attitude!!! I have to keep a watch over mine too. Yesterday when dh came home from work he had a rose in his hand and when I asked him why he said that the God had put it on his heart to get me one. He is such a good hubby. Well I started crying and it lasted for about 30 minutes....just crying my eyes out...you should see me today!!! Thank goodness for makeup and eyeliner!!! After I cried it out I was better and went for a walk. Linds Chi- town....are you referring to Chicago? Forgive me for not knowing. If you do how cool is that! I would love to live near Chicago!!!! I love the big city feel!! Ladies, we are going to get BFP's this month!!! I am praying for us all!!!

 

lovemy3 - October 18

Me too!!!!

 

celestia1977 - October 18

Hi all...I suspected it for about a month now and found out about Kathy by looking at his email - she was emailing him about times to meet and everything. When I confronted him about it, he said he didn't want to tell me what was going on because he knew I would leave him. I told him he better tell me the truth because he's always stated I should "trust" him. Whenever I suspected anything, he would turn it around on me and say it's my "jealousy and insecurity". I got him to spill out everything that happened with all three of them. I'm soooo glad I'm not pregnant now! God knew what he was doing! I don't know what he was thinking. I moved into my parents' house and have been going back to get my stuff piece by piece. Yesterday, he was crying (I've never seen him cry), and he told me he was sooo sorry, and to please forgive him, and to not leave. I felt so bad, but I kept my distance and when he blew me a kiss, I just said, 'Bye' and took off. Then, I cried my eyes out all night long. In the last three days, I've gotten about 8 hours of sleep over all, and have not eaten much. I'm only eating lunch today because my work is paying for it. I'm not really hungry. I get to go tonight and get my kitties. I miss them sooo much! Then, he has the balls to tell me today that if I don't choose to be with him, he doesn't want to be lonely, so he will move in with Liz (who is another person altogether that I had suspected, but he says "nothing happened because she respects the ring".) He sure didn't. He keeps asking my forgiveness and telling me to come back home, and I'm trying so hard to just get everything moved out and packed up and move on. Why does life have to suck so much? Both my grandpas died this year too. We were together for 7 years! At least it's not 20. I'm ready to swear off men altogether at this point, but I know I'll change my mind after things calm down. Thank you all for your kind words and support :-) I appreciate it! Good luck to you all and baby dust!

 

linds99 - October 18

Celestia, as painful as infidelity may be, I think you did a very just thing by 'leaving' for now. Perhaps you can regroup and then have time to figure out whether the marriage can be repaired with time and counseling. Or you may find that was the straw that broke the camel's back and he won't change. Either way, the distance will bring clarity..to each of you. If he moves in with Liz as he is threatening, then you know for sure he won't change...ever and has no intention on correcting his flaws. Cheating is the worst pain you can inflict on someone who you "proclaimed" to love and if he "loves" this way, then it doesn't even meet your standards because his way of loving is so off. You sound like you have a lot of positives on your side, you have a job, insurance, your health and you are smart. The fact that he is about to lose all that and history of 7 years for a piece of ass is outrageously stupid. But what gets me is that he is totally unphased by the fact that he created this situation, and worsend it instead of coming clean with the affair and then begging for your forgiveness. Instead, he threatend to move in with another woman. That is really the kicker. I just want to say I'm really sorry. I hope you can find courage and strength right now to forge ahead.

 

angelkitty - October 18

Right on Linds!!! Celestia I too think you did the right thing by leaving for now. Very wise to just take some time to take care of you!!!

 

lovemy3 - October 19

I agree as well. Lets astrt a new thread, this o ne is so long. See ya on it.

 

lovemy3 - February 11

Hey ladies...came across this old thread. Lets thank God for the past 6 months of friendship!

 

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