2ww driving you Crazy? Part 18
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linds99 - February 20

I know, but I think her babies need prayers too! Their the ones without a mom at the moment. I just feel that she is sooooooo not grateful for all she has. There is alot in her life to be thankful for, her fertility and ability to have kids, her parents are still alive, she's got money up the wazuuuu to pay for every one of her heart's desires and her children's, and she has her health. But seriously, I just don't know what to think other than this is a girl totally not appreciating all the gifts she has. If she is "breaking down" from stress, she obviously doesn't KNOW what stress is...ask any woman here who has thousands of dollars of debts from infertility, and no baby, and has to hold down a job and maintain her composure for 8 hours a day without breaking down at work- that is MORE stressful than anything. And you don't see these women parading their va-jay-jay out on the town and shaving their heads for attention. Doesn't she ever think about anything except herself? (You know how many people with cancer would LOVE to have hair, and she just buzzes it off.) I think she just feels sorry for herself too much for the measly problems. I have to admit it, but I am being critical of her, it is because she is soooo ungrateful for everything. God forgive me, but I am sooo annoyed with it.

 

linds99 - February 20

angelkitty, when are you gonna test girl??? come on...february is nearly over now, we need one positive this month from this thread....we haven't had one yet so far this year!!

 

TTC#3@35 - February 20

Thanks girls! Your positive thoughts brings my spirit up.
LM3 - I should be 11-12dpo. we have been seriously ttc just for 4 cycles but not preventing it for oh about 7 cycles..I hope I tested early! How long have your cycles been?

If you didnt know my soon to be dh is a paraplegic & my ob/gyn was just like.. it wont happen naturally so just go see a RE but Im trying to have faith it will. His semen analysis wasn't that bad (I thought).. considered low but they told him that he probably wouldn't have ANY alive sperm.. But he did!
Thanks angelkitty!
JB - it is soooo tough to hold out! good luck to you

 

angelkitty - February 20

Linds, I will test on Thursday - my birthday!!!! (It's my birthday, its my birthday). Does anyone know if having an abundance of cm is a sign of pregnancy? Just curious.

 

linds99 - February 20

I remember I tested the day after my birthday on Christmas Eve...ahh, it was such a beautiful moment while it lasted. Actually, I had tonnnnnnns of cm when I tested and the weeks after that, it was very watery and then had a yellow tinge to it after a week or two, as the doctor said it was the mucous plug building up. So I think that was a minimal sign for me.

 

lovemy3 - February 21

good evening all. Feeling like my af is around the corner..maybe in the a.m. Not here yet, but getting crampy etc. Surprisingly feeling ok about it though. Hope you are well. I'll keep ya posted if it shows Hugs.

 

angelkitty - February 21

Hi there Ladies!!! Lovemy3, how are you? What is going on with you? You have not been your usual self? If I can make it through today ladies I will test tomorrow. :o)

 

TTC#3@35 - February 21

Lm3 - Im feeling the same.. ive been sooo crabby & snappy like ive never seen before & little crampy here & there SO im sure its back to the drawing board..
Im glad your feeling good about everything.. Send me some of your positive attitude PLEASE.
Happy Birthday anglekitty if I forget on Thursday & ++++++ thoughts to you for a BFP!
ttc 12-13dpo

 

lovemy3 - February 21

Hi all. Angelkitty...I am feeling stressed about the whole school thing. My kids are in the public school system and it is working fine for them. Academically doing really well, friends (although none Christian in there classes) and involved in sports etc and its about 3 minutes from home. We can walk. Now a little school that has always been in existence around 20 minutes away( driving) is moving into our Church, which is a brand new lovely building. So I am torn and losing sleep over whether or not I should switch them My youngest 2 are just starting school this year and don't know anything ifeerent but my eldest dd will be going into 7trh grade and has always been in the public system. We can afford private school but it is sooo small. There would only be 6 kids in 1st grade, compared to 25-30 in public. Small numbers are great, but thats really small and they would be going to school with the same kids for the next 10 years and these are the ame kids they go to church with. But here in Canada God is pretty much completely out of our school system, no Lords prayer, no grace before lunch and no Bible at all. Science is taught from evolution and the Family Unit is also very different. So I am so torn. My kids attend Sunday school and a mid week program and we are heavily involved and teaching our kids at home, but I just keep thinking why would I send my kids 30 hours per week to place with no God? I get the whole salt and light stuff, but I don;t thinkj its the role of a 5 yr old. I like to think of them as Seedlings, and little baby plants are kept sheltered in greenhouses till the are big enough? We are in a small town and my kids public school only has about 300 kids, so its not like we are downtown in a school of 1000s. Our town is low key and I'm not concerned really about safety etc but about the God stuff. Forming the foundation now when they are young. Soooooo, now that you asked LOL, thats whats on my mind, what do you think?

 

lovemy3 - February 21

Hi TTC, How are you this a.m? Did af arrive? Mine hasn't yet, but I have been having cycles up to 34 days lately, so really mine isn't late yet. With my other kids, I remember I got all the syptoms of my af but no af and was pregnant, so hang in there. I do rememeber having more cm, Each month after I ov, I become very dry and thayts why I never think I'm BFP cuz I am dry again this month and when I have been preg. I have lots of cm. Thats really it here, are you going to retest. With my middle dd, I never got a bfp till cd40! I started testing on cd28 and it never showed BFP till then. With my last ds it showed on cd26 using a firdst response test. I have given up spending the money and am waiting it out. Keep us posted. What happening with everybody else? Tink, JB? Also, I am at 12 lb weight loss!

 

angelkitty - February 21

LM3 - I agree with you about our children being seeds - you need to plant them where they will grow up to be what they are supposed to be. ALso remember what scripture says about train a child up in the way it should go and it will not depart from those ways. If you can afford it I say put them in a Christian school. Pray about it and get in agreement with your dh and do what the Lord is leading you to do. Congrats on the 12 lbs!!!!! That is awesome!!!! I was wondering about the abundance of cm - I do not think I have ever had this much cm at the end of my cycle. Kind of weird. But you know what - if we get pregnant this month it will be the right time and if we do not it will not be the right time. Does that make sense? We have done what we need to do on our end and now it is up to God to move. He has a great plan and He knows the right timing.

 

JB0405 - February 21

LOVE-I wanted to add my 2 cents in about school with your kids. Since the younger 2 don't really know
any different, why not start them in the private school and leave the eldest in the public school? The eldest
will still get the Godly teachings at Sunday school. What do you think?

 

angelkitty - February 21

JB - how are you doing girl? Just waiting to test? I am thinking about you - just a few more days girl. :o)

 

JB0405 - February 21

LOVE- CONGRATS on the 12lb weight loss. What have you been doing to lose weight? ANGEL- Good Luck! As for me, I felt some af symptoms last night but nothing today! I am trying to remain positive... 5 more days! Usually around Sat/Sun is where my hopes are dashed. Please keep me in your thoughts. Tink is doing very well, I am surpised she hasn't posted here yet. I am sure she is making her rounds!

 

JB0405 - February 21

HI ANGEL!!!!! I am nervous, anxious, scared, etc.

 

JB0405 - February 21

Sorry Ladies, correction... Tink is a little down today. So when she does come around, she'll need some boosting!

 

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