2ww driving yhou crazy- Part 9
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angelkitty - November 28

When a man loves a woman is one of my favorite movies!! I think Andy Garcia is awesome!!! Sounds like we are both blessed women!!! OK ladies, I have to fess up - I made my appt today for the specialist. It is for January 15th. I am excited and nervous and sad and a lot of other emotions right now. I am not on the rollercoaster or anything. I just have a lot of emotions going on right now. :o)

 

linds99 - November 28

You did? I'm happy for you and I'm sorry that it has come to this too. I remember when i made the call to the fertility center and how i cried in my car in the parking lot of a 7-11 while it was raining last April after admitting defeat after 6-months of trying and nothing. I was so angry and hopeful at the same time. Anyway, didn't you already have your gynecologist tell you last month that 'nothing is wrong with you?' And that he wouldn't give you Clomid? How did you get him to refer you to an RE if he refused to give you drugs?

 

angelkitty - November 28

Yes, my gyno did not want to give me drugs. He says he is not worried about anything but he wants me to trust him and wanted me to go to a specialist if it would make me feel better. I just think we should jump on other testing just in case there are things we may not be aware of. I do not want to wait too long - does that make sense? Linds, do you think I am jumping the gun here? If you do tell me. I take my vitamins, I am not overweight, I ovulate, I walk, dh's s/a is good, we bd at the right times - I just do not understand it. I wonder if it could be hormone related.

 

angelkitty - November 28

I know what you mean about crying and feeling defeated. It's tough and it hurts. I believe we become stronger through our challenges and I believe Gods hand is on life every step of the way but it does not mean we hurt any less does it? I just never thought I would be in this position. Never in a million years.

 

linds99 - November 28

No, I don't think by any means you are jumping the gun. Actually, I went to my gynecologist after 6 months of trying and I showed her 5-months of temperature taking and we both determined via my temp data that I had a hormone problem. And I am only 29, which they say wait for a year of trying on your own...but I didn't do that, I knew something was up. I think becuase I had hard data-my temps recorded for numerous months- I felt confident I needed help. Have you taken your temps at all? Have you used ovulation predictor kits? I say you be very aggressive this month and in January by doing these things if you are not. If you go to an RE, the probably will wait for the January 15th cycle to be over before they do the standard tests on the tubes and blood tests on the hormones the next cycle. So we are probably looking at early February (based on getting your period in late January early February) before you will find out if you have hormone issues or not. So that gives you December and January to try, try, try.

 

lovemy3 - November 29

Hi all, Angelkitty, sorry you are feeling down. Maybe you will get more answers with the specialist. I'm feeling that way too. Looking at my age tick on, thinking gosh, I will be 38 in may and if I don't concieve till then I will be almost 39. And that leads into the thoughts of Downs etc. I almost feel like I could be done ttcing. Am feeling more peace about letting it go and moving on. I really am. Thats it here. We have definately decided not to do any fertility treatments. I don't htink I'm up for it emotionally and physically and just trying to keep our household flowing along with my other 3, so we have made a decision about that anyhow. My youngest has turned 3 as well so time ticks on. We'll see what happens in the next few months. Dh has agreed to vasectomy in june after I turn 38. Try and hang in there, time is on your side at least. And rememeber when you have God on your side Pray Big!!! Linds, your cycle time is approaching, Dec1 is at the end of this wee, what is the plan? pam, how are you? JB, how are you doing? ttyl

 

JB0405 - November 29

Hey my ladies... I always knew that I would have issues getting pregnant. My old general dr would always ask, are you working on getting pregnant? I was in my early to mid 20's. I understood the magnification but I was still living at home, etc. My dh and I had no fear of me becoming pregnant since we knew I had issues. I started seeing my current dr back in February and started treatments shortly after, in 3 mths it will officially be a year of trying with dr help... in reality we have never tried to prevent it, so I have been trying for 6 years. I am on CD29 today! Looking forward to a BFP!!

 

Tink - November 29

Linds- you are right, it is ICSI. we might have to do that wtih IVF, if we get to IVF (doing two more injectable cycles first). Dh's sperm was slightly below avg on morphology, and while they said it shouldn't be our problem and shouldn't be preventing our success, it very well could be, since nothing else seems to be the problem.

oh and my DH is definitely a power seeker. he does love his family, but is very career driven and ambitious. i have no doubt he will be a multi millionaire one day.

 

JB0405 - November 29

I have to share this with you guys... when DH got home on Monday and I was home resting after IUI... he asked me how many sperm were inseminated, so I told him, 84 million, he had me rolling, talking about yeah, I'm good like that! LOL!! I had to tell him to calm down and deflate that big head! LOL!! He cracks me up all the time!

 

JB0405 - November 29

Sorry Tink I didn't see your post before, I don't mean to sound as if I am bragging about DH's sperm count! It popped in my head and I thought the situation was funny... forgive my insensativity!

 

Kristina924 - December 10

what exactly does 2ww and bfp mean?

 

lyric - December 10

hi Kristina924- 2ww = two week wait and BFP= big fat pregnant.

 

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