24 month of trying and tired of waiting
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mommy2josh - April 17

DH & I have been trying to conceive #2 for 24 months. Three rounds of clomid resulting in a pregnancy which resulted in a M/C at 6 weeks. Nothing wrong with either of us. Not getting pregnant is driving me nuts. In the last 24 months my best friend had 2 kids and all that with one ovary. How is that normal. I find myself staring at every pregnant woman. Anyone else out there with baby envy? Sometimes I make myself sick. Please tell me I am not alone.

 

treysmommy - April 17

You are certainly not alone. I have a 3 year old and have been trying to conceive #2 for a while now. I'm not taking clomid or anything. It's like everywhere I go I see pregnant women. I'm like, is it a sign or something. I O'd last week, and I'm waiting until next week to test. Well, wish me luck. And GOOD LUCK to you...

 

mommy2josh - April 17

Hi treysmommy, thanks for responding. Sometimes I feel like I am all alone here. All the young women in my circle are getting pregnant by just standing close to their husbands at the time of ovulation. NOT FAIR. I am on cd 29 and am feeling kind of sick to my stomache and bb's are hurting. I am refusing to take a HPT, cause I just know how that will come out. I am ranting and I am sorry. Good luck next week. .... By the way are you taking anything eg. Clomid?

 

na25 - April 17

Hello treysmommy and mommy2josh:)
I am here to join u. I already talked to treysmommy about my case. My son is 5yr and I have been try for #2 since april 2005. Nothing yet. But this time I feel different and have many symptoms. So, not sure. Hope this is it! By the way I am on Ovulex since April 5th 2006. So, we all are trying for #2 and seems to be not that easy. I know excatly what you mean about seeing pregnant women all around. That's because we always think about pregnancy and we seem to notice pregnant women lots more than before. But it will happen for us soon, I hope!

 

mommy2josh - April 18

Hi na25. How long did it take you guys with your first. It took me 18 months to get pregs with my son. I went to doc got Clomid, filled the prescription and waited for the AF to started. Well 8 months later here comes baby. I really thought it would be easier for the second time. Boy was I wrong. If i knew it would actually take longer the second time, I wouldn't have waited 2 1/2 years to start trying again. I am 29, my DH is 43, so we dont have that much time. He wants more kids while he can still enjoy them and be a hands on dad. (sometimes I think he will end up with a stroke from all the bd, hahaha). lots and lots and lots of luck to us all.

 

treysmommy - April 18

Hi again, well with my first child, it took about 6 months for us to conceive. I have no idea why its taking so long with this one. I'm really frustrated and excited all in one. No I'm not taking anything. I'm kind of scared to take all those fertility drugs. My husband and I are both 26 and you would think that we could get pregnant easy the second time around. But hopefully this it is.

 

na25 - April 18

Hi mommy2josh and treysmommy,
for my first one took me about 6-7 months. But it's been 5 years ago, sooo...Can't wait for that second one!!!!!!!!! Today i have some headache + feeling so sleepy and tired. GOOD LUCK !!!!!!!!

 

na25 - April 18

Stay in touch!!!

 

mommy2josh - April 18

Hey guys, what have you heard about Cheri and her predictions. I wrote to her and she responded by telling me that she sees a girl and a month of June, and that for some reason she feels that its very important that I take my prenatal vitamins. She does seem to have a good aura. Let me know if you think I'm nuts, but at this point I will take any good vibes I can get :). Keeping my fingers crossed for you ladies. xoxoxo

 

treysmommy - April 19

HELLO AGAIN MOMMY2JOSH. WELL, CHERI EMAILED ME BACK LASTNIGHT AND TOLD ME THAT MAY WAS MY MONTH TO EITHER CONCEIVE OR FIND OUT AND IT WOULD BE A GIRL. SO HOPEFULLY SHE IS RIGHT. I TOOK A TEST TODAY AND IT WAS NEGATIVE BUT I THINK I TESTED WAY TOO EARLY. WHAT DO YOU THINK?

 

treysmommy - April 19

BY THE WAY, WHERE ARE YOU GUYS FROM? I'M FROM LOUISIANA BUT LIVING IN THE DC/MARYLAND AREA.

 

mommy2josh - April 19

Good morning treysmommy. First of all I really hope that Cheri is the real thing, and from her mouth to gods ears. :). What cycle day are you? I am on cd 32 and am refusin to test untill at least day 36-37. I am so sick of BFN I cant even tell you. How long are your cycles usually? Hey a month of may is only 11 days away :). Good luck.

 

mommy2josh - April 19

You are a long way from home treysmommy. I am from New York City, but originally I am from the former USSR. Were you guys affected by Katrina, I mean where you are from Louisiana?

 

treysmommy - April 19

Good Morning... I am on cd21. My cycles are usually 30 days. Which means my next one is due on the 28th. I am going to wait until maybe 2 days before my cycle is due before I test again. I know I'm a long ways from home and I miss it so much. Luckily, we were here when Katrina hit. And thank God my family back home didn't get hit. But we are moving in August to Texas. My hubby is in the Navy and we are getting stationed there for 6 years. So I'll be closer to home then. Anyway, how many times did u email Cheri? I only did once. I want to try again and see if she tells me the same answer. Let's hope she's right about us. But do you think that I tested too early?

 

mommy2josh - April 19

treysmommy, you definately, definately tested too early. If your periiods are more or les regular then I would wait untill u r at least 2 days late, if you are not regular and your cycles are wacky like mine, then wait a wekk after AF is due.

 

mommy2josh - April 19

Sorry, pressed submit a little ealy. I sent Cheri only one message, and she responded within an hour. I am a sceptic by nature, (i think it has something to do with my communist upbringing hahaha), but as i said before, i will take anything to keep my hopes up, whether its true or not. Baby dust, baby dust, baby dust.

 

mommy2josh - April 20

Hi guys. Well I didn't wait until cd36 to test, my hubby made me do it last night. As usual I got BFN. I was very disappointed, but that is becoming a usual thing for me. I hope that you guys get you BFP's this month. na25, I ordered my dh AMBEROZ today, (did you hubby have any side effects from it?). May be his age is affecting the little swimmers. Good luck, and please keep in touch and let me know how u r. Baby dust and BFP's to you.

 

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