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I am deeply depressed im just about two months pregnant , in which i am high risk , there is no garantee i will have this one , i've had about 4 miscarriages and im relying on this one to be born , my husband has 4 kids from other relashionship , so he didn't want anymore kids . Well now when i most need him , and have so many complications he acts like he doesn't care , we used to get along our relashionship was good , until my pregnancy chaged us completely . Im in a deep depression i feel the person i mostly trusted gave me his back , I go to the doctors alone cause he doesn't seem to be interested in going with me . Last night we argued over other issues and he accpeted in a way he doesn't care for this baby , knowing im struggling to have it . Im really not looking for anwsers only some support can someone please help me beofre i drop .
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In each married couple, one way or another, one day the natural question of planning offspring arises.
The birth of a baby is a huge joy and responsibility. It will change your whole future life! However, without a child, at least one, the family can hardly be called a family in full.
Just do a girl or a woman if her husband does not want children. Before falling into despair, understand once and for all: if the husband does not want the baby, it does not mean that he does not love you.
So do not rush to blame him and blame him for not feeling true to you.
For a woman, a kid is happiness, boundless tenderness, a sweet creature, an angel, boundless love. For a man, a baby is a strange alien who do not understand human speech, screaming and pissing. It's just that women and men have different perceptions that are not bad at all!
Very often a man does not want a child for this simple reason. He is afraid that his usual world will become different, and the appearance of a child is forever!
Very often a man does not want a child for this simple reason. He is afraid that his usual world will become different, and the appearance of a child is forever!
If you think that in your case the reason is exactly this, then you will have to be patient. The main thing - remember one thing: no threats, reproaches, and especially deception!
A man is so arranged by nature - he does not want change. Men tend to create and retain a "comfort zone", so they are stable and faithful to their wives.
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