moral issues
4 Replies
kate - January 11

hi, im 17 and have been doing the stupid thing, having unprotected sex, clearly i know that its wrong considerings i dont want to get pregnant, i went to the doctors and got the pill, but i ant start it until my next period which is due on the 28-30th of jan, ive been experiencing early pregnancy symptoms, but ive heard that preg symptoms are common with alot of illnesses, so im sceptical, but im having a moral dilema, what should i do if i am pregnant?, i feel guilty about those who are unable to get pregnant but want to, and id feel terrible abusing my ability to have children but not wanting to have one, i dont know if anyone can help me with this issue, but some insight or advice would be very much appreciated. dont get me wrong id be over the moon if i was, but id be scared if i had a child now that i wouldnt be able to give it the perfect upbringing, if that makes sense. please help me, i know that i dont know you guys but id really like someone to give me some guidance.


JenG - January 12

What are your symptoms? When was you last period? Generally, you will not have symptoms until AFTER your period was due if you were pregnant, so I would not worry at this point. Just use a Condom from here on out with your BCPs. You have to protect yourself from STD as well. 1 in 6 have some kind of STD. Given when you think your period is due... right now MAY be a fertile time for you, so take care and use a condom. I can't anwser if you end of pregnant... this is a personal decision.


kate - January 16

ok, thanks alot. its good to know that there are people out there who are willing to listen and lend a helping hand.


Mel - September 11

practically speaking, you're too young to be a mom. but if you are already pregnant, please be responsible enough to continue your pregnancy.


natalika2017 - November 13

In our younger years, we often make many mistakes. Often it happens in sex. I have a girlfriend I know. She is 15 years old and she is pregnant. She once had sex without a condom. She really wants to give birth to this child. He already loves him. And the second girl has sex regularly with different men. She was many times pregnant and was constantly doing surgery. She does not want children categorically. They will interfere with her free life. Now she already has several diseases from this problem. Of course, this is your life. You decide how to conduct it. In 10-15 years you will think about it differently. Therefore, people will give different advice. Only you can make the right choice.



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